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Inequality of the Sexes

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Monday, January 29, 2007 4:14 PM

ANTHONYT

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Inequality of the Sexes

Hey all,

I was inspired to write based on something I read in the "I love America" thread.

Someone mentioned that women still don't have equal employment opportunity to men in this country.

I don't know any statistics or how they are derived, but my personal lifetime experience has not been thus.

I work for a Bank. My wife works for the same Bank.

She has been working for this bank for about the same time that I have.

We have identical schooling and we are the same age. She's much better at her job than I am. She dedicates herself fully to the job, and goes that extra mile.

That's why she's gotten promoted twice, and earns more money than me.

When I got hired by this bank, my Supervisor was a female. Eventually, I got a new supervisor. Also female. Then a third supervisor... Female. I am now on my fourth supervisor and this one is a male.

But his boss, the assistant vice president, is female.

Before this assistant vice president was in charge, the previous assistant vice president was a female.

The president of my entire division of the bank is a female.

This is a hundred-year old banking institution, traditionally seen in popular entertainment as being run by old-timey sexist males.

Before I had this job, I worked for a telemarketing company as a quality assurance representative. My boss was a female. She was replaced eventually with a male. That male was finally replaced by a female. THEIR boss (vice president of the company) was a female.

Before the telemarketing job, I worked as a security dispatcher for a hospital. My immediate supervisor was a female. Her boss was a male.

Before the security dispatching job for the hospital, I had a security dispatching job for a major security firm providing luxury condominium security. My first boss was female, though most of my co-workers and all of my subsequent bosses there were male. It might have been because of a male-sexist environment, but if so, I never saw it. I never heard any conversations or suggestions about keeping women 'down.' I also noted that very few applicants were female. I've always attributed the low percentage of female employees to the low percentage of female applicants. Perhaps a near-minimum wage security job wasn't attractive to the average female? I don't know.

Before that, I worked as a Police Department dispatcher. My immediate supervisor was female. HER supervisor was female. The lieutenant in charge of the communications department was Male.

Before that, I worked as a salesman at Radio Shack. My first store Manager was male, but my second and longest-serving store Manager was female.

As I look back into my life, I can not draw upon any personal experiences where I noted that women were denied opportunities for advancement. I have never seen the ceiling that keeps good women down. I have never heard the back-room discussions about preventing women from reaching success.

Have I just led a very odd life with a miracle career path? Or has the legend of the female glass ceiling persisted past the reality of it?

--Anthony

"Liberty must not be purchased at the cost of Humanity." --Captain Robert Henner

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Monday, January 29, 2007 4:49 PM

THATWEIRDGIRL


I don't have any stats in front of me, but I've seen it. I've seen men get better raises. Not everywhere, but it does still exist in places.

The field I see it most is politics. I can name a dozen countries that have twice the percent of women in high leadership positions. We have about the same percentage as France. Cuba, China, Vietnam, Rwanda, and Norway are just a few that have a greater percentage of women in charge than we do.

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Monday, January 29, 2007 4:56 PM

ANTHONYT

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Quote:

Originally posted by thatweirdgirl:
I don't have any stats in front of me, but I've seen it. I've seen men get better raises. Not everywhere, but it does still exist in places.

The field I see it most is politics. I can name a dozen countries that have twice the percent of women in high leadership positions. We have about the same percentage as France. Cuba, China, Vietnam, Rwanda, and Norway are just a few that have a greater percentage of women in charge than we do.

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Sometimes I lie awake at night, and I ask, "Where have I gone wrong?" Then a voice says to me, "This is going to take more than one night."
-- Charlie Brown




Since politics isn't merit based, but rather popularity based... does that mean that women are less popular in the US than in other countries?

--Anthony

"Liberty must not be purchased at the cost of Humanity." --Captain Robert Henner

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Monday, January 29, 2007 5:03 PM

THATWEIRDGIRL


I think so. The voters haven't been behind the women...is it the particular candidates or the public? Don't know.

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Monday, January 29, 2007 10:31 PM

THEKNIGHT


I for my part happen to think it is a case of the candidates as opposed to the public. If a woman candidate were to emerge that were a great uniter (is that even a word) as opposed to some of the prominent females in politics we have today; I mean Hillary Clinton is the largest fund raiser for both sides of the isle (and not in a lets all elect her sort of way, but in an adversarial mode from the right); then I think there would be more women in the highest echelons of our government. (talk about run on sentences) It just seems to me the women that are prominent in American politics today are more polarizing forces. I mean look at who the prominent women politicos have been for the past few years, Clinton, Dole, Rice, Boxer. Not exactly the kind of people who stray far from the edges. So the problem seems to be with the candidates. I think the public will elect individuals based more on merit than on gender. Even in the state of Louisiana, where many thought they would never see a female governor, they voted in a woman. Mind you she screwed up the job royally and will be gone later this year (or at least that is what i hope), they still elected a woman. So if we see non polarizing women up for office, I would imagine them getting elected.

Hong Kong- the 'verse of the tomorrow, here today.

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Tuesday, January 30, 2007 2:08 PM

FREMDFIRMA


It's not gone completely away, no.

Spend any time at all working with the dino-grunts of the auto industry and you'll come away quite disgusted.

My girl was at one time was the management of a section of Cameron-Barkley, and for no other factor than she was female, was paid less than the Janitor of the place... on top of that certain actions by the company recently following that caused an exodus of 90% of the female staff of that ENTIRE department and follow-up legal action - lather, rinse, repeat several times...

She doesn't work for the auto industry no more, but does the same job with a different industry, ironically, a japanese company that, in spite of the general perception, doesn't specifically underpay or undervalue women - they just do so to everyone equally.

It's quite thankfully a fading problem, but here and there it still exists.

I would think, due in great part to better memory of specific details, that women in legal and financial professions are actually quite competitive, our state Governor and former States Attorney, Ms. Granholm is actually quite good at either job, and not half bad at politics neither.

-Frem

It cannot be said enough, those who do not learn from history, are doomed to endlessly repeat it

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Tuesday, January 30, 2007 2:28 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


I think the higher up you go the worse it gets. Here is one example:
Quote:

Barres’ experience as a female-to-male transgendered person led him to write a pointed commentary in the July 13 issue of Nature rebuking the comments of former Harvard University president Lawrence Summers that... the dearth of women in the upper levels of science is rooted in biology. Marshalling scientific evidence as well as drawing from personal experience, Barres maintained that, contrary to Summers’ remarks, the lack of women in the upper reaches of research has more to do with bias than aptitude.

“This is a street fight,” said Barres, MD, PhD, professor of neurobiology and of developmental biology and of neurology and neurological sciences at the Stanford University School of Medicine, referring to the gang of male academics and pundits who have attacked women scientists critical of arguments about their alleged biological inferiority... After he began living as a man in 1997, Barres overheard another scientist say, “Ben Barres gave a great seminar today, but his work is much better than his sister’s work.”

From Barres’ perspective the only thing that changed is his ability to cry. Other than the absence of tears, he feels exactly the same. His science is the same, his interests are the same and he feels the quality of his work is unchanged.

That he could be treated differently by people who think of him as a woman, as a man or as a transgendered person makes Barres angry. What’s worse is that some women don’t recognize that they are treated differently because, unlike him, they’ve never known anything else.

The irony, Barres said, is that those who argue in favor of innate differences in scientific ability do so without scientific data to explain why women make up more than half of all graduate students but only 10 percent of tenured faculty. ... “I am certain that all of the proponents of the Larry Summers hypothesis are well-meaning and fair-minded people,” he wrote in his Nature commentary. Yet because we all grew up in a culture that holds men and women to different standards, people are blind to their inherent biases, Barres said.

In his commentary Barres points to data from a range of studies showing bias in science. For example, when a mixed panel of scientists evaluated grant proposals without names, men and women fared equally well. However, competing unblinded, a woman applying for a research grant needed to be three times more productive than men to be considered equally competent.... “Most people do think there is a level playing field despite all the data to the contrary,”

There's more, but you get the idea.

http://mednews.stanford.edu/releases/2006/july/barres.html


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Tuesday, January 30, 2007 2:38 PM

ANTHONYT

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Wow.

Maybe It's because of my career path in the lower echelons of society that I haven't noticed the problem? Are things more equal the closer you get to a High School diploma and minimum wage?

--Anthony

"Liberty must not be purchased at the cost of Humanity." --Captain Robert Henner

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Tuesday, January 30, 2007 2:48 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


Yes, I think so. Girls generally do better in school than boys, and so they make up a higher % of HS graduates. They also tend to do better in college. It seems to me that women can do reasonably well up to about supervisor/ middle manager... altho lack of support from husband is still a significant problem ... but it falls apart when you get into tenured professorship, CEO/ CFO/ CIO, partner, and Board Member territory.

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Tuesday, January 30, 2007 4:09 PM

FREMDFIRMA


IMOP, you just completely nailed it, in spades, Siggy.

My girl's been trying to crack that barrier for a while, and after six companies in the auto industry promoted men who weren't even qualified (one even lacked ANY degree) over her for those positions, and the one girl they DID promote was as a reward for oral sex, to be downright blunt - it became pretty obvious that's where the ceiling was within that industry.

Conversely, within the current industry, which for obvious reasons I will not name specifically, the only sure route to job security is to become pregnant in order to prevent them from dumping you two weeks before you're vested - EVERY female employee remaining but one has done so to date, which...

While I feel that such is a minor misuse of the relative laws, and a bad way to start into parenthood, worse is repeatedly dumping employees two weeks before they're vested.

I look at the sheer viciousness of the white collar world, and thank the gods that I drive a cab - we mostly solve OUR little problems behind the shed, yanno ?

-Frem

It cannot be said enough, those who do not learn from history, are doomed to endlessly repeat it

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Tuesday, June 26, 2007 1:34 PM

RUE

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http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070620/ap_on_re_us/wal_mart_sued;_ylt=AsV
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PITTSFIELD, Mass. - A pharmacist who claimed she was fired by Wal-Mart after asking to be paid the same as her male colleagues has won a nearly $2 million award against the retail giant.


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Tuesday, June 26, 2007 2:18 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


You go, girl!

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Tuesday, June 26, 2007 3:02 PM

KANEMAN


Quote:

Originally posted by AnthonyT:
Inequality of the Sexes

Hey all,

I was inspired to write based on something I read in the "I love America" thread.

Someone mentioned that women still don't have equal employment opportunity to men in this country.

I don't know any statistics or how they are derived, but my personal lifetime experience has not been thus.

I work for a Bank. My wife works for the same Bank.

She has been working for this bank for about the same time that I have.

We have identical schooling and we are the same age. She's much better at her job than I am. She dedicates herself fully to the job, and goes that extra mile.

That's why she's gotten promoted twice, and earns more money than me.

When I got hired by this bank, my Supervisor was a female. Eventually, I got a new supervisor. Also female. Then a third supervisor... Female. I am now on my fourth supervisor and this one is a male.

But his boss, the assistant vice president, is female.

Before this assistant vice president was in charge, the previous assistant vice president was a female.

The president of my entire division of the bank is a female.

This is a hundred-year old banking institution, traditionally seen in popular entertainment as being run by old-timey sexist males.

Before I had this job, I worked for a telemarketing company as a quality assurance representative. My boss was a female. She was replaced eventually with a male. That male was finally replaced by a female. THEIR boss (vice president of the company) was a female.

Before the telemarketing job, I worked as a security dispatcher for a hospital. My immediate supervisor was a female. Her boss was a male.

Before the security dispatching job for the hospital, I had a security dispatching job for a major security firm providing luxury condominium security. My first boss was female, though most of my co-workers and all of my subsequent bosses there were male. It might have been because of a male-sexist environment, but if so, I never saw it. I never heard any conversations or suggestions about keeping women 'down.' I also noted that very few applicants were female. I've always attributed the low percentage of female employees to the low percentage of female applicants. Perhaps a near-minimum wage security job wasn't attractive to the average female? I don't know.

Before that, I worked as a Police Department dispatcher. My immediate supervisor was female. HER supervisor was female. The lieutenant in charge of the communications department was Male.

Before that, I worked as a salesman at Radio Shack. My first store Manager was male, but my second and longest-serving store Manager was female.

As I look back into my life, I can not draw upon any personal experiences where I noted that women were denied opportunities for advancement. I have never seen the ceiling that keeps good women down. I have never heard the back-room discussions about preventing women from reaching success.

Have I just led a very odd life with a miracle career path? Or has the legend of the female glass ceiling persisted past the reality of it?

--Anthony

"Liberty must not be purchased at the cost of Humanity." --Captain Robert Henner



Antont...Why do I think you are your wife

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Tuesday, June 26, 2007 3:53 PM

RUE

I have a vote and I'm not afraid to use it!


AnthonyT,

Pay no attention. Where've you been ?

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Tuesday, June 26, 2007 4:03 PM

ELLEN


It's like any social change - and this is a big one, that men and women can be "equal" - it's going to take time. My FIRST DAY in college, in an engineering class (30 years ago), I had a professor tell me I was taking a space that a man should have. I looked at the other 2 women in the room, and we weren't mad... we were scared to death. I find it highly amusing now, but back then we grew to expect it. If someone said something like that to me now, I'd tear into them like a monkey on a cupcake!

Just saying - things ARE getting better. Don't give up, but don't take everything personally. We're talking major cultural changes here.

- Ellen

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