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Male and Female Imponderables – She Blinded me with Science

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 11:36 AM

PENGUIN


A new thread in Tristan's stead.

The last thread... http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=2&t=23213

Please continue!



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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 11:43 AM

RUGBUG


Oh, oh, oh...me first. I never get to be first.

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 11:45 AM

PENGUIN




Yay! RugBug is first!


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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 12:02 PM

ZEEK


Has time slowed down everywhere in the world or is this totally localized to my office alone. Why won't this day end!?!

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 12:06 PM

RUGBUG


It's not just your office, Zeek.

I've been waiting what feels like a lifetime to go home. It's only 3:00 here. (I'm thanking my lucky stars I get to leave at 3:30).

Someone say something funny/interesting/intriguing/controversial so this last half hour will fly by. ENTERTAIN ME!!!!!




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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 12:23 PM

ZEEK


Quote:

Originally posted by RugBug:
Someone say something funny/interesting/intriguing/controversial so this last half hour will fly by. ENTERTAIN ME!!!!!


Fine you want controversial...you got it. How about a new restaurant that partners with an abortion clinic to serve aborted fetus omlets as a delicacy to the rich?


How's that for controversial? Thankfully this was not my idea. It was the sick (hopefully) joke that some guy I know came up with. Note: I didn't say some friend of mine.

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 12:30 PM

TRISTAN


Hello, all! Not on long...just got home and I'm brain dead...thanks for continuing the thread. If I can get some time later, I'll pop back on...

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 3:39 PM

TRAVELER


How about a song.

I am really getting into songs lately.

Take me now baby here as I am
Pull me close try and understand
Desire is hunger is the fire I breathe
Love is a banquet on which I feed

Have I dought when I'm alone
Love is a ring, the telephone
Love is a angel disguised as lust
Here in my bed til the morning comes

Come on now try and understand
The way I feel under your command
Come take my hand as the sun descends
And you can touch me now
Because the night belongs to lovers

Album: Easter
Band: Patti Smith Group
Written?: Smith / Springsteen

traveler

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 3:46 PM

BIGWOLF18


ummmm, what is this exactly?

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 3:55 PM

JAMESTHEDARK


I'm in kinda a good mood, at the moment. My soul-crushing job has just ended, and I'm free. FREEEEE! Of course, fate seems to want to balance every possible yay with a $@#%@#$%@#$@%%@$%*%! experience, so instead of hopping into my car and driving away, it turned out my car was about as mobile as an extremely nimble dead thing. So that left me a dozen or so clicks away from home, in the dead of night.
Without access to any phones.
Damn it...
Well, after kicking the ever living hell out of a plastic bottle in a rare bout of rage, I managed to run down a coworker as he was leaving. Of course, he had to fetch his cables to give me a boost.



Well, that's over and done with. Back to wherever it is I go from here.

As an imponderable- What would you do if you discovered a friend (female, in my case) was being short changed sexually?
A young woman working in the same building as I do admitted to me that she never had an orgasm. She's only 19, and hasn't been active very long, but in 7 months, she hasn't had one. Hell, until talking to me, she didn't even realize she was missing out. I ended up spending most of the day (my last, coincidentally) telling her some of the obviously overlooked facts of life. The situation boggled my mind. Cripes, that made me feel old, having to tell her those things. I'm only 2 years older than she is...

Has this situation ever occured to you (as the unfortunate), or around you (as the surprised onlooker)?

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 3:56 PM

WHITEFALL


In response to bigwolf:

The song? I dunno. But because i'm not entirely sure if you come by often, maybe you mean the thread. At this point, this thread is the 'i'm bored and need entertainment' thread...

Usually we talk about various gender things, in relationships and stuff, and we have a pretty good male/female/ split.

And if you meant this board, it's a fan based board here to help promote firefly and keep its fans in contact n stuff.

And if you meant this planet, it's a big ball of rock with a rich, creamy, molten center, that has people and animals living all over it, and they occassionally blow each other up or eat pineapples.

And if you meant this universe/plane of existance... I can't help you, start a meaning of life thread.



"But, these strong women characters?"

"Why aren't you asking 100 other guys why they don't write strong women characters?" -Joss Whedon

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 3:58 PM

BIGWOLF18


i ment the thread.

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 4:18 PM

TRAVELER


What Whitefall said. Mostly talk about relationships. That is why I started with a song about love. To sort of get the ball rolling. Of course I wouldn't mind if they talked about chocolate.

Traveler

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 4:23 PM

ASORTAFAIRYTALE


Oh,okay. I had been wondering the same thing as bigwolf for a while too...thanks for clearing that up!

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 5:19 PM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.


Back!
CK, I've been reading a few books lately, one called "The Paleo Diet" and another called, I think, "More Natural Cures Revealed". Not saying for sure they'd help you out, but I think I remember running across a few things about auto immune disorders and other disorders that can be effected a lot by diet, so you might want to look at those and see if you can change your eating habits and maybe have fewer problems. Just a thought. Since the western medicine and doctors aren't working, you know. That's when my mom always says she needs to take matters into her own hands. It's worked for her; changing her diet has almost completely eliminated her lung problem (she was pre-ashmatic) and she's very happy.
If I found out a female friend of mine was being sexually short-changed, I would say two things needed to change: her attitude and the attitude of her man. And if his attitude wouldn't change, then she needed a different man.
But yes I did say her attitude would need to change, too. Some women are so passive with pleasure, and don't understand that they need to experience and relish it themselves. So many think it's something being done to them (men think this way too; that they're doing everything) rather than something they experience. I recommend heartless-bitches.com for any man or woman who needs to get a clue. Also at one point, far far back in imponderable history, I wrote a little blurb on how I'm able to have upwards of 20 orgasms. I still have it saved at home, but I'm at work right now.
Yes, I do have a friend who, as far as I know, has never had an orgasm. But there are deeply rooted issues tied to that and I don't wanna go into it. I've talked to her about it a lot, but... Yeah, not going into it.
Ok, time to go check in with the Forsaken.


Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth. - Gautama Siddharta

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 5:22 PM

JPSTARGAZER


Alright, I think I have a question (I don't think I've posted an imponderable for about 4 or 5 generations). I read this article on IGN:

http://gear.ign.com/articles/723/723296p1.html

This product got me imponderable-ing. I'd be curious to hear women's input on this little device that makes your music more...stimulating (gives the song "Good Vibrations" a whole new meaning). I mean I've heard stories about girls and video game controllers that vibrate, but I think those are just isolated cases. Could the iPod vibrator be a hit? I don't know if I'll ever look at a girl listening to her iPod on the quad the same way, ever again...



"All I got is a red guitar, three chords, and the truth...the rest is up to you"
--Bono

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 5:22 PM

JPSTARGAZER


More double post craziness...



"All I got is a red guitar, three chords, and the truth...the rest is up to you"
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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 9:55 PM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.


Oh, Whitefall, I wanted to get back on the "samsara" subject. I totally got my words confused. "The art of not being there" is fon du la (I have no idea if I'm spelling that right) and samsara is what you were saying it was; a block to nirvana. Totally confused, so I just wanted to say what I actually meant to say before...


Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth. - Gautama Siddharta

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 10:21 PM

WHITEFALL


fear not, it's all good, i got what you meant.

As for the ipod thing, that disturbs me. If it does what it's implying, it just shocks me how low companies will go to sell things.

It's sort of a market trend, the more desperate companies get, the more they play to the most basic human impulses. In this case, sex. In the case of, lets say reality shows, it's that laughiing-at-others thing (something like that, hard to pinpoint).... Stupid society.

"But, these strong women characters?"

"Why aren't you asking 100 other guys why they don't write strong women characters?" -Joss Whedon

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Tuesday, August 22, 2006 10:37 PM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.


But this ipod... "accesory" is not actually an ipod product, correct?
I honestly don't think it would work too well for me. *ahem* Steady vibration is better, assuming that's my option (which right now it is)


On a totally random note, apparently information doesn't have the correct number for one of the police depts. and instead gives a number for an appartment complex that my company does answering service for. I've gotten two calls thinking they were calling the PD. What. The. Hell.


Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth. - Gautama Siddharta

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 12:00 AM

SPACEANJL


PR - as opposed to the Fire Department?

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 12:12 AM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.


Heh. Nope, don't answer for the Fire Dept either. "Information" really needs to get its information straight! I'm sure glad I have google and can give people the right numbers...


Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth. - Gautama Siddharta

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 1:35 AM

MAGDALENA

"No power in the 'verse can stop me!"


OK - Warning LONG POST - I've got a lot to catch up on being in a very different time zone and all...

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originaly by NVGhostrider
Mags, had no idea of your age until yesterday (not that I took notice ).
Not too much to say at the moment. Left home angry. Does anyone else here have a problem being right ninety percent of the time and realizing that those who are wrong will never take heed of your warnings. I can't stand being right.


Hey NVGR! I never take any notice of my age either Seriously though I was reading this and thinking that it’s so true – it’s so hard to be ‘gracious’ when you know the answer or have the experience or have knowledge that will benefit the other person, but they just don’ want to know! My bugbear is that my boss never admits she’s wrong, nor that I am often right! Not always, but pretty often! Gets me down that! I read about the rest of the saga too… you certainly are in a tough place right now… don’t think I have any pearls of wisdom for you, just hand in there and remember that not everything will be within your power to control. It’s always terrible when there are kids involved and I totally understand your frustration. I also wanted to say a huge “GOOD ON YOU” for taking time off from the alcohol – I have done that from time to time – you get pretty used to drinking when you work in the theatre! I don’t think alcohol is my problem but I have other ‘crutches’ which I am trying to take a break from… it’s never easy – but in making that choice you already have the upper hand!

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originally by Jailbait…
as for looking in the mirror, well, aside from swapping my face for john cusack's i can't think of any way i'd want to change it, i like the way i look ^^


Although John Cusack is the personification of cute *sigh* you really don’t want to do that – coz he’s got more wrinkles than you! Oh and I must say that you can vent any time you like too… sometimes it is helpful to others to put their problems aside for a moment and help someone else… in other words we all need to be needed occasionally! I also suffer from insomnia – and can sleep for 14 hours straight from sheer exhaustion but will spend the next week up all night reading, pacing the floor, staying on FFF.net for way too long I am determined to get it in check, but it’s not easy! Another for you Sweety!

Quote:

Originally posted by California Kaylee
Gah, sorry, just wanted to vent. So yeah, I hate my body for its insides if not its outsides. And I hate doctors for not giving a about how I feel, because they think I don't "look sick".


Oh Honey – you never have to appologise for ‘venting’ here – did you see my moan about my self-image issues… I still blush that I shared so much – but at least we’re among friends here so it’s fine to do so! And as for your doctors… I’d come over and He-Bitch-Man-Slap ‘em for you if I wasn’t so far away! I think you are awesome and a real role model for those of us with fewer physical ailments to cope with. Urgh – auto-immune disorder… simply not fair… not fair at all! You deserve another too

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Originally posted by Rugbug
My own current trials are far less and there have been times I just want to curl up in a ball in the corner....


Hey Rugbug – I totally relate to that sentiment right now – I am not coping with the oddest things, and I have had to admit to myself that I am going through a really tough patch with my depression. I love work and cope well with that most of the time, but family issues are tying me in knots and as for curling up in a ball in the corner…. As long as it’s a warm corner I’m there already – maybe we could share…???

Traveler *sigh* you just are so sweet with the songs – you’d better be careful or I’ll get an e-crush on you! I love that song too! Just keep up the good work!

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Originally by Whitefall
And if you meant this planet, it's a big ball of rock with a rich, creamy, molten center, that has people and animals living all over it, and they occassionally blow each other up or eat pineapples.


Hey! I get it – that’s what it’s all about really isn’t it! Thank you Whitefall – you just made sense of my existence … I think! Life, the universe and everything is worth it just to eat ripe, sweet pineapples!

Hey JamestheDark - Yay on finishing yur soul destroying job - good luck with whatever comes your way next! I am glad that your friend spoke with you - and that you took her seriously! When I was at High School I though sex = orgasm, which is obviously NOT the case! I was fortunate that my first 'all the way' boyfriend knew what he was doing (judging by the look of his ex she might have been a prostitute! She certainly taught him a few tricks!) so I pretty much had orgasms from the start of my sex life! (Lucky me!) A more recent boyfriend had very little experience and I was trying to teach him things without giving him a complex about how 'inexperienced' he was... not a total success... so I never had an orgasm with him unless it was oral... (TMI??) It works both ways I'm sure - sometimes it's the girl not knowing what she's missing out on, sometimes it's the guy not knowing the ways to succeed with a woman... sometimes it's insecurity and the pressure to perform getting the better of one or the other...

Now, that leads us to the OhMiBod! I thought Good Grief what next? But then I remembered that I have a favourite song that always makes me think of the best sex I ever had - long and slow (bit like Mal & Nandi *sigh*) 'Learning to Fly' by Pink Floyd - now that would tempt me... I think!

Oh look it's raining...





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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 3:30 AM

JAMESTHEDARK


I'm not really sure TMI is possible on this board. Of course I took it seriously, though. Those that have the least amount of sex have the most information about it. Sad, but true.

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 3:33 AM

MAGDALENA

"No power in the 'verse can stop me!"


OK... you've got me pegged then James...

It doesn't matter how much you have had James, it's that you don't regret it. That's my ethos and so far I have been selective enough that I don't regret any partner. It means sometimes lengthy periods of celibacy, but I can live with myself and that's the most important thing to me...

Good night Imponderables... Magdalena x x




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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 4:01 AM

MAL4PREZ


Whew - much catching up! I guess I didn't lurk for long, it's hard to do with this thread. I get sucked right in - there goes the work productivity (as if I had any )

Thanks for the gift ideas! I'm a fan of the plasma TV, but I'd have to win the lottery (and fund a new season of FF) first.

I think I'm going with dark chocolate and red wine. He did mention, more than once, how he likes dark chocolate. CDs are great, but I don't know his taste in music yet.

So, I'm just wondering - guys, do you like getting flowers? I love getting flowers, how I see them for days as a reminder of the date. In an ideal gender equal world, the gesture could go both ways. But, as it is, is it too awkward for your tough, masculine selves to get flowers from a woman? Maybe not frilly flowers. Big weird exotic flowers.

James the Dark - congrats on the freedom! That's awesome! And I'm glad you set your friend straight. That's the best thing to do - just let her know there's a problem. PR is right - it's her attitude that's the most important. She has to set a certain level of standards and stick to them! I've been where she is, and it's hard to speak up when you're thinking sex is done to you, instead of knowing you can be active. (Which I find men really like!) So the encouragement helps!

JPstargazer - I'm just laughing over that iPod vibe! Good lord, what will they think next? Though - I don't think it'd be the most effective, but I have to admit to a little curiousity... I loooove music, and combining music and sex? hmmm.

Edit: speaking of this iPod thing - Zeek, when you mentioned toys as a gift, guess which kind of toy I thought of first? Yep, that's where my mind is, LOL!

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 4:10 AM

PENGUIN


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
So, I'm just wondering - guys, do you like getting flowers? I love getting flowers, how I see them for days as a reminder of the date. In an ideal gender equal world, the gesture could go both ways. But, as it is, is it too awkward for your tough, masculine selves to get flowers from a woman? Maybe not frilly flowers. Big weird exotic flowers.



I have been given flowers before and I loved it! A real man (and a penguin too!) appreciates beautiful things!


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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 4:11 AM

MSG


I love my ipod and all, but I don't LOVE my ipod. That's a bit more than I'd like as optional features:) Morning all...sooo tired. I had a really bad night's sleep and now I have to figure out how to function all day and all night ( as we have back to school night where parents come and follow a mini version of their kid's schedule and meet and greet all the teachers)

I have an imponderable... If you know someone is having an affair, should you tell their SO?

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 4:30 AM

RUGBUG


Can it really be morning already? After a very interesting ride on my horse (can I be experiencing a little PTSD regarding my accident? ) last night, I'm ready for a little fun....

Ah, back to school night. A shy teacher's nightmare. :Ugh: Have fun!

Quote:

Originally posted by msg:
I have an imponderable... If you know someone is having an affair, should you tell their SO?




How well do you know the person? How certain are you of the affair?

If the answers to those two questions are Very well and very certain...I would tell. One of the worst things seems to be the 'everyone knew but me?' sentiment. Makes us feel stupid and foolish.

But I would do some probing first. Are there any clues that friend already suspects? Are they completely oblivious? Probing questions, if down well and not heavy handedly, will let you know how to approach the subject...or whether you should at all. People won't believe until they are ready to and a friendship can easily be ruined by broaching this topic if denial is the name of the game, but I still think it's important to share the info.





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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 5:06 AM

ZEEK


Quote:

Originally posted by msg:
I have an imponderable... If you know someone is having an affair, should you tell their SO?


It's a great question. I hate getting in the middle of other people's relationships. For instance the friend I talked about who is talking to an ex about their chances of getting back together while still seeing her current bf. I'm not going to say a word to the current bf. A.) I'm more her friend than his B.) it's not technically cheating C.) he's the moron who knew she was going to meet up with her ex and didn't push to go along.

I also have another couple friends who are in a bad relationship IMO. He's not ready to settle down. She's constantly trying to get him to be more mature. Everyone assumes he's cheating on her. He's got a mostly travel job and is never around. Would make it really easy for him if he wanted to. Plus he was with her when I first met him and she hadn't moved to town yet (still at college). He sure seemed to be awful friendly with the ladies back then too. I have no concrete proof of cheating. Even if I did, I don't think I'd get involved. Something tells me that she's fooling herself. I'm not going to try to break the illusion for her. Cause I'm sure it wouldn't be appreciated.

I think it's also a case of who am I better friends with. The cheater or the cheated on. If it's the cheater then I won't do anything but try to convince them to break it off. If it's the cheated on then I can tell them. I feel like I'd have to be loyal to my real friend.

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:01 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER


Good Moring all.

Need to catch up a bit, (little tired eyes want not work).

And yes Penguin, flowers are totally acceptable as a guy gift.
Just wish I'd get mine already.
I'm such a chick.



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:22 AM

MSG


umm NV I don't think any amount of make up padded bras and clever dresses could make you a chick...You're waaaay to masculine. Now if you were Orlando Bloom all we'd need is the padded bra and some blusher and you'd be right there, but I think you fall more into the Mal and Jayne catagory. There is no pretty floral bonnet that will transform you to womanliness(seriously don't think this is a word, but it was fun to make up)

I think I'd tell the person who was being cheated on because they need to know. If they want to stay in denial, fine, but at least when it all blows up you aren't the person they are looking at saying "why didn't you tell me"

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:34 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER


Funny you should say that.

Ms. Orlando Bloom was recently seen in his Pirates II costume and make up on , of all things,

a FROOT LOOPS box!!!

Still chuckling on that one.

As for the friend issue, goes right alon with being right and not saying anything. Some folks sure make it out to bein' your fault their SO cheated on them.

"Yeah, he did it willingly at gunpoint. I told him to do or die. And then I coerced him into denying everything."

This happened. After I told a female friends SO to tell her or I would. Then for my trouble he picks a fight with me in front of her denying everything. Next time I'll kick the dudes ass first and explain later.

Now, I need to return to searching for a pretty floral bonnet.



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:41 AM

DESKTOPHIPPIE


*gives NVG a pretty floral bonnet*

I'd still tell. It would be mostly for selfish reasons. I just wouldn't feel right letting my friend get cheated on while (s)he was blissfully unaware. Besides, people find out about these things and how would the friend feel knowing you knew and didn't say anything?




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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:42 AM

CALIFORNIAKAYLEE


"If you who don't know Keira Knightley, she's kind of a slightly more man-ish version of Orlando Bloom."

http://askaninja.com/node/1175

Ask a Ninja, he'll tell you the truth.

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You can't take the sky from me...

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:47 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER


Oh, no. The hippie just gave me a pretty floral bonnet. I am a little conflicted about this.
Ya know, its actually quite comfortable.
Must stop before I start lookin' for one of those cotton dresses.

Question: I wonder what? What are women thinking? What do women want? Why midol works so well? I wonder alot. It drives me crazy. Is that what attraction is all about? Wonder?



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:51 AM

DESKTOPHIPPIE


What are women thinking?

Right now I'm thinking you'd look really cute in this dusky pink cotton dress.




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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:54 AM

PENGUIN


Quote:

Originally posted by nvghostrider:

Must stop before I start lookin' for one of those cotton dresses.



But they have such nice...air-flow.


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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 6:59 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER


Pink is the new black.

Think I'd prefer something slinky, (if I had the figure of course).



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 7:13 AM

RUGBUG


I'll buy you something slinky...and pink.

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"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it." - George Bernard Shaw

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 7:17 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER


But I'll need shoes.
What does mens size sixteen convert to in womens shoe sizes?
Never did understand the womens size of anything.

ADD: Think I'm out for the day. Not feeling great and I gotta find some cash for bills and the like. Catch y'all later.



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 8:23 AM

ZEEK


um...I'd advise against flowers as a gift for guys. I know plenty who would think it means you think they're girlie. Could send a bad signal.

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 8:24 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER


Oh hell,

BUMP!

Good night.



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 8:27 AM

DESKTOPHIPPIE


Did anyone see that movie the guy who played The Operative was in? A British movie called Kinky Boots, or possible Sexy Boots, I can't remember. Anyway, it was about a shoe factory that was closing down and The Operative, who was a transvestite, convinced them to change their market to sexy boots for men who dress as women. It was a really funny movie, kinda shmaltsy, and The Operative was brilliant.




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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 8:36 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER


Just happened to catch up before leaving. Never seen it, but sounds interesting, (and a bit odd).

I still want flowers, no matter how girlie it may sound.

Okay, now I'm out.

Hugs all around.



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 8:38 AM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by Zeek:
um...I'd advise against flowers as a gift for guys. I know plenty who would think it means you think they're girlie. Could send a bad signal.



Yeah... I think I'll wait till we know eachother better, and he'll know it's just my own little way of being affectionate. I like breaking the rules.

Kinda like NV. I know a store in Boston that has the best pink boots with super high heels, and I'm sure they get to men's 16. I'll pick some for you next time I visit there!



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 9:09 AM

MSG


I am trying to figure out what men's 16 boots would look like. My husband wears a 13 and his feet are massive...my holy hannah NV you must have HUGE feet! WOW...I can fit both my feet into one of my husband's shoes( I wear a 6 1/2, goes with being 5'2" thought I would dearly love to grow up enough to be in adults sizes)

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2



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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 10:12 AM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by msg:
I wear a 6 1/2, goes with being 5'2" thought I would dearly love to grow up enough to be in adults sizes



But why? Shoes always look so marvelous on display, then they bring out the size 10s and they're like boats!

Besides - I actually saw a "physics of dance" talk (seriously - a physics prof and his ballerina daughter!) that proved that big feet make it harder to do fast little jumps. That's my excuse for sucking at them, and I'm sticking to it!

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 11:09 AM

SEAOTTER


Quote:

Originally posted by DesktopHippie:
Did anyone see that movie the guy who played The Operative was in? A British movie called Kinky Boots, or possible Sexy Boots, I can't remember. Anyway, it was about a shoe factory that was closing down and The Operative, who was a transvestite, convinced them to change their market to sexy boots for men who dress as women. It was a really funny movie, kinda shmaltsy, and The Operative was brilliant.



He was also in a film out for rental called, The Inside Man. He's great in that, too.




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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 11:32 AM

MSG


What a coincidence M4P..I used to be a ballerina:) It's part of the reason my feet are so tiny. I've been on pointe since I was 12.

OK I will be gone for the next 2 hours then back on as I get bored during Back to School night. Hey at least my room is ready:)

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