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Dating problems-HELP needed!!!
Monday, June 5, 2006

Yeah... so, I have a bit of a... problem. Ya see, theres this really cute girl, in S&T, and I like her and all... and, I'm pretty sure I wanna ask her out, but, I get scared stiff whenever this part of datin' comes along... y'know, the askin' part. And, my last girlfriend, we sorta just... happened, but it fell apart when she got transfered to North... so, any suggestions? I need a bita help, here. Oh, and, no, she ain't a Browncoat, and yes, she accepted a cross i gave her... does that mean anythin'?

-Danny (scared, dazed, and confused!)

COMMENTS

Monday, June 5, 2006 1:10 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


Go for it. You have to take some risks when playing for love ;)
Worst that can happen is that she says no and then you havent really lost anything. The important thing is to have tried.

Monday, June 5, 2006 1:10 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


Go for it. You have to take some risks when playing for love ;)
Worst that can happen is that she says no and then you havent really lost anything. The important thing is to have tried.

Monday, June 5, 2006 1:10 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


Go for it. You have to take some risks when playing for love ;)
Worst that can happen is that she says no and then you havent really lost anything. The important thing is to have tried.

Monday, June 5, 2006 1:10 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


Go for it. You have to take some risks when playing for love ;)
Worst that can happen is that she says no and then you havent really lost anything. The important thing is to have tried.

Monday, June 5, 2006 1:10 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


Go for it. You have to take some risks when playing for love ;)
Worst that can happen is that she says no and then you havent really lost anything. The important thing is to have tried.

Monday, June 5, 2006 1:10 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


Go for it. You have to take some risks when playing for love ;)
Worst that can happen is that she says no and then you havent really lost anything. The important thing is to have tried.

Monday, June 5, 2006 12:14 PM

NVGHOSTRIDER


I agree with NUCLEARDAY and the bunch. Just do it. What's she gonna do, tell you no? Its not that rejection is easy, but not trying at all is harder. Just try for ice cream or coffee of something. Someplace where you two can talk. The movie thing keeps you from talking, (unless you happen to be an annoying young person, but I'll give you the benifit of the doubt. Bein' a BROWNCOAT and all). Be her friend, but make your intentions clear, (made that mistake before).

Monday, June 5, 2006 11:35 AM

BLUEEYEDBRIGADIER


Dunno about the cross thing...gifts of any sort can have all kinds of weird significances by the people giving and receiving them:S

Still...all the advice given above or below me is quite valid and good. Only way to make progress is stand up, hike up the ole courage and be pleasantly straightforward with the lucky lady. If she gives you the wave off, take it in stride...maybe now's just not the time (though don't assume that as the only answer *wink*). If ya get a green light, focus on her enough to make her feel cared about:)

BEB

Monday, June 5, 2006 8:27 AM

MSG


Just walk up say hi and ask her if she'd like to go to a movie with you. It sounds both scary and simple, but it's direct and it will give you your answer without spending hours analyzing how she smiles what she said etc. It seems weird, but the direct approach will let you know and isn't it better to know one way or the other if she is interested. Plus she'll really respect a guy with the confidence and guts to just go for it and that always works in your favor. Hang in there!!! The worst she can say is no and while it might hurt your feelings it won't actually kill you.

Monday, June 5, 2006 8:04 AM

CALLMESERENITY


That's good advice from nuclearday. No matter what the outcome it's so much nicer on the other side.

Monday, June 5, 2006 6:01 AM

NUCLEARDAY


I know the feeling, trust me. That was the story of my whole high-school experience. :) Do you guys talk much yet, is she giving you any signs? I've found if you just come out from left field, you're less likely to get a straight answer. 'Cause an "I'll think about it" is alot worse than a no. :P

Anyways, it's like ripping off a band-aid. If I think it through too much, I get too nervous. Don't plan anything, etc. Just be yourself, open your mouth, and see what comes out. And remember, no matter how she responds, you'll feel a lot better after it's out in the open.

Good luck :)


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