You have a Toyota Turbo Supra? Sweet...that's a (emphasis here) nice car! But yeah...it's probably a mofo to maintain after awhile:(

And keep your chin up....you aren't boring or uninteresting. You are unique, talented and compassionate. There will be someone who will fill the void before Nathan comes to his senses;)

Oh...and the kitchen full of plates story? Gross but unsurprising sadly. I know I try to keep any messes that I might create while staying in a hotel or condo to a bare minimum, cuz even if the housekeeping staff is assigned individual floors....still a lot of room to clean:(

BEB

Be glad you don't live further South. I have friends in Florida who refer to cats as "furry Gator happy meals".

Do you do housekeeping for a condo/hotel chain, or is it a self-run business? I know of people who clean for upscale families and make very good money just because they show up on time and make an effort to do a good job. Check into some of the gated communities in your area. They usually pay better than a hotel would for the same basic job.

HUGS FMF- and I think it's just fine that you declawed. My two cats are and they are happy and fine. One was declawed because he's half feral and half bobcat so he a bit dangerous to other pets.
You hang in there! I am so impressed and amazed by your strength. When I was 6 weeks my biological father bailed and for 2 years my mom was in you situation and every day I am so greatful to have been raised by such an amazing mom who taugh me that her kids were worth everything to her. I know I have a ton of self confidence and a great life because my mom made me her priority and showed me each day how much she loved me and that's what you do. WAY TO GO you so totally rock!!!

You know, FMF, even for as disillusioned as you sound right now, I think you have a lot to be proud of. It's too easy to throw a pity party and just give up, but you're plugging on.

I expect that you only feel like you're only doing what you have to do, but it's more than that. You're continuing to be a strong and caring mother to your children...and other's children as well. You're taking care of animals. You're working your arse off, even when you don't feel well. Most people wouldn't have the staying power to do what you've done and still have the strength to keep looking forward and knowing that it's going to turn out alright. You're special. You're good people, and I for one, although I'm positive that I'm not the only one, feel fortunate to be associated with you even if it is only through a common interest and a message board

And don't get too hung up about the personals stuff. You're attractive and you're plenty interesting. Maybe other people just haven't had the opportunity to see you like we do! Hell, if I weren't married, I know I would have at least come to see if there was a chance with ya. Hrm. Maybe I shouldn't have shared that... But anyway, don't fret over it. Taking care of your family AND YOURSELF is more important. The little stuff has a way of taking care of itself when everything else is in order

*hugs*

Amiton.