I'm taking notes.

Oops, i forgot to say that the ones who say women are complicated are usually men. So maybehaps to understand them better i submit the following. :)

PhoenixRose here is my take on it: Men want 3 things. 1) To be in charge of whats going on (Or to have the woman make him feel that he is in charge--even when he actually isn't--she is usually smart enough to know that the dumb guy doesn't have to know that) 2) a good roll in the hay--long and often with the woman massaging his fragile ego (as well as bodyparts) by frequent displays of affection both public and private. (This he will occasionally respond to but most of the time he will stand there trying to look like James Bond being adored. Its not that he does not appreciate it --he is just milking it for all its worth. HA HA .3) Beer or the alternative. Amazing ain't it! :)

Preach it sister!

I musta married an Alien
Women want three very simple things.

1) To understand what is going on
Mine would rather, the problem just go away. Usually without regard to the cost, or possible physical injury.
2) To be acknowledged and appreciated (on a regular basis, not just once in awhile; a kind word, a hug, a kiss, a truly thrilling roll in the hay, you get the idea. As often as possible!)
She does like that, but she loves Chaos. The chaos tends to zap my desire at times.
3) Chocolate
She doesn't like it. We've been together 9 yrs, and I've never seen her stop at the store for some M&M's
Yeah the first two may be me just being a guy but that last one confirms she's an alien.

Amen, sister! We, the female of the species, need to spell this out more often for the opposite sex!

Woo! May it be very useful for your not too distant future, BC07 ^_^

...Huh... never actually thought to try and list out what women want... this is a very good list Phoenix... I'm shure it'll help me out in the (not TOO distant) future


-BC07 (yes I AM a guy)