when you find out you dont have good friends.
Monday, October 1, 2007

my birthday is this sunday.

my "friends" wanted to take me out for the weekend and celebrate which i was all ready for. then i found out the other day that 2 out of 3 "friends" didnt want to do it anymore because they didnt want to leave their spouses for a day and a half.

these are people that ive open my heart to which i dont do very often for fear of being burned. and what happened...i got burned again.

it doesnt matter that i befriended them when they were lonely and took care of them when they were sick and called everyday to see if they needed anything. not to mention threw one of them a birthday party because she was alone. also threw friday night parties were i was the one doing all the cooking and cleanup. i also introduced them to Firefly. what can i say?? i am hurt. why do i choose friends who are more selfish than me?? this is why i dont make friends very often because most of them are selfish bitches who only think about themselves. i hope they all get herpes. as you can see im still pissed.


Tuesday, October 2, 2007 11:50 AM


thank you, all of you!! you guys are amazing. i really do appreciate your words of wisdom. thanks again!

Tuesday, October 2, 2007 9:39 AM


HUGS ...we're your friends. I mean we can't take you out and all...but we're here and we'd happily throw you a virtual party!!! PM me if you want one and I'll set it up:)

Tuesday, October 2, 2007 5:42 AM


Well now... that is a very interesting concept CosmicFugitive... I likes it!!!

I'm sorry that your "friends" won't be there for you birthday... =( Still, happy early birthday, and hopefully they find some way f makeing it up to you =)

Tuesday, October 2, 2007 12:30 AM


Ooh.. Snap! My birthday's this Sunday too. *Waves to a fellow Libran.*

I'm sorry that you're "friends" haven't come up with an alternate plan to celebrate, even if it's just on a smaller scale, or just to get together for a belated celebration. I hope that you have a great birthday regardless of this sticking point.

Here's something that I learned in life, which has been helpful:

People are like different parts of a tree. There are those who are like the leaves. They can look pretty, but they are unstable, blowing around in the wind. Eventually they wilt away during the autumn too. They don't last long. These are seasonal friends, or those who who meet for a short while.

There are those people that are like the branches. They might fool you with their friendliness - reaching out towards you etc - although they are just as unstable as leaves. They can snap off at any time. Unpredictable as leaves.

Then, there are people who are like the roots of the tree. These are the most important people that you meet in life. They help the rest of the tree grow, develop and protect it. The roots will there through all seasons, through thick and thin and the rest of the trees life.


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