#notquitemetoo by WISHIMAY

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#notquitemetoo

POSTED BY: WISHIMAY
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Wednesday, September 26, 2018 12:45 AM

So, I'm bored.

Was reading a comment section where people were recounting sexual comments that had been said to them when I had a flashback of my uncle having a conversation where he breathily and creepily asked my friend and I "If we ever wanted to be gynecologists, so we could.. you know...look at people...."

And the thing was, I had been asked that question twice before... by my fifth grade teacher, and knew there were other girls he had asked that, and in exactly the same manner. I realize now that was a kind of grooming question, to see what our responses to a fake inquiry with a sexual tinge would be. They are both dead now, but it made me wonder if they had ever done anything worse...

Anyway, I was wondering if anyone else had had an adult ask them weird explicit questions out of the blue?

....Ick, I also just realized what could have happened if one of the girls would have said yes....something along the lines of "Well, if you want to see mine...."

Ick ick ick. Both men were in their late 60's at the time...

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Wednesday, September 26, 2018 8:30 AM

JEWELSTAITEFAN

It generally struck me as weird when my grandmother's friends kept mentioning how handsome I was.

Years later, the person who first had sex with me was quite older, but she wasn't an adult.

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Wednesday, September 26, 2018 10:56 AM

WISHIMAY

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Originally posted by JEWELSTAITEFAN:
It generally struck me as weird when my grandmother's friends kept mentioning how handsome I was.

I'm not sure saying "you're handsome" meant anything other than a complement to your grandma about the genes she passed on. I have said several boys are handsome and never once did I ever mean I wanted to jump them. Can't speak for all old ladies.

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Wednesday, September 26, 2018 8:57 PM

REAVERFAN

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Originally posted by WISHIMAY:
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Originally posted by JEWELSTAITEFAN:
It generally struck me as weird when my grandmother's friends kept mentioning how handsome I was.

I'm not sure saying "you're handsome" meant anything other than a complement to your grandma about the genes she passed on. I have said several boys are handsome and never once did I ever mean I wanted to jump them. Can't speak for all old ladies.

Well, you know how these trolls are.

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Wednesday, September 26, 2018 11:50 PM

WISHIMAY

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Well, you know how these trolls are.

The thing is though, he may truly believe that a woman telling a young boy he is handsome means more than that. Some people think every compliment is more than that.

I doubt it personally, and think he is just desperately trying to throw shade on ANYTHING #METOO related, But I really can't tell just how messed up he is some days.

And like I said...bored.

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Thursday, September 27, 2018 7:48 AM