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Don't Ask Don't Tell on the way out?

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Sunday, January 31, 2010 10:44 AM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


Think this is it? Is it the year we'll finally see the end to this travesty? And--I hesitate to ask--is there anyone here who's actually in favor of KEEPING it?
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Lawmakers gearing up for 2010 "don't ask, don't tell" fight

Last week nearly 100 members of Congress sent a letter for Defense Secretary Robert Gates requesting details on servicemembers discharged in 2009 under the military's ban on homosexuals serving openly in the ranks.
The statistics -- how many troops, their years of service, their job specialties -- will be the backbone of arguments in favor of overturning the "don't ask, don't tell" law when both the House and Senate hold hearings on the issue sometime this spring.

The lawmakers are also requesting the Pentagon provide monthly updates on numbers of troops being kicked out because of the law, so "the public will get a clearer picture of the continued costs and damage to our national security inflicted by this policy."

The request includes the signature of only one Republican lawmaker -- Rep. Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, of Florida -- and largely mirrors the supporters list of the "don't ask, don't tell" repeal measure sponsored by Pennsylvania's Rep. Patrick Murphy (although that bill has 186 co-sponsors).

And the letter also lays out the financial arguments against the ban, citing a 2006 Blue Ribbon Commission’s report on "don't ask, don't tell" that suggested the sexual-orientation discharges cost the Pentagon more than $360 million from 1994 until 2003.

Pentagon officials have not yet responded to the request. Rep. Jim Moran, D-Va., has said lawmakers may seek legislative action to mandate the monthly reports if the Defense Department does not cooperate.

http://www.palmcenter.org/press/dadt/in_print/lawmakers_gearing_2010_d
ont_ask_dont_tell_fight
Pledges: 2010 Means Ending ’Don’t Ask Don’t Tell’

As Adam Nagourney, who wrote a definitive history of gay rights and American politics, pointed out in the New York Times, there is a bit of ambiguity in his remarks. If he placed a timeframe on ending the policy, known as "Don’t Ask Don’t Tell," he did specify whether the policy would be ending in 2010, or whether the process would begin this year.

Rea Carey, executive director of the Task Force, admonished the president to "provide a concrete blueprint for his leadership and action moving forward," including immediately ending discharges under the current policy.

"The time for broad statements is over. The time to get down to business is overdue. We wish we had heard him speak of concrete steps tonight."

The difference is much more than semantics. If he meant ending this year, he may well have been implying that he would use executive privilege, the way President Harry Truman racially integrated the Armed Forces after World War II.

If, however, he meant only that he would press congressional allies to begin the process, that implies that he is putting the onus on Congress. That would prove much more problematic. Even though the policy has come under fire in recent years from more and more Republicans and those on the right, it still remains controversial.

The United States, however, is looking increasingly out of step as its allies one by one get rid of any gay discrimination. Argentina, for example, eliminated any gay discrimination and allowed gay military to serve openly.

Critics of the policy point to Israel, one of the first (if not the first) nation to do so--and no one believes that the Israeli military, long considered perhaps the finest force in the world, has been compromised.

The wars in Iraq and Afghanistan have put increased pressure on the military as well. Closeted gay Americans serve next to allied troops where there is no such policy. They--and their officers--see a cohesive unit, without any of the shibboleths about showering or bunking together.

Theresult [of don't ask don't tell] has been what some call a witch hunt to ferret out homosexuals. Several prominent and decorated servicepeople have come out since the policy, many more in recent years.

More significantly, public opinion polls show that a large majority of Americans now believe homosexuals should serve openly. A Washington Post-ABC News poll taken last year showed 75 percent believe that--including 66 percent of those self-identifying as conservative.

....

Whether they will bipartisan support remains at best cloudy. Ariz. Sen. John McCain, who opposed Obama in the 2008 election, has already announced that he will oppose the repeal.

"In his State of the Union address, President Obama asked Congress to repeal the ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ policy. I am immensely proud of, and thankful for, every American who wears the uniform of our country, especially at a time of war, and I believe it would be a mistake to repeal the policy," McCain said.

He maintained that military leaders’ opinion was "It’s working, so leave it alone." Wartime isn’t the correct time to change policy, he added.

http://www.edgedallas.com/index.php?ch=news&sc=&sc2=news&sc3=&id=10163
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"Don't Ask" Comments Cause Unease
Some Members of Congress and Pentagon Officials Oppose Changes to the Policy on Gays in the Military

President Barack Obama is urging Congress to repeal the ban on gays and lesbians serving openly in the military, but Democratic allies and Republican opponents alike are criticizing his approach.

Obama's effort to eliminate the "don't ask, don't tell" practice faces resistance not just from Congress, but also from the Pentagon, where some top officials have been strident in their support for the Clinton-era policy.

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2010/01/28/politics/main6151237.shtml opposes repeal of 'Don't ask, don't tell'

The leading House Democrat on military policy said Friday that he opposes repealing the law that bans openly gay people from serving in the military.

I am personally not for changing the law," he said during a C-SPAN "Newsmakers" interview that will air Sunday.

Because the military is engaged in two major conflicts, in Afghanistan and Iraq, changing the law would create "disruption" that can cause some "serious problems," Skelton said during the interview.

He said the full House Armed Services Committee won't hold a hearing on the repeal of the law. Rather, the Personnel subcommittee will hold the hearing at some point this year.

Skelton also said he would oppose efforts to repeal the law in Congress — setting the stage for a potentially intense debate within his own committee with Democrats who want to see the law repealed.

Meanwhile, Skelton's Senate counterpart, Carl Levin (D-Mich.), said that the Senate Armed Services Committee will hold a hearing on the issue at the end of January.

Defense Secretary Robert Gates said Friday that he and Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff Adm. Mike Mullen are prepared to testify before the Senate.

Gates said at a press briefing that there are continuing conversations within the Pentagon about "implementing the president's intent."

The Pentagon has moved slowly on the issue and there have been reports of internal dissent on how fast changes to the law should be instituted.
http://primebuzz.kcstar.com/?q=node/21016

Believe it or not, there are some who want to keep it. Comments to the above article included:
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Armies and societies for centuries (millenia) have kept queers in the closet. Why would we be so stupid as to openly allow "GAYS" to serve now? That's stupid. Centuries of common sense should not be flushed for political correctness, in the military or in society.
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As to "knowing" who's gay? So what? They kept it in the CLOSET, like they should, so EVERYONE was happy! That's the way it worked (as you were witness to), and that's the way it should stay. If it ain't broken, don't freakin' break it!

The military is not an experimental playground for social engineering. When that happens, we are WEAKER. We are weaker for other reasons already, thanks to Obama and liberalism, but that's no reason to be weaker yet.
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Being queer is immoral.

Making it public is even MORE immoral, and that part, we don't have to allow. (We in this case, is MANKIND.)
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I find it hard to believe too, and I still am in contact with some of my contemporaries who serve in command status, that a social deviant could perform well in an elite status combat group. The team concept, to my way of thinking, could not accept a gay member.

Perhaps in a support, or staff function such an individual could perform satisfactorily.





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Monday, February 1, 2010 5:42 PM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg


"And--I hesitate to ask--is there anyone here who's actually in favor of KEEPING it?"

Only in the interests of privacy.

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 2:38 AM

JONGSSTRAW


America needs to have an all-gay military.

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 3:00 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Jongsstraw:
America needs to have an all-gay military.



The Navy's way ahead of ya...

And the Marines are nothin' but a bunch of butched-up Navy swabbies.


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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 3:01 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
"And--I hesitate to ask--is there anyone here who's actually in favor of KEEPING it?"

Only in the interests of privacy.



Should you be forced to keep your marriage and family life private? No talk of them at work, ever, for fear of being fired? No posting online, anywhere, under your real name, lest you lose your career?

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 4:00 AM

FREMDFIRMA


Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
The Navy's way ahead of ya...


Well bloody hell, tis all just rum, sodomy an' the lash anyhows, innit ?

-F

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 6:28 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
The Navy's way ahead of ya...


Well bloody hell, tis all just rum, sodomy an' the lash anyhows, innit ?

-F



Well, that and the fact that they love things that are long, hard, and full of seamen...


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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:16 AM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


I shook my head when I read the comment from the idiot who wrote
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I find it hard to believe....that a social deviant could perform well in an elite status combat group. The team concept, to my way of thinking, could not accept a gay member. Perhaps in a support, or staff function such an individual could perform satisfactorily.
The "perhaps in a support or staff function" and that (ignoring the "social deviant thing) couldn't perform well in an "elite status combat group". What does he think has been happening the last few hundred years? That gays HAVEN'T been performing in elite combat groups? It's so blind it would make me laugh, if it didn't make me want to slam him upside the haid!

When you look at our situation, in two wars where the culture and language are so alien to our soldiers, and we've been kicking out interpreters left and right because they're gay, it's absurd. Plus all the guys who have combat medals, etc., and impressive records of years of service, who are then kicked out because ooops, someone found out they're gay! It sickens me, personally!

Listening to a guy just like the above the other night. His squad all knew he was gay, he had medals, was a really great soldier, they had no problem with his sexual orientation. Then someone got wind of it and they've been doing the paperwork to get him out...and THAT has had a seriously negative effect on his fellow soldiers! Something to be said there, and it's not good.

I want it gone; I want acceptance to start happening...it's the same as racial prejudice. Remember when all the things being said of gays now were said of Blacks way back when? It would be bad for morale, they couldn't function well as soldiers, one couldn't trust them in combat, etc., etc. It's all pathetic human mentality, and the more we change, the better we are as a species.

Not even to mention that "social deviant" is almost amusing, considering some of the things our supposedly "straight" soldiers have done in combat!!!



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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:21 AM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg


"I want it gone; I want acceptance to start happening...it's the same as racial prejudice."

Sweetie, no... stop. Please stop right there.

I don't wan't you embarrassing yourself or be putting yourself in the wrong place.

Being gay is not the same as being black.

By continuing that line of reasoning, you insult MANY people.


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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:31 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
"I want it gone; I want acceptance to start happening...it's the same as racial prejudice."

Sweetie, no... stop. Please stop right there.

I don't wan't you embarrassing yourself or be putting yourself in the wrong place.

Being gay is not the same as being black.

By continuing that line of reasoning, you insult MANY people.





Go on... Please explain how that's so.

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:33 AM

KPO

Sometimes you own the libs. Sometimes, the libs own you.


Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
"I want it gone; I want acceptance to start happening...it's the same as racial prejudice."

Sweetie, no... stop. Please stop right there.

I don't wan't you embarrassing yourself or be putting yourself in the wrong place.

Being gay is not the same as being black.

By continuing that line of reasoning, you insult MANY people.




She's equating prejudices, not minority categories. And she's right - America in the future will look back with shame on this institutionalised prejudice, just as it does on its previous racist practices.

Heads should roll

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:37 AM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg


"She's equating prejudices, not minority categories. And she's right - America in the future will look back with shame on this institutionalised prejudice, just as it does on its previous racist practices."


Um, no.

Marine heritage such that I have... no.

Again, being born black is not the same as being gay.

One is something you can't hide/change. I.E. you cant lighten your skin. The other, is a choice. I.E, yes you can control who and what you frak.


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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 10:06 AM

KPO

Sometimes you own the libs. Sometimes, the libs own you.


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Marine heritage such that I have... no.

How does this qualify your opinion in any way?

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The other, is a choice. I.E, yes you can control who and what you frak.

You think homosexuality is just a 'choice'? People aren't born gay?

Heads should roll

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 10:16 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
"She's equating prejudices, not minority categories. And she's right - America in the future will look back with shame on this institutionalised prejudice, just as it does on its previous racist practices."


Um, no.

Marine heritage such that I have... no.

Again, being born black is not the same as being gay.

One is something you can't hide/change. I.E. you cant lighten your skin. The other, is a choice. I.E, yes you can control who and what you frak.





Enlighten us then. Exactly when did you DECIDE to be straight? Was it before or after your first homosexual experience?

It WAS your CHOICE, right?

And I gather you've never, ever heard of a black person trying to pass for white, eh?


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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 12:07 PM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg


"You think homosexuality is just a 'choice'? People aren't born gay?"

Nature... Nurture... who knows? Who cares?

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 2:13 PM

KPO

Sometimes you own the libs. Sometimes, the libs own you.


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who knows? Who cares?

Well let's assume that people can be born gay. Since you don't care one way or the other we'll give gay people the benefit of the doubt.

So going back to before when you were defending prejudice against homosexuality -

Is it ok to discriminate against life choices, if those life choices are in a person's nature? Is that not discriminating against that person's nature?

Heads should roll

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 4:12 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:


Nature... Nurture... who knows? Who cares?



So you've gone from "It's a choice" to "who knows?" - I *guess* we could call that progress, of a sort.

Mike

Work is the curse of the Drinking Class.
- Oscar Wilde

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 5:46 PM

FREMDFIRMA


Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
Nature... Nurture... who knows? Who cares?


I do.

That said, Two-star is/was one of them racist, sexist, generally intolerant old cogders, with a side order of fire and brimstone Baptist... yet the hypocrisy of playin poker never seemed to get through his thick skull.

Well, he needed a chopper pilot, and the one most qualified for the job happened to be both a man of color, and not heterosexual (he's one of Augustus's old army buddies) which I figured would offend him ever so greatly.

First thing outta two-stars mouth "You don't look like a faggot, boy.."

Amos "Oh kiss my black ass, you too fuckin ugly for me even if you weren't a dried up old cracker pervert!"

Two-star hired him on the spot, guess he's mellowed in his dotage.


-F

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 6:35 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
Nature... Nurture... who knows? Who cares?


I do.

That said, Two-star is/was one of them racist, sexist, generally intolerant old cogders, with a side order of fire and brimstone Baptist... yet the hypocrisy of playin poker never seemed to get through his thick skull.

Well, he needed a chopper pilot, and the one most qualified for the job happened to be both a man of color, and not heterosexual (he's one of Augustus's old army buddies) which I figured would offend him ever so greatly.

First thing outta two-stars mouth "You don't look like a faggot, boy.."

Amos "Oh kiss my black ass, you too fuckin ugly for me even if you weren't a dried up old cracker pervert!"

Two-star hired him on the spot, guess he's mellowed in his dotage.


-F




Exactly. Figure out whether they can do the job you're hiring them for, not whether or not you think you can get away with fuckin' em. Y'know, like we're SUPPOSED TO DO with ANY job situation.

The only other male employee where I work is openly gay. Guess how many times he's tried to hit on me. Zero. He loves hanging out with my wife, though, and dishing about American Idol. And he does a great job at DOING HIS JOB, which is why he was hired.

If you as a heterosexual male are THAT uncomfortable with the very idea that someone might be checking out your ass while you're trying to do your job, just imagine what your female coworkers must feel like. Should you not be allowed to do your job, just because of the danger you'll go on a rampant fucking spree and try to rape every woman you work with?

It's funny that the people who think it's all about just trying to keep control over who you screw are the very same ones who always seem to end up being in the middle of an extramarital affair. Seems SOME people (and I'm lookin' at you, straight people!) just can't seem to control themselves when it comes to keeping it in their pants.

Mike

Work is the curse of the Drinking Class.
- Oscar Wilde

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:30 AM

JONGSSTRAW


Every gay military person that I've seen in the media interviewed after their discharge has seemed to me to be an outstanding young person with a strong commitment to serving their country. To kick loyal and dedicated people out of the service for being honest about themselves is an affront to the military's own code of honor. It's also really dumb, especially when we've got troops stationed in every corner of the world. In 1993 DADT may have made some sort of sense, as it was at least some improvement over past policies, but it does not make any sense now. Time for everybody to grow up a little.

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 6:00 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Jongs: EGG-ZACKLY!

It's time we started treating our servicemen and women as adults, capable of acting as adults and capable of respecting each other as adults. It's shameful to think that we trust these servicepeople to carry deadly weapons into combat, but they aren't to be trusted not to try to slip one in if they have to share the showers.

If we're going to let people in the military be responsible for life and death situations, maybe it's time we trust them with their sexual orientation and being responsible about that, too.

It amazes me that there are still people out there who think that who someone loves is more important and more dangerous to society than teaching them all the different ways to kill another human being, throwing them into the hell of combat, and then throwing them aside when they've been "used up".

The military has problems; gays aren't even on the radar (gaydar?) as one of those problems.

Mike

Work is the curse of the Drinking Class.
- Oscar Wilde

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 7:52 AM

JONGSSTRAW


I saw an Air Force pilot last night on one of the cable news shows, and he had just "come out", and he was facing a discharge. This was his career, his life he said. I also saw another outed gay man on CNN who served in a support position, and it was the same damn thing. It's a bitch to admit, but both of those men are better patriots than me. They made a sacrifice and a commitment that I never did. Who would I then be if I was to support denying them their pursuit of happiness to serve their country, and oh, protect me and mine in the process? Senator McCain stated yesterday that he "was disappointed" with this new directive from Obama, and I also saw a couple of others try to defend DADT. They simply could not. Their arguments are so tied to false assumptions and old predjudices that I could easily see right through them. I was in the Boy Scouts until I was 17. I went on many camping trips in the woods and slept in tents with other boys. Statistics tell me that at least some of the boys were likely gay or were leaning that way. Same thing in high school and college...played sports, lockered and showered with guys. I'm pretty sure no one ever made a move on me either in public or private. So history proves that people of different sexual preferences can indeed co-exist without all heck breaking loose. Speaking of McCain, he had quite the day for himself yesterday....the absurd statement he made about gays in the military, and then his utterly absurd and disrespectful attack on Sec of Defense Gates. He would not relent until he got Gates to go against his boss, President Obama, knowing full well that Gates never would. Three or four times he asked the same question, and each time Gates deferred appropriately, making McCain look all manner of foolish. The main issue involved should have been addressed to Holder, not Gates, but it was grand theater for the old Maverick, as he prepares to ride off into the sunset this Novemeber.

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 7:57 AM

NIKI2

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Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
"I want it gone; I want acceptance to start happening...it's the same as racial prejudice."

Sweetie, no... stop. Please stop right there.

I don't wan't you embarrassing yourself or be putting yourself in the wrong place.

Being gay is not the same as being black.

By continuing that line of reasoning, you insult MANY people.

Oh boy oh boy oh boy...I'd have had fun with that one, if everyone else didn't get here before I do! Damned Western time zone once again!

They've all already said it, but that's not gonna stop me. KPO covered the major point of my remark:
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She's equating prejudices, not minority categories. And she's right - America in the future will look back with shame on this institutionalised prejudice, just as it does on its previous racist practices.
But you took it beyond that with your further remarks.
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One is something you can't hide/change. I.E. you cant lighten your skin. The other, is a choice. I.E, yes you can control who and what you frak.
That’s just a sad statement. I realize you don’t even care if being gay is a choice or not, obviously, from what you wrote. But it’s not a choice. I know many gay people; few of them WOULD choose to be gay; some of them are proud of who they are and don’t care what others think; a few of those are in-your-face about it. But only a few, the vast majority didn’t KNOW they were gay from birth, were surprised to discover it, and have had to live their lives with that fact as just part of who they are, despite the fact that people like you think they choose to be different. I could say the same thing of the African American friends I’ve had, except that far more of them fit into the second category, and of course they knew from birth.

And yes, there ARE those who have “become” gay through nurture, or whatever you want to call it. Those I’ve known have generally discovered the error later in life, by the way. But I’ve never met a single person in my life (and living in the Bay Area all of it, that’s saying something) who CHOSE to be gay! It’s biological, “dear”, whether you and the rest of the homophobes ever recognize it.

And it IS prejudice I’m talking about; exactly the same prejudice that kept African Americans from marrying White women, kept women from voting, from being in the service, and so many of the other ridiculous prejudices which inhabit mankind’s warped little brain. At its root, it’s the same simple fear of the “other” which has caused every prejudice time immemorial.

The plain and simple fact is that with ALL these prejudices, at their base they are, well, baseless. Gays have served in the military throughout history—until recently they’ve had to hide that fact.

If you cared, I would suggest Allan Bérubé’s acclaimed book “Coming Out Under Fire”, which examined the stories of gay men and women in the US military between 1941 and 1945. The book used interviews with gay veterans, government documents, and other sources to discuss the social and political issues that faced over 9,000 servicemen and women during World War II. I’m sure others can come up with historical references before that, but that’s the one best known.

So nine thousand servicemen and women were homosexual in WWII. They REALLY had to stay in the closet, but they served courageously, achieved medals like other soldiers, and I think—correct me if I’m wrong—we nonetheless won the war and our armed services somehow survived? So your “Marine heritage” reflects the prejudice of its time, not reality. If you gave a damn, which I’m sure you don’t, you could even be lazy and just see the movie, which won tons of awards.

Your basic premise is a fallacy. I could list for you the CAREER soldiers today who served for decades but have been/are being thrown out of the military because the witch hunt that is DADT “exposed” their homosexuality. They have awards of valor and many other earned medals, commendations, and exemplary records. How you can think people like this—and I’m sure there are many you would point to as valuable career soldiers you’d admire if you didn’t know their sexual orientation—CHOSE to be gay is beyond me.

But then, many of your attitudes are beyond me, thankfully. I seem to recall another thread where you were saying you were in favor of everyone having the right to live as they choose; I am left to assume that means the right only to live as they choose where and how YOU choose, from what you write here. Like I said, your lack of consistency belies the truth. I notice you have since backed out of this discussion; I wish I could believe you learned something from it, but I despaired of such hopes long ago.

JS, thank you for your most eloquent and definitive summing up of the entire situation.



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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 8:09 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Jongsstraw:
I saw an Air Force pilot last night on one of the cable news shows, and he had just "come out", and he was facing a discharge. This was his career, his life he said. I also saw another outed gay man on CNN who served in a support position, and it was the same damn thing. It's a bitch to admit, but both of those men are better patriots than me. They made a sacrifice and a commitment that I never did. Who would I then be if I was to support denying them their pursuit of happiness to serve their country, and oh, protect me and mine in the process? Senator McCain stated yesterday that he "was disappointed" with this new directive from Obama, and I also saw a couple of others try to defend DADT. They simply could not. Their arguments are so tied to false assumptions and old predjudices that I could easily see right through them. I was in the Boy Scouts until I was 17. I went on many camping trips in the woods and slept in tents with other boys. Statistics tell me that at least some of the boys were likely gay or were leaning that way. Same thing in high school and college...played sports, lockered and showered with guys. I'm pretty sure no one ever made a move on me either in public or private. So history proves that people of different sexual preferences can indeed co-exist without all heck breaking loose. Speaking of McCain, he had quite the day for himself yesterday....the absurd statement he made about gays in the military, and then his utterly absurd and disrespectful attack on Sec of Defense Gates. He would not relent until he got Gates to go against his boss, President Obama, knowing full well that Gates never would. Three or four times he asked the same question, and each time Gates deferred appropriately, making McCain look all manner of foolish. The main issue involved should have been addressed to Holder, not Gates, but it was grand theater for the old Maverick, as he prepares to ride off into the sunset this Novemeber.




I believe that Air Force pilot you're referring to is Lt. Col. Victor Fehrenbach, a 19-year veteran of the Air Force, an F-15 driver, a veteran of over 80 combat missions, and a hero of BOTH Gulf Wars AND the Afghanistan War, with a number of commendations, medals, and decorations to his credit.

And the bitch of it? He didn't "come out"; he was OUTED by a civilian acquaintance, who turned him in. Then he was called in for questioning, asked if he was gay, and he told the truth, rather than lie to his superior officers. In other words, going against the rules, they asked.

And so a distinguished (some would say brilliant) 19-year career comes to an undistinguished end.

Hey, on the plus side for fiscal conservatives, at least they don't have to pay him the pension that he'd have gotten if he'd managed to stay in (and closeted) for another year!

Mike

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 8:29 AM

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Niki,

I started off in this thread by saying that Im for "Don't as, don't tell" because its really noones business. Period.

Hell, I dont care if you frak some guy up the butt. Not my problem. Thats between you and the guy you are doing.

Just don't push that on me. Dont tell me that I have to think its right, or even like it. Thats part of being free to make your own choice.

Dont ask and dont tell solves the problem without making it an issue. Navy for example: some guys are more queer than a 3 dollar bill. Noone cares. The only time its brought up is if someone WANTS to get OUT of the Navy.

lol Friend off mine served. Had a crewmate who wanted out. Went to the XO and said "Im a fruit, let me off." XO said, "Fine, go make out with Johnny over there. And I want to see tongue action." Well, he didn't and was given time for it.

lol The only reason for getting rid of DADT is so guys/girls could stop using it as a way to get out of their contract.

Choice: Is it a choice? Is it inerrant? Prove it one way or the other.

But really, who cares?

Again, whether you are a fag, a straight or something inbetween... its really noones business.

But... and this is where you go off course... saying being gay is the same as being black... shit girl...

Thats insulting.

Now I could get into the history of the civil rights movement, the psychology of young black males and their father figure issues, the "homophobia" that arises out of being raised by women... but you can look all that up.

Just leave it at... the "gay rights" movement has NOTHING to do with civil rights.

ETA: TO be clear, I dont care if the guy next to me is a fag. So long as he can shoot straight, will fight when needed, and will carry me out if I get hit.




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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 8:47 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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But... and this is where you go off course... saying being gay is the same as being black... shit girl...

Thats insulting.

Now I could get into the history of the civil rights movement, the psychology of young black males and their father figure issues, the "homophobia" that arises out of being raised by women... but you can look all that up.



Please do. Explain to us all how they're completely different, not related in any way at all.


Now, as to your assertion that "it's no one's business", you're right. It's no one's business who you're screwing, either. To make things equal - unless you're advocating "separate but equal" treatment of gays - let's set up the military so that NOBODY can date, or be married, or have sex of any kind, for as long as they're enlisted. If you're a soldier, that's ALL you are, period, until you get out. THEN you can have a real life.

Otherwise you're treating one group (straights) as distinctly separate AND vastly unequal than another group (gays). Think about it - straights can marry, can live on base with their families, can talk about their relationships, who they fucked last night, whether they got a blowjob or a handy, who they fancy on this show or that, and so on. And you're saying it's FAIR that gays MUST NOT EVER talk about any of that stuff, or do any of it, or get caught even hinting at it.

Please explain to us how that's fair, and how it has nothing to do with civil rights. I'll wait.

Mike

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 9:55 AM

JONGSSTRAW


Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
I believe that Air Force pilot you're referring to is Lt. Col. Victor Fehrenbach, a 19-year veteran of the Air Force, an F-15 driver, a veteran of over 80 combat missions, and a hero of BOTH Gulf Wars AND the Afghanistan War, with a number of commendations, medals, and decorations to his credit.

And the bitch of it? He didn't "come out"; he was OUTED by a civilian acquaintance, who turned him in. Then he was called in for questioning, asked if he was gay, and he told the truth, rather than lie to his superior officers. In other words, going against the rules, they asked.

And so a distinguished (some would say brilliant) 19-year career comes to an undistinguished end.


Yes that's him. I came upon the segment at the tail end (no pun intended) and didn't hear the whole story. Now that you've told his story it only makes the situation much more ludicrous and unfortunate. Thanks for providing the details.

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 10:21 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Sure thing, Jongs - glad to help. It gets worse. The whole reason Lt. Col. Fehrenback ever joined the Air Force, according to him, was because John McCain was a personal hero and idol of his, and he felt like he had to do something to give back, to pay homage to his hero, to honor the man and his generation for what they gave.

Too bad McCain feels no such sense of honor...

Mike

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 10:46 AM

JONGSSTRAW


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Originally posted by Niki2:
JS, thank you for your most eloquent and definitive summing up of the entire situation.




Very kind of you and I appreciate it Niki. Thanks!






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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 10:48 AM

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Sometimes you own the libs. Sometimes, the libs own you.


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Just don't push that on me. Dont tell me that I have to think its right, or even like it.

Well nobody's trying to convert you to gay sex. You can find gay sex as offensive as you like. But the minute you start to defend prejudice against these people expect to meet some resistance from more 'free-minded' individuals here - which is what happened.

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Choice: Is it a choice? Is it inerrant? Prove it one way or the other.

But really, who cares?


Man, stick to your convictions. Right at the beginning you asserted that it was a choice, and you excused discrimination against them on that basis.

Heads should roll

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 11:05 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by kpo:
Quote:

Just don't push that on me. Dont tell me that I have to think its right, or even like it.

Well nobody's trying to convert you to gay sex. You can find gay sex as offensive as you like. But the minute you start to defend prejudice against these people expect to meet some resistance from more 'free-minded' individuals here - which is what happened.



Just so. Wulfie doesn't want people pushing their preferences on him, and doesn't think he should have to think that it's okay for people to be gay - yet he would have HIS choices forced on others, and would insist that STRAIGHT people have the right to force their views on others.

Unless he agrees that nobody in the military should be allowed any kind of private life or social life, that is. No marriage for anyone, straight or gay - STRICT "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy regarding ANY sexual orientation, on pain of discharge from the service if it comes out that you're in any kind of relationship, engaging in any kind of sexual activity at all, etc.

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Choice: Is it a choice? Is it inerrant? Prove it one way or the other.

But really, who cares?


Man, stick to your convictions. Right at the beginning you asserted that it was a choice, and you excused discrimination against them on that basis.

Heads should roll



You've made the claim here that is IS a choice. And you've never offered one iota of proof for that claim, or even anything approaching evidence.
If sexual preference is a choice, then it would seem obvious that it's a choice we all have to make. I asked when you chose to like women over men, and never got a response. You DID choose, didn't you? And you make it sound like it's such a no-big-deal choice that it could have gone either way - or at least you think it should be that easy for gay people to choose NOT to be gay. So was it an easy choice for you? Was there a day when you were looking at naked men and women and said, "Yeah, I'm going with THAT one!"?

Or was there just something that attracted you to women, as if that were just the natural thing for you to do?

Mike

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 11:09 AM

STORYMARK


Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:


Nature... Nurture... who knows? Who cares?



So you've gone from "It's a choice" to "who knows?" - I *guess* we could call that progress, of a sort.





I'd call it a chickenshit backtracking, but your mileage may varry.

"I thoroughly disapprove of duels. If a man should challenge me, I would take him kindly and forgivingly by the hand and lead him to a quiet place and kill him."

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 11:36 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Well, I was trying to be charitable... ;)

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 11:52 AM

STORYMARK


But, aren't you supposed to be like, kinda angry?

"I thoroughly disapprove of duels. If a man should challenge me, I would take him kindly and forgivingly by the hand and lead him to a quiet place and kill him."

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 12:04 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Storymark:
But, aren't you supposed to be like, kinda angry?



Well, yeah. But sometimes the anger slips and subsides a bit. I mean, you can't really keep up a white-hot anger 24/7/365, right? :)

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 1:21 PM

HERO


Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
"And--I hesitate to ask--is there anyone here who's actually in favor of KEEPING it?"


Actually I think 'Don't Ask' was an important first step. Homosexuality carried a stigma, right or wrong, there was a stigma.

In the military the argument that ending the ban would effect moral and efficiency was a valid argument and in combat it was one we could ill afford.

'Don't ask' came along at a sensitive time and began a transformation that is now largely complete. The stigma is much diminished, so much in fact that blatant bigotry and discrimination carries an even greater stigma.

This is not a huge policy change...simply replace 'Don't ask, don't tell' with 'the military will not discriminate on the basis of race, creed, color, or sexual orientation' and be done with it.

Just don't let them get married...at least not yet, could it be that 'Civil Unions' are a similar first step rather then shoving massive social change down everyone's throats?

H

"Hero. I have come to respect you." "I am forced to agree with Hero here."- Chrisisall, 2009.

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 1:35 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


What's the "massive social change" in allowing gays to marry? Nobody's ever explained to me how it makes straight people somehow, magically, LESS married if gays are allowed to "sully" the institution of marriage. And let's face it, straights have fucked it up pretty much beyond recognition already.

Besides, since allowing gay marriage, Massachusetts's divorce rate has fallen to the lowest rates since WWII. So it ISN'T destroying marriages.



Mike

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 1:45 PM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
Niki,

I started off in this thread by saying that Im for "Don't as, don't tell" because its really noones business. Period.

Then it shouldn't be the business of the military either, by that reasoning...yes?
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Hell, I dont care if you frak some guy up the butt. Not my problem. Thats between you and the guy you are doing.
Yup, absolutely. And should be nobody else's problem, either. See above.
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Just don't push that on me. Dont tell me that I have to think its right, or even like it. Thats part of being free to make your own choice.
Don't believe I ever said you have to think it's right. I argued that I wasn't saying being Black was the same as being gay--where you got that I'm at a loss to figure out--I said that being PREJUDICED against Black is the same as being prejudiced against gay, the same as being prejudiced against Jews, Hispanics, Asians, etc., etc.

I gave a bit of information about homsexuals. I know YOU don't want information, you don't want to learn, you just want to spread your fantasies, heroes, love of violence and weird ideology. But it was pertinent to the discussion at hand, so I offerd it.
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Dont ask and dont tell solves the problem without making it an issue. Navy for example: some guys are more queer than a 3 dollar bill. Noone cares.
That statement is so fallacious I won't even address it--ask Colin Powell, Admiral McMullen, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, and Secretary of Defense Gates if they think it "solves the problem without making it an issue".
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The only time its brought up is if someone WANTS to get OUT of the Navy.

lol Friend off mine served. Had a crewmate who wanted out. Went to the XO and said "Im a fruit, let me off." XO said, "Fine, go make out with Johnny over there. And I want to see tongue action." Well, he didn't and was given time for it.

lol The only reason for getting rid of DADT is so guys/girls could stop using it as a way to get out of their contract.

Ah, orginal tack failed, so now we get a whole new story. I'm sure there are people who tried MANY ways to get out of the service...if the story is even true. Has nothing whatsoever to do with the issue, or the volume of persecution of good, in some cases career-long soldiers that has been documented.
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Choice: Is it a choice? Is it inerrant? Prove it one way or the other.

But really, who cares?

Dear, YOU were the one who said it was choice. You were making a point in doing so, but I see you abandoned that line of reasoning the minute it was challenged. That puts you in the position of proving YOUR statement, not anyone else challenging it.
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Again, whether you are a fag, a straight or something inbetween... its really noones business.
Oh, actually: good, thank you. Obviously you believe it's not the military's business either. Excellent; we're beginning to communicate.
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But... and this is where you go off course... saying being gay is the same as being black... shit girl...

Thats insulting.

Oh, dear; still haven't grasped the concept, even tho' it's been explained to you twice, eh? So sad. Okay, one more time: I was saying that being DISCRIMINATORY (i.e., prejudiced, y'know?) against gays is like being DISCRIMINATORY against Blacks. See above.
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Now I could get into the history of the civil rights movement, the psychology of young black males and their father figure issues, the "homophobia" that arises out of being raised by women... but you can look all that up.
Very weak argument; if you're trying to back up your concept that being gay is a choice, you'll have to do much better.
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Just leave it at... the "gay rights" movement has NOTHING to do with civil rights.


It IS civil rights, you silly twit! Not that educating you does any good, but here you go:
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Civil Rights: The rights belonging to an individual by virtue of citizenship, especially the fundamental freedoms and privileges guaranteed by the 13th and 14th Amendments to the U.S. Constitution and by subsequent acts of Congress, including civil liberties, due process, equal protection of the laws, and freedom from discrimination.
Lessee, does a citizen have the right to serve in the military, and be free from discrimination?
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ETA: TO be clear, I dont care if the guy next to me is a fag. So long as he can shoot straight, will fight when needed, and will carry me out if I get hit.
Aw-RIGHT! You get it, you see our point--doesn't matter if a soldier is gay or not, long as he's a good soldier, right? Whew; that was a good debate, I'm glad you finally see our point and agree with us!



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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 1:56 PM

NIKI2

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Quote:

Actually I think 'Don't Ask' was an important first step. Homosexuality carried a stigma, right or wrong, there was a stigma.

In the military the argument that ending the ban would effect moral and efficiency was a valid argument and in combat it was one we could ill afford.

'Don't ask' came along at a sensitive time and began a transformation that is now largely complete. The stigma is much diminished, so much in fact that blatant bigotry and discrimination carries an even greater stigma.

This is not a huge policy change...simply replace 'Don't ask, don't tell' with 'the military will not discriminate on the basis of race, creed, color, or sexual orientation' and be done with it.

Just don't let them get married...at least not yet, could it be that 'Civil Unions' are a similar first step rather then shoving massive social change down everyone's throats?

Wow, another first. I agree completely, Hero, and think you framed the points very articulately. I disagree on civil marriage, but you could be right even there, I grant: A first step. Obviously it's proving hard for voters to deal with, so maybe in time... I just think it's sad we take so long to evolve our ideas.



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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 2:09 PM

STORYMARK


Quote:

Originally posted by Hero:
Quote:

Originally posted by Wulfenstar:
"And--I hesitate to ask--is there anyone here who's actually in favor of KEEPING it?"


Actually I think 'Don't Ask' was an important first step. Homosexuality carried a stigma, right or wrong, there was a stigma.

In the military the argument that ending the ban would effect moral and efficiency was a valid argument and in combat it was one we could ill afford.

'Don't ask' came along at a sensitive time and began a transformation that is now largely complete. The stigma is much diminished, so much in fact that blatant bigotry and discrimination carries an even greater stigma.

This is not a huge policy change...simply replace 'Don't ask, don't tell' with 'the military will not discriminate on the basis of race, creed, color, or sexual orientation' and be done with it.

Just don't let them get married...at least not yet, could it be that 'Civil Unions' are a similar first step rather then shoving massive social change down everyone's throats?

H

"Hero. I have come to respect you." "I am forced to agree with Hero here."- Chrisisall, 2009.



I was totally with you untill that last part.

The logic behind maintaining troop morale in combat was just barely sufficient for the DADT policy to work under the context you outline.

Such is not the case for marriage.

"I thoroughly disapprove of duels. If a man should challenge me, I would take him kindly and forgivingly by the hand and lead him to a quiet place and kill him."

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 2:31 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Posted by Wulfie:

TO be clear, I dont care if the guy next to me is a fag. So long as he can shoot straight, will fight when needed, and will carry me out if I get hit.



But see, the choice of your words says you DO care. Saying you "don't care if the guy next to me is a fag" is tantamount to saying you "don't care if the guy next to me is a nigger". You're using the derogatory term for the guy you claim you don't have a problem with. To me, that says you do indeed have a big problem with him being gay.

By the way, while you adamantly maintain that there is no equivalence between blacks and homosexuals, and while you consistently REFUSE to back that up with any kind of actual facts or evidence, you might look up a couple names: Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. See is you can spot the differences and similarities between them. (Hint: They were both murdered for being who and what they were, not for anything they'd done to their killers.)

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 2:48 PM

BLUESUNCOMPANYMAN


Can anyone explain why Don't-ask-Don't-tell is even a problem to begin with?

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:15 PM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


Are you freaking KIDDING ME? All I can say is: Read the thread. We've lost a lot of soldiers, good ones, in a time of war because of the witch hunt for gays in the military. Many have spoken up about how their being kicked out has harmed the morale in their units, which units were well aware they were gay previously and didn't give a rat's ass. it's not "Don't Ask Don't Tell", serious efforts are made to expose soldiers; it's not even what it was supposed to be.

There's also the leeeetle tiny problem of civil rights, discrimination: DID you read the thread? If so, how can you possibly think it's NOT a problem? Confusing...



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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:17 PM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
If you as a heterosexual male are THAT uncomfortable with the very idea that someone might be checking out your ass while you're trying to do your job, just imagine what your female coworkers must feel like.



That's completely my take. Inside most homophobes are sexist jerks who could never deal with the BS they've put women through all their lives. Having someone unwelcome stare at their asses all day might force them into some reflection on their own behavior. And that just can't be allowed to happen.

Maybe if these jackals knew that not all men are that shallow, they wouldn't be so afraid of the gay guys.

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hmm-burble-blah, blah-blah-blah, take a left

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:23 PM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


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Having someone unwelcome stare at their asses all day might force them into some reflection on their own behavior
In the military? With all that machismo rolling around? And weapons, even? My guess would be rather that they'd freak out. Kill someone. You know...



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Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:32 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by bluesuncompanyman:
Can anyone explain why Don't-ask-Don't-tell is even a problem to begin with?



You are obviously not reading very well.

Well, if you're willing to extend it completely, service-wide, it shouldn't be a problem. As noted above, if you will treat ALL servicepeople EQUALLY in regards to marriage, cohabiting, fraternizing, dating, relationships, and all aspects of their personal lives - i.e., that they shouldn't HAVE personal lives, and that nobody else should know about it if they DO - then it probably wouldn't be a problem.

As it is, though, you're trying to talk to soldiers about honor and integrity, and then asking - no, ORDERING - them to lie about the most basic facts of who they are.

Really, Sun, you should actually read before jumping in upon another discussion. Leave your "Other Sci-Fi Series" tactics for the "Other Sci-Fi Series" section.



Mike

Work is the curse of the Drinking Class.
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Thursday, February 4, 2010 7:15 AM

STORYMARK


Seems ol' Wulfie took his toys home - again.

"I thoroughly disapprove of duels. If a man should challenge me, I would take him kindly and forgivingly by the hand and lead him to a quiet place and kill him."

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Thursday, February 4, 2010 8:12 AM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


Yeah, I was kinda sad to see he had no comeback, given of course my response to him was sarcastic...tho' what he wrote near the end READS like he agreed with us...?

BlueSun never came back again, either, I see.

Second time I've noticed him backing out like that--maybe I miss many more, it just struck me in these two threads. Interesting...not much, but some.



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Thursday, February 4, 2010 8:53 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Niki2:
Yeah, I was kinda sad to see he had no comeback, given of course my response to him was sarcastic...tho' what he wrote near the end READS like he agreed with us...?

BlueSun never came back again, either, I see.

Second time I've noticed him backing out like that--maybe I miss many more, it just struck me in these two threads. Interesting...not much, but some.



And y'know, when they slink off like that (and O2B does it as much, if not more), I'd *like* to think that they've gone off to think about what they've been shown, and to learn and open their minds just that tiniest crack, so maybe the light can get in.

But in truth, what they do is, they run away for a few days, hope everyone forgot and the threads in question have scrolled down the page and won't be brought up again, and then they start in with THE EXACT SAME "LOGIC" AS IF NOTHING HAD EVER HAPPENED IN THE PAST.

AuRaptor was by far the worst at this crap, which is why for a while there were some of us who would just keep bringing up his posts and quotes to him, and asking, "See? See what you said right here? See where it was 100% refuted, and where you were proven to be not only wrong, but a fool as well? DO YOU SEE?"

At which point he'd sulk off for a bit, then throw the same argument up in yet another thread.

Mike

Work is the curse of the Drinking Class.
- Oscar Wilde

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Thursday, February 4, 2010 8:55 AM

JONGSSTRAW


When I run into people who are anti-gay, or anti-gay in the military, I just urge them to rent the movie Milk. And I warn the most vocal homophobes that in a two-hour movie they'll only have turn their head away for about 2 minutes in total. Nothing else I've ever seen or heard on the subject ever made their case so clear and just.

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