Of course she did this on purpose, that's how some women feel good about themselves. The thought of being able to make someone want you even if you yourself don't want them anymore can make some women get the self-confidence they can't get in a more healthy way.
She's pulling your strings....stop dancing.
You're far too good a person (hey you're a FF fan, that proves you're perfect ) to let her, and a small note: not ALL women are like that, only the ones with half a brain. There are some of us don't feel the need to do who what she does

Grey. . .you are hereby ordered to report to Greensboro so's I can smack the crap out of you.

Seriously. . .dude. You're my brother and I love you. STOP doing this to yourself!

I think in a situation like that, the best thing is to get that perfume, spray it on a baseball bat, and get whomped on by that bat. It's negative reinforcement. I'm sure our boy Jayne would concur.

Seriously, I totally agree with quicksand.

Dude.

If you keep giving her power of you, she's going to keep HAVING power over you.

Get off the merry-go-round.