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Thursday, May 10, 2007 9:56 AM
FINN MAC CUMHAL
Quote:Originally posted by rue: The response is: I pretend not to see it b/c it's uncomfortable for me.
Thursday, May 10, 2007 10:07 AM
SHADYGLEN
Thursday, May 10, 2007 10:31 AM
KANEMAN
Thursday, May 10, 2007 10:53 AM
FREDGIBLET
Quote:Originally posted by Finn mac Cumhal: Quote:Originally posted by rue: The response is: I pretend not to see it b/c it's uncomfortable for me. I don't know about that. I can't say what these people were thinking, anymore then anyone else can, but as for me personally, I've never felt the least bit uncomfortable ignoring homeless people on the street and certainly not street musicians.
Thursday, May 10, 2007 11:49 AM
AGENTROUKA
Quote:Originally posted by rue: Hi Agent, I have to go to a meeting, but I'd like to pose this question: why would a person need to LEARN to ignore sounds and people? (Besides paying minute attention to where they're walking.)
Thursday, May 10, 2007 5:08 PM
Quote:Originally posted by fredgiblet: Quote:Originally posted by Finn mac Cumhal: Quote:Originally posted by rue: The response is: I pretend not to see it b/c it's uncomfortable for me. I don't know about that. I can't say what these people were thinking, anymore then anyone else can, but as for me personally, I've never felt the least bit uncomfortable ignoring homeless people on the street and certainly not street musicians. I'm pretty sure that what she was saying is that for some reason the presence of street musicians makes you uncomfortable, so you ignore them. No more correct but a different statement then "Ignoring street musicians makes you uncomfortable".
Tuesday, May 15, 2007 3:37 PM
RUE
I have a vote and I'm not afraid to use it!
Tuesday, May 15, 2007 3:43 PM
FUTUREMRSFILLION
Quote:Originally posted by rue: I'll probably just have time for one response today: Agent and Finn - have either of you lived in another country for any length of time? Because - and I'll have to go back to my experiences rather than any study - not all countries are like this. Going to work or coming home from work in another country is nothing like in the US. Each place has its different flavor, but the US is, by far, the most defensive walled-off group of commuters I have ever seen. It's not 'normal' in the sense of some hidden biological response. It is very cultural.
Tuesday, May 15, 2007 7:03 PM
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Wednesday, May 16, 2007 7:48 AM
FREMDFIRMA
Wednesday, May 16, 2007 9:43 AM
ROCKETJOCK
Wednesday, May 16, 2007 4:08 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Fremdfirma: I've little useful to add here beyond stating for the record - no, you've not convinced me one bit of the need for social order of the type we commonly practice in the US, not even close.
Quote:I also think it's asinine and that the world isn't, you know, gonna END if you're a little late coming in, especially if you make up that time at the end of the day - even when I worked a 9-to-5, my boss saw little difference between 9:00-5:00 and 9:18 - 5:30, long as the job gone done.
Thursday, May 17, 2007 9:27 AM
Thursday, May 17, 2007 10:04 AM
Quote:Originally posted by rue: Bad video and quite a bit more bustle and people performing, but Toronto response during rush hour
Quote:Bruce Springsteen in Copenhagen - you have to watch to near the end where they pan to the crowd
Thursday, May 17, 2007 10:14 AM
Thursday, May 17, 2007 10:56 AM
Quote:Originally posted by rue: You're the one who's claiming everyone acts just like the people in DC. So, show me a video of Bell playing in a subway station in the middle of a large European city at rush hour where there is a significant number of people NOT watching.
Quote:"and probably get the hell away from them" Didn't you notice the Torontonians were smiling ??
Thursday, May 17, 2007 11:18 AM
Thursday, May 17, 2007 3:06 PM
Quote:I never said anything of the sort. (that everyone acts just like the people in DC).
Quote:If I was watching from a distance I might smile too, but not if I'm in the middle of it.
Friday, May 18, 2007 6:56 AM
Quote:Originally posted by rue: Quote:I never said anything of the sort. (that everyone acts just like the people in DC).The whole context of your argument is that with complex societies people just naturally become more time-constrained. Here is one example: "Thursday, May 03, 2007 - 15:12 Thus people in cities are more apt to be willing to bow to the demands of society." So yes, you are under an onus to back up your very general claims.
Quote:Quote:If I was watching from a distance I might smile too, but not if I'm in the middle of it.Well, it was the people immediately in front of the group, some of whom turned around to look and turned back smiling. And, oh yes, the people in back of them, and if you'll look closely the people on either side ...
Quote:Aside from that, you keep saying that people are claiming you should always stop and listen.
Quote:In fact you went so far in mischaracterizing the argument you said "I don't see it as a failing of society that we don't stop ... and watch entranced until it's done." Until it's done ??? Did anyone ever say that?
Quote: And well, you also missed my point - which was that I found it odd that few people 'without breaking stride' turned around to look.
Quote:And in general, comparing tapes of Canadians and Americans in public places, Americans have defensive body language.
Friday, May 18, 2007 3:36 PM
Friday, May 18, 2007 5:49 PM
Quote:Originally posted by rue: I was wondering - have you ever spent significant time in another country?
Quote:Because, to say this yet again, different cultures have different flavors. What 'people in cities' do is different depending on which country you are in.
Quote:Run this thought experiment in your mind - do you think Bruce Springsteen would gather a crowd in DC?
Quote:Would a festive troupe garner smiles?
Quote:And why not?
Quote:So, what is it about US culture that causes that result? What is it about US culture that makes people defensive in public?
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JAYNEZTOWN
Quote:Originally posted by rue: Another thought occurred to me - have US cities ever been kind to buskers, especially classical musicians? In general Americans don't have much interest classical music. You practically have to be a snob or geek or French to like that sort of thing.
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