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Don't Ask Don't Tell on the way out?
Sunday, January 31, 2010 10:44 AM
NIKI2
Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...
Quote:Lawmakers gearing up for 2010 "don't ask, don't tell" fight Last week nearly 100 members of Congress sent a letter for Defense Secretary Robert Gates requesting details on servicemembers discharged in 2009 under the military's ban on homosexuals serving openly in the ranks. The statistics -- how many troops, their years of service, their job specialties -- will be the backbone of arguments in favor of overturning the "don't ask, don't tell" law when both the House and Senate hold hearings on the issue sometime this spring. The lawmakers are also requesting the Pentagon provide monthly updates on numbers of troops being kicked out because of the law, so "the public will get a clearer picture of the continued costs and damage to our national security inflicted by this policy." The request includes the signature of only one Republican lawmaker -- Rep. Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, of Florida -- and largely mirrors the supporters list of the "don't ask, don't tell" repeal measure sponsored by Pennsylvania's Rep. Patrick Murphy (although that bill has 186 co-sponsors). And the letter also lays out the financial arguments against the ban, citing a 2006 Blue Ribbon Commission’s report on "don't ask, don't tell" that suggested the sexual-orientation discharges cost the Pentagon more than $360 million from 1994 until 2003. Pentagon officials have not yet responded to the request. Rep. Jim Moran, D-Va., has said lawmakers may seek legislative action to mandate the monthly reports if the Defense Department does not cooperate.
Quote:Armies and societies for centuries (millenia) have kept queers in the closet. Why would we be so stupid as to openly allow "GAYS" to serve now? That's stupid. Centuries of common sense should not be flushed for political correctness, in the military or in society. -------- As to "knowing" who's gay? So what? They kept it in the CLOSET, like they should, so EVERYONE was happy! That's the way it worked (as you were witness to), and that's the way it should stay. If it ain't broken, don't freakin' break it! The military is not an experimental playground for social engineering. When that happens, we are WEAKER. We are weaker for other reasons already, thanks to Obama and liberalism, but that's no reason to be weaker yet. ------- Being queer is immoral. Making it public is even MORE immoral, and that part, we don't have to allow. (We in this case, is MANKIND.) ------- I find it hard to believe too, and I still am in contact with some of my contemporaries who serve in command status, that a social deviant could perform well in an elite status combat group. The team concept, to my way of thinking, could not accept a gay member. Perhaps in a support, or staff function such an individual could perform satisfactorily.
Monday, February 1, 2010 5:42 PM
WULFENSTAR
http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 2:38 AM
JONGSSTRAW
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 3:00 AM
KWICKO
"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)
Quote:Originally posted by Jongsstraw: America needs to have an all-gay military.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 3:01 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: "And--I hesitate to ask--is there anyone here who's actually in favor of KEEPING it?" Only in the interests of privacy.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 4:00 AM
FREMDFIRMA
Quote:Originally posted by Kwicko: The Navy's way ahead of ya...
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 6:28 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Fremdfirma: Quote:Originally posted by Kwicko: The Navy's way ahead of ya... Well bloody hell, tis all just rum, sodomy an' the lash anyhows, innit ? -F
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:16 AM
Quote:I find it hard to believe....that a social deviant could perform well in an elite status combat group. The team concept, to my way of thinking, could not accept a gay member. Perhaps in a support, or staff function such an individual could perform satisfactorily.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:21 AM
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:31 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: "I want it gone; I want acceptance to start happening...it's the same as racial prejudice." Sweetie, no... stop. Please stop right there. I don't wan't you embarrassing yourself or be putting yourself in the wrong place. Being gay is not the same as being black. By continuing that line of reasoning, you insult MANY people.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:33 AM
KPO
Sometimes you own the libs. Sometimes, the libs own you.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 9:37 AM
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 10:06 AM
Quote:Marine heritage such that I have... no.
Quote:The other, is a choice. I.E, yes you can control who and what you frak.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 10:16 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: "She's equating prejudices, not minority categories. And she's right - America in the future will look back with shame on this institutionalised prejudice, just as it does on its previous racist practices." Um, no. Marine heritage such that I have... no. Again, being born black is not the same as being gay. One is something you can't hide/change. I.E. you cant lighten your skin. The other, is a choice. I.E, yes you can control who and what you frak.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 12:07 PM
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 2:13 PM
Quote:who knows? Who cares?
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 4:12 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: Nature... Nurture... who knows? Who cares?
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 5:46 PM
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 6:35 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Fremdfirma: Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: Nature... Nurture... who knows? Who cares? I do. That said, Two-star is/was one of them racist, sexist, generally intolerant old cogders, with a side order of fire and brimstone Baptist... yet the hypocrisy of playin poker never seemed to get through his thick skull. Well, he needed a chopper pilot, and the one most qualified for the job happened to be both a man of color, and not heterosexual (he's one of Augustus's old army buddies) which I figured would offend him ever so greatly. First thing outta two-stars mouth "You don't look like a faggot, boy.." Amos "Oh kiss my black ass, you too fuckin ugly for me even if you weren't a dried up old cracker pervert!" Two-star hired him on the spot, guess he's mellowed in his dotage. -F
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:30 AM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 6:00 AM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 7:52 AM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 7:57 AM
Quote:She's equating prejudices, not minority categories. And she's right - America in the future will look back with shame on this institutionalised prejudice, just as it does on its previous racist practices.
Quote: One is something you can't hide/change. I.E. you cant lighten your skin. The other, is a choice. I.E, yes you can control who and what you frak.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 8:09 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Jongsstraw: I saw an Air Force pilot last night on one of the cable news shows, and he had just "come out", and he was facing a discharge. This was his career, his life he said. I also saw another outed gay man on CNN who served in a support position, and it was the same damn thing. It's a bitch to admit, but both of those men are better patriots than me. They made a sacrifice and a commitment that I never did. Who would I then be if I was to support denying them their pursuit of happiness to serve their country, and oh, protect me and mine in the process? Senator McCain stated yesterday that he "was disappointed" with this new directive from Obama, and I also saw a couple of others try to defend DADT. They simply could not. Their arguments are so tied to false assumptions and old predjudices that I could easily see right through them. I was in the Boy Scouts until I was 17. I went on many camping trips in the woods and slept in tents with other boys. Statistics tell me that at least some of the boys were likely gay or were leaning that way. Same thing in high school and college...played sports, lockered and showered with guys. I'm pretty sure no one ever made a move on me either in public or private. So history proves that people of different sexual preferences can indeed co-exist without all heck breaking loose. Speaking of McCain, he had quite the day for himself yesterday....the absurd statement he made about gays in the military, and then his utterly absurd and disrespectful attack on Sec of Defense Gates. He would not relent until he got Gates to go against his boss, President Obama, knowing full well that Gates never would. Three or four times he asked the same question, and each time Gates deferred appropriately, making McCain look all manner of foolish. The main issue involved should have been addressed to Holder, not Gates, but it was grand theater for the old Maverick, as he prepares to ride off into the sunset this Novemeber.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 8:29 AM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 8:47 AM
Quote: But... and this is where you go off course... saying being gay is the same as being black... shit girl... Thats insulting. Now I could get into the history of the civil rights movement, the psychology of young black males and their father figure issues, the "homophobia" that arises out of being raised by women... but you can look all that up.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 9:55 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Kwicko: I believe that Air Force pilot you're referring to is Lt. Col. Victor Fehrenbach, a 19-year veteran of the Air Force, an F-15 driver, a veteran of over 80 combat missions, and a hero of BOTH Gulf Wars AND the Afghanistan War, with a number of commendations, medals, and decorations to his credit. And the bitch of it? He didn't "come out"; he was OUTED by a civilian acquaintance, who turned him in. Then he was called in for questioning, asked if he was gay, and he told the truth, rather than lie to his superior officers. In other words, going against the rules, they asked. And so a distinguished (some would say brilliant) 19-year career comes to an undistinguished end.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 10:21 AM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 10:46 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Niki2: JS, thank you for your most eloquent and definitive summing up of the entire situation.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 10:48 AM
Quote:Just don't push that on me. Dont tell me that I have to think its right, or even like it.
Quote:Choice: Is it a choice? Is it inerrant? Prove it one way or the other. But really, who cares?
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 11:05 AM
Quote:Originally posted by kpo: Quote:Just don't push that on me. Dont tell me that I have to think its right, or even like it. Well nobody's trying to convert you to gay sex. You can find gay sex as offensive as you like. But the minute you start to defend prejudice against these people expect to meet some resistance from more 'free-minded' individuals here - which is what happened.
Quote: Quote:Choice: Is it a choice? Is it inerrant? Prove it one way or the other. But really, who cares? Man, stick to your convictions. Right at the beginning you asserted that it was a choice, and you excused discrimination against them on that basis. Heads should roll
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 11:09 AM
STORYMARK
Quote:Originally posted by Kwicko: Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: Nature... Nurture... who knows? Who cares?
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 11:36 AM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 11:52 AM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 12:04 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Storymark: But, aren't you supposed to be like, kinda angry?
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 1:21 PM
HERO
Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: "And--I hesitate to ask--is there anyone here who's actually in favor of KEEPING it?"
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 1:35 PM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 1:45 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: Niki, I started off in this thread by saying that Im for "Don't as, don't tell" because its really noones business. Period.
Quote:Hell, I dont care if you frak some guy up the butt. Not my problem. Thats between you and the guy you are doing.
Quote:Just don't push that on me. Dont tell me that I have to think its right, or even like it. Thats part of being free to make your own choice.
Quote:Dont ask and dont tell solves the problem without making it an issue. Navy for example: some guys are more queer than a 3 dollar bill. Noone cares.
Quote:The only time its brought up is if someone WANTS to get OUT of the Navy. lol Friend off mine served. Had a crewmate who wanted out. Went to the XO and said "Im a fruit, let me off." XO said, "Fine, go make out with Johnny over there. And I want to see tongue action." Well, he didn't and was given time for it. lol The only reason for getting rid of DADT is so guys/girls could stop using it as a way to get out of their contract.
Quote:Again, whether you are a fag, a straight or something inbetween... its really noones business.
Quote:But... and this is where you go off course... saying being gay is the same as being black... shit girl... Thats insulting.
Quote:Now I could get into the history of the civil rights movement, the psychology of young black males and their father figure issues, the "homophobia" that arises out of being raised by women... but you can look all that up.
Quote:Just leave it at... the "gay rights" movement has NOTHING to do with civil rights.
Quote:Civil Rights: The rights belonging to an individual by virtue of citizenship, especially the fundamental freedoms and privileges guaranteed by the 13th and 14th Amendments to the U.S. Constitution and by subsequent acts of Congress, including civil liberties, due process, equal protection of the laws, and freedom from discrimination.
Quote:ETA: TO be clear, I dont care if the guy next to me is a fag. So long as he can shoot straight, will fight when needed, and will carry me out if I get hit.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 1:56 PM
Quote:Actually I think 'Don't Ask' was an important first step. Homosexuality carried a stigma, right or wrong, there was a stigma. In the military the argument that ending the ban would effect moral and efficiency was a valid argument and in combat it was one we could ill afford. 'Don't ask' came along at a sensitive time and began a transformation that is now largely complete. The stigma is much diminished, so much in fact that blatant bigotry and discrimination carries an even greater stigma. This is not a huge policy change...simply replace 'Don't ask, don't tell' with 'the military will not discriminate on the basis of race, creed, color, or sexual orientation' and be done with it. Just don't let them get married...at least not yet, could it be that 'Civil Unions' are a similar first step rather then shoving massive social change down everyone's throats?
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 2:09 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Hero: Quote:Originally posted by Wulfenstar: "And--I hesitate to ask--is there anyone here who's actually in favor of KEEPING it?" Actually I think 'Don't Ask' was an important first step. Homosexuality carried a stigma, right or wrong, there was a stigma. In the military the argument that ending the ban would effect moral and efficiency was a valid argument and in combat it was one we could ill afford. 'Don't ask' came along at a sensitive time and began a transformation that is now largely complete. The stigma is much diminished, so much in fact that blatant bigotry and discrimination carries an even greater stigma. This is not a huge policy change...simply replace 'Don't ask, don't tell' with 'the military will not discriminate on the basis of race, creed, color, or sexual orientation' and be done with it. Just don't let them get married...at least not yet, could it be that 'Civil Unions' are a similar first step rather then shoving massive social change down everyone's throats? H "Hero. I have come to respect you." "I am forced to agree with Hero here."- Chrisisall, 2009.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 2:31 PM
Quote:Posted by Wulfie: TO be clear, I dont care if the guy next to me is a fag. So long as he can shoot straight, will fight when needed, and will carry me out if I get hit.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 2:48 PM
BLUESUNCOMPANYMAN
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:15 PM
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:17 PM
MAL4PREZ
Quote:Originally posted by Kwicko: If you as a heterosexual male are THAT uncomfortable with the very idea that someone might be checking out your ass while you're trying to do your job, just imagine what your female coworkers must feel like.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:23 PM
Quote:Having someone unwelcome stare at their asses all day might force them into some reflection on their own behavior
Wednesday, February 3, 2010 3:32 PM
Quote:Originally posted by bluesuncompanyman: Can anyone explain why Don't-ask-Don't-tell is even a problem to begin with?
Thursday, February 4, 2010 7:15 AM
Thursday, February 4, 2010 8:12 AM
Thursday, February 4, 2010 8:53 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Niki2: Yeah, I was kinda sad to see he had no comeback, given of course my response to him was sarcastic...tho' what he wrote near the end READS like he agreed with us...? BlueSun never came back again, either, I see. Second time I've noticed him backing out like that--maybe I miss many more, it just struck me in these two threads. Interesting...not much, but some.
Thursday, February 4, 2010 8:55 AM
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