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Social Class as Culture

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 10:28 AM

FREMDFIRMA



Ha, Scientific Proof, rich people are dicks.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/08/110808152413.htm
Quote:

ScienceDaily (Aug. 9, 2011) — Social class is more than just how much money you have. It's also the clothes you wear, the music you like, the school you go to -- and has a strong influence on how you interact with others, according to the authors of a new article in Current Directions in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science. People from lower classes have fundamentally different ways of thinking about the world than people in upper classes -- a fact that should figure into debates on public policy, according to the authors.

"Americans, although this is shifting a bit, kind of think class is irrelevant," says Dacher Keltner of the University of California-Berkeley, who cowrote the article with Michael W. Kraus of UC-San Francisco and Paul K. Piff of UC-Berkeley. "I think our studies are saying the opposite: This is a profound part of who we are."

People who come from a lower-class background have to depend more on other people. "If you don't have resources and education, you really adapt to the environment, which is more threatening, by turning to other people," Keltner says. "People who grow up in lower-class neighborhoods, as I did, will say,' There's always someone there who will take you somewhere, or watch your kid. You've just got to lean on people.'"

Wealthier people don't have to rely on each other as much. This causes differences that show up in psychological studies. People from lower-class backgrounds are better at reading other people's emotions. They're more likely to act altruistically. "They give more and help more. If someone's in need, they'll respond," Keltner says. When poor people see someone else suffering, they have a physiological response that is missing in people with more resources. "What I think is really interesting about that is, it kind of shows there's all this strength to the lower class identity: greater empathy, more altruism, and finer attunement to other people," he says. Of course, there are also costs to being lower-class. Health studies have found that lower-class people have more anxiety and depression and are less physically healthy.

Upper-class people are different, Keltner says. "What wealth and education and prestige and a higher station in life gives you is the freedom to focus on the self." In psychology experiments, wealthier people don't read other people's emotions as well. They hoard resources and are less generous than they could be.

One implication of this, Keltner says, is that's unreasonable to structure a society on the hope that rich people will help those less fortunate. "One clear policy implication is, the idea of nobless oblige or trickle-down economics, certain versions of it, is bull," Keltner says. "Our data say you cannot rely on the wealthy to give back. The 'thousand points of light' -- this rise of compassion in the wealthy to fix all the problems of society -- is improbable, psychologically."

The ability to rise in class is the great promise of the American Dream. But studies have found that, as people rise in the classes, they become less empathetic. Studies have also found that as people rise in wealth, they become happier -- but not as much as you'd expect. "I think one of the reasons why is the human psyche stops feeling the need to connect and be closer to others, and we know that's one of the greatest sources of happiness science can study," Keltner says.

The article is entitled, "Social Class as Culture: The Convergence of Resources and Rank in the Social Realm."



FOR SCIENCE!

-Frem

I do not serve the Blind God.

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 10:48 AM

BYTEMITE


My parents have tried to make me a carbon copy of them... it bugs me that they're so judgmental, and they have no sense of charity.

The article regrettably is probably right, though I suspect the day-to-day struggles of the lower class are more like humans in the wild than the selfishness of the upper classes.

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 10:50 AM

SKYDIVELIFE


So if I win the lottery, I automatically become a dick?


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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 10:58 AM

BYTEMITE


I'd assume that upbringing in some particular class has more a role to play than a sudden gain or loss in wealth.

But for some people, yes, that does happen. Though they probably already had some seed of jerkhood in them to begin with.

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 11:43 AM

MAGONSDAUGHTER


Quote:

Originally posted by SkyDiveLife:
So if I win the lottery, I automatically become a dick?




That would be a scientfic fact.

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 11:45 AM

AURAPTOR

America loves a winner!


Quote:

Originally posted by SkyDiveLife:
So if I win the lottery, I automatically become a dick?




No. Apparently, hard work and prudent spending of your own money does that.

If you win LIFE'S lottery, you're evil, but if you just win THE lottery, you're entitled to more and more stuff.

Quote:

$2M Michigan lottery winner defends use of food stamps

Ron French, Detroit News staff writer
A Michigan man who won $2 million in a state lottery game continues to collect food stamps 11 months after striking it rich.

And there's nothing the state can do about it, at least for now.

Leroy Fick, 59, of Auburn won $2 million in the state lottery TV show "Make Me Rich!" last June. But the state's Department of Human Services determined he was still eligible for food stamps, Fick's attorney, John Wilson of Midland, said Tuesday.

Eligibility for food stamps is based on gross income and follows federal guidelines; lottery winnings are considered liquid assets and don't count as income. As long as Fick's gross income stays below the eligibility requirement for food stamps, he can receive them, even if he has a million dollars in the bank.
Food stamps are paid for through tax dollars and are meant to help support low-income families.
" If you're going to try to make me feel bad, you're not going to do it," Fick told WNEM-TV in Saginaw on Monday.

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/detriot/2m-michigan-lottery-winner-defends
-food-stamps-172712202.html





Then there's this lovely saint....


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"Miss Marshall, who has never worked, rakes in almost £29,000 [£ is roughly $1.6] a year from benefits - and last year spent £4,500 to go from a 34A to a 34DD.

She explained: 'I have wanted a boob job since I was a teen. But it wasn't until I had five children that I could afford it - with all the extra benefits I get. Now I hope to have liposuction, a tummy tuck and regular Botox.

'I thought having children would make my boobs bigger, but that never happened so I decided to do something about them.

'I saved money from my benefits for four months to cover half the cost and put the rest on a credit card, which I pay back with my benefits.

'I know most people will think it is wrong I am spending taxpayers' money on my looks. But I deserve it because I am a good mum. Having children has taken its toll on my body. All mums should be able to have cosmetic surgery."
.... 'But I don't think me or my children should miss out on nice things just because I have never worked.'



http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1318028/As-families-face-ben
efits-cuts-Kelly-Marshall-spent-4-500-BOOB-JOB.html





That's right, love. Screw having to work for anything. You wants it, why.. go out and gets it.


" I do not love the bright sword for its sharpness, nor the arrow for its swiftness, nor the warrior for his glory. I love only that which they defend. "

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 1:04 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by SkyDiveLife:
So if I win the lottery, I automatically become a dick?





You won?

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 1:07 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by AURaptor:


Quote:

$2M Michigan lottery winner defends use of food stamps

Ron French, Detroit News staff writer
A Michigan man who won $2 million in a state lottery game continues to collect food stamps 11 months after striking it rich.

And there's nothing the state can do about it, at least for now.

Leroy Fick, 59, of Auburn won $2 million in the state lottery TV show "Make Me Rich!" last June. But the state's Department of Human Services determined he was still eligible for food stamps, Fick's attorney, John Wilson of Midland, said Tuesday.

Eligibility for food stamps is based on gross income and follows federal guidelines; lottery winnings are considered liquid assets and don't count as income. As long as Fick's gross income stays below the eligibility requirement for food stamps, he can receive them, even if he has a million dollars in the bank.
Food stamps are paid for through tax dollars and are meant to help support low-income families.
" If you're going to try to make me feel bad, you're not going to do it," Fick told WNEM-TV in Saginaw on Monday.

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/detriot/2m-michigan-lottery-winner-defends
-food-stamps-172712202.html









What's funny is that you've defended Michele Bachmann and her family for doing pretty much the exact same thing.

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 1:55 PM

DREAMTROVE




it's not that the richare dicks, but that they think different, andwe need some of our own people in order to get a realistic discussion that encompasses a full spectrum of humanity.

Also, i'm getting gorram sick of the partisanship, does every thread have to turn into a slugfest? Both parties are parties of the rich. So are all the media figures. Man of the people john stewart is the brother of the head of the NYSE.

It's not just rich people, it's a handful of ruling families from a handful of communities.


That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 4:33 PM

FREMDFIRMA


Byte: free range people ? I can sorta see it like that, versus the ivory tower crowd.

DT: The word you are looking for, is Oligarchy.

-F

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011 5:38 PM

RIONAEIRE

Beir bua agus beannacht


That's an interesting study and makes some sense. I'm very communalistic, bery pro being with one's family and doing for each other.

"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 12:20 AM

FREMDFIRMA


Well, firstly, I was thinkin about life "down there" when it's kinda good, cause it never really gets "good", but you know what I mean, or you don't, prolly never will and that's all good too.

And the words know who to lean on kinda jumped out at me, and brought to mind the perfect song for the empathic community concept you see "down there" when they get it together, which is what I have been formenting like hell in Detroit right now.

THIS.



As the local rumor goes, whisper the devils name in the wind, and he just might show, what you got to lose ?


ETA: And that ole devil, he's got some pretty big shoulders for such a little guy..

Was dropping off some outgoing at the post office yesterday and there's this guy sitting there, I see him ask someone if they were going east, and got brushed off pretty hard - I wasn't goin east but I asked him where he needed to go, which was basically home as his ride back from the day-labor place left him swinging (got fired and drove off in a huff).

Now, mind you this was a large rough looking guy who was a little darker in complexion than most of the neighborhood, if you know what I mean, and it wouldn't be too long before the local badge bearing thugs moved him on, cause most of the locals of that area wouldn't be too inclined to help him - one of those "well, someone should do something" moments, and well, I was there, wasn't I ?

So I took him home somewhere up on Wayne Road, and even volunteered to stop at a check cashing place and wait for him so he'd have something more than useless paper in his hand when he got there - guy tried to throw me a couple bucks for gas but I waved him off, told him "I been where you are, man, you need that more than I do."
The expression on his face as I drove away was worth every ounce of time and effort, I do stuff not only as a spit in the eye to a system turned rabid, but also as a quasi-religious gesture, in order to restore other peoples faith in humanity before they succumb to the lure of that dog-eat-dog myth which does our humanity so much harm, and maybe, just maybe a little bit to prove to the universe that not EVERYONE is an asshole, a great big digitus impudicus to the very gods themselves.

-Frem

I do not serve the Blind God.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 12:27 AM

FREMDFIRMA


Quote:

Originally posted by dreamtrove:
Also, i'm getting gorram sick of the partisanship, does every thread have to turn into a slugfest?


Yanno, I been biting my tongue, but imma call you out on this, DT.

You know how wulfenwhiner likes to claim the liberal method of evading debate lies in crying racism ?
Which is mostly bunk, but only mostly, cause the SPLC is the most revolting pack of scumbag liberal do-gooder crusader types I've ever known and they *are* known for playing that card...

Well, it seems that every time someone finally calls out the right wing and their corporate masters there's you crying "partisanship!" as if it's a code-word for how-dare-you-call-them-out.

And I am calling YOU out on it.
If they weren't such dickheads, had not displayed such malice, such ignorance, perhaps folk would be a little more inclined to get along with them, but when they've made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR that it's gonna be us or them...
It ain't gonna be them, not if I have anything to say for it!
That ain't partisanship, that's self-defense, learn the goddamn difference.

Besides which, I *WAS* being intentionally snarky/sarcastic, or tying to be, but hey, if folks wanna add more evidence to the assertion I made whilst posting the story with their own behavior, you feel free to do that.

-Frem
PS. How on *earth* could anyone think me a democrat partisan when everyone here KNOWS imma Anarchist, for crying out loud, or are you just whining to hear yourself whine ?
now go away, or I shall taunt you a second time, nyaaah!

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 2:12 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by RionaEire:
That's an interesting study and makes some sense. I'm very communalistic, bery pro being with one's family and doing for each other.

"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya




Which is kinda funny, in a way, because "commune" is the base word behind "communism", which is really nothing more than the idea that we're ALL part of the same family and should be doing for each other the way we'd do for our own.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 2:16 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Fremdfirma wrote:



So I took him home somewhere up on Wayne Road, and even volunteered to stop at a check cashing place and wait for him so he'd have something more than useless paper in his hand when he got there - guy tried to throw me a couple bucks for gas but I waved him off, told him "I been where you are, man, you need that more than I do."
The expression on his face as I drove away was worth every ounce of time and effort, I do stuff not only as a spit in the eye to a system turned rabid, but also as a quasi-religious gesture, in order to restore other peoples faith in humanity before they succumb to the lure of that dog-eat-dog myth which does our humanity so much harm, and maybe, just maybe a little bit to prove to the universe that not EVERYONE is an asshole, a great big digitus impudicus to the very gods themselves.



And THAT is why you are a hero. Not because you did the impossible, but because you're one of the very few who will actually step up and do the POSSIBLE!

You're a good man, Frem, no matter what anyone else may say.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 2:20 AM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


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I suspect the day-to-day struggles of the lower class are more like humans in the wild than the selfishness of the upper classes.
Humans in the wild have an even more heightened sense of depending on each other.

ALSO.

I know we 'muricans like to think of ourselves as "classless" people, but we are in fact highly aware of class. Flash a picture of a woman at a man, and he is unlikely to be able to tell you the color of her hair but he will be able to tell you, within a very small range, her economic status.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 3:37 AM

BYTEMITE


I think DT was referring to Kwicko and AURaptor's routine Vaudeville. If I didn't think you guys would kill each other I'd say you ought to go on tour.

I guess people will amuse themselves different ways.

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/FunnyBackgroundEvent

Of course, that means I don't read either of them much anymore, and skim past their posts because I know they're probably just snarking at each other. That's too bad, because everyone has something to say worth hearing.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 5:11 AM

BYTEMITE


Quote:

and he is unlikely to be able to tell you the color of her hair


Well that's because boys do silly stuff like call teal and cyan "blue-green" or magenta and fuchsia "pink."

But that might be the gender specific colour blindness.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 5:21 AM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


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it's not that the richare dicks, but that they think different.... Both parties are parties of the rich..... it's a handful of ruling families from a handful of communities
To me, that about nails it. I see nothing wrong with being rich, but rich people who can afford to buy power and are bent on doing so, THAT bothers me.

When one grows up with immense wealth, I don't know quite where one would get the opportunity to get perspective. They live in their own world, and I don't blame them for that; my only complaint is that they've bought the government into giving them more and more and more. THAT I'd like to see changed, but to imagine they'll ever have any grasp of how the "common man" lives, thinks, behaves or anything else is kind of illogical.

I am confused by the Jon Stewart thing. Has he ever said he's a "man of the people"< or has anyone else ever said he was? I've never heard that before. I know Colbert is unashamedly "rich" and uses it frequently to further is satire, but I've never heard Stewart remark on his own wealth or lack thereof. So I'm not sure where that comes from, unless it's just your perspective that we see him that way.

Mike, I agree; Frem will step up to the plate when most won't. I try to do my bit; rescue loose dogs and even take them home when they have tags ('cuz the Humane Society, tho' they do good things, will fine people, etc.). I've stopped and helped out people with motorcycles or bicycles and driven them where they need to go (tho' I don't do that anymore, a bit too risky) and NEVER walked around the City without paper money in my pocket to give out to those who need it. Took a huge bag of dog food to a guy I got to know on Market Street who had a pit bull he loved (the SFSPCA will keep their animals for the homeless if they can't--like if they're thrown in jail--until they can take them back, but losing your dog, even for a bit, when homeless is awful. One Xmas I took half of my Xmas bonus, broke it into twenties, and went to the East Bay and gave it out. I saw far too many families, with kids in tow, pushing shopping carts--and that was YEARS ago, I can't imagine how it is now!

But I've never done what Frem does, and I freely admit my focus is on animals first, I just do what I can for people when the chance presents. To this day I keep money in my wallet and give it out to people standing on street corners with signs, but I don't have the wherewithall to do anything else except support a few nonprofits.

Frem, I've said it before, but it bears repeating:

Byte, I don't pay them much mind either; if there's something in the discussion that interests me, I'll respond, but to Raptor it's mostly snarks (I gave up snarking at Mike long ago; HE should have the brains not to engage, but obviously he enjoys it, so who am I to say?).


Hippie Operative Nikovich Nikita Nicovna Talibani,
Contracted Agent of Veritas Oilspillus, code name “Nike”,
signing off



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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 5:35 AM

ANTHONYT

Freedom is Important because People are Important


Hello,

I think the main thing about being rich is, it removes a lot of inhibitors from human behavior. This, as the article says, because rich people don't need other people as much in order to survive. Worse, non-rich people may need rich people in order to survive.

Hence if your whimsy makes you want to curse someone out in a moment of anger, you may be less inclined to stop yourself. Ever been really mad at your boss? What kept you from demonstrating your anger? Was it a respect for the basic human decency that all communications should embody? Or was it the potential loss of a paycheck?

A lot of the decisions we make to be 'nice' stem not so much from deep seated moral fiber as from an understanding that we are stuck with these people in our lives, and had best get along with them. But rich people are much less stuck with anybody. They can go and do pretty much as they please.

Just the same, I would like to test the theory by winning the lottery and reporting back to you all on my findings. ;-)

--Anthony





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“Freedom is not worth having if it does not connote freedom to err. It passes my comprehension how human beings, be they ever so experienced and able, can delight in depriving other human beings of that precious right.”

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 6:40 AM

BYTEMITE


Anthony! Dang, it seems like it's been a long time. What've you been up to?

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 7:28 AM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


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I think the main thing about being rich is, it removes a lot of inhibitors from human behavior
I agree with that, too, Anthony, but I think it goes back to that "they think differently" thing. If raised among the wealthy, I think they BELIEVE they hvae the right to do as they please...how many have we seen get in trouble with the law for doing things others would fear getting in trouble with the law for? I think that goes to both; they're RAISED to think they don't need inhibitions as much as others do. So for me that combines the two and is a "chicken or the egg" problem; does being wealthy decrease inhibitions, or does one learn one doesn't need inhibitions because one grew up thinking differently?

And I, too, would like to catch up, as wel as being tickled pink to see you back.


Hippie Operative Nikovich Nikita Nicovna Talibani,
Contracted Agent of Veritas Oilspillus, code name “Nike”,
signing off



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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 7:38 AM

BYTEMITE


I would say both, with the stipulation that the rich kid mindset is probably permanent, while bad behaviour in the newly-rich is more of personal backlash against a world that has been frustrating (kind of an "I don't have to deal with this bull anymore" reaction).

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 7:44 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Niki2:
Quote:

I think the main thing about being rich is, it removes a lot of inhibitors from human behavior
I agree with that, too, Anthony, but I think it goes back to that "they think differently" thing. If raised among the wealthy, I think they BELIEVE they hvae the right to do as they please...how many have we seen get in trouble with the law for doing things others would fear getting in trouble with the law for? I think that goes to both; they're RAISED to think they don't need inhibitions as much as others do. So for me that combines the two and is a "chicken or the egg" problem; does being wealthy decrease inhibitions, or does one learn one doesn't need inhibitions because one grew up thinking differently?

And I, too, would like to catch up, as wel as being tickled pink to see you back.


Hippie Operative Nikovich Nikita Nicovna Talibani,
Contracted Agent of Veritas Oilspillus, code name “Nike”,
signing off







Indeed. While many black and poor kids grow up thinking that the police should be avoided at nearly all costs, many rich kids seem to grow up thinking that there's really nothing the cops can do to them.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 10:19 AM

PIZMOBEACH

... fully loaded, safety off...


So, Joss Whedon's a dick?

That article panders to the "poor me" syndrome pretty blatantly - and who are these folks? "... a new article in Current Directions in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science." So like it's doubly true? Looks like 2 rich professors wrote this...

I prefer Bruce Springsteen's take on wealth - when asked what it was like coming from a simple home in New Jersey to now living in a 10 million dollar mansion in Beverly Hills he said, "there's assholes on every block."

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 11:23 AM

DREAMTROVE


Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
Byte: free range people ? I can sorta see it like that, versus the ivory tower crowd.

DT: The word you are looking for, is Oligarchy.

-F



Nah, I think it's aristocracy, but it is also an oligarchy. I think of oligarchy as being where the real position of power is not certain, but rather there is a power struggle between ruling powers to angle for control, but that definitely happens: the us president is not in power, I think tim geitner is, and the last president wasn't in power either, cheney was. Clinton may have been, but bush sr. Was over reagan.


That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 7:56 PM

RIONAEIRE

Beir bua agus beannacht


Anthony's theory makes sense, rich people don't have to maintain relationships since they can just go get new friends or employees if they mess up with the old ones, whereas most of humanity will have the same coworkers, the same neighbors, for a long time and we have to make it work. I too think that some of this depends more on how you were raised than how much money you have now.

Quicko, I know that, and I won't deny that aspects of communism, on paper, do appeal to me on some level. But in real life it doesn't work like it looks on paper, so I'm not interested, at least not on a large scale, like for something beyond a little village. It might work, at least for a time, in a little village, but not a county, state or country because humanity is greedy and lazy.

"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011 7:56 PM

ANTHONYT

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Anthony! Dang, it seems like it's been a long time. What've you been up to?



Hello,

Nothing interesting, I assure you. Just plodding along and getting along.

But it's nice to see all the old faces.

--Anthony



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Thursday, August 18, 2011 1:26 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Anthony's theory makes sense, rich people don't have to maintain relationships since they can just go get new friends or employees if they mess up with the old ones, whereas most of humanity will have the same coworkers, the same neighbors, for a long time and we have to make it work. I too think that some of this depends more on how you were raised than how much money you have now.

Quicko, I know that, and I won't deny that aspects of communism, on paper, do appeal to me on some level. But in real life it doesn't work like it looks on paper, so I'm not interested, at least not on a large scale, like for something beyond a little village. It might work, at least for a time, in a little village, but not a county, state or country because humanity is greedy and lazy.

"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya




Thanks - that's pretty much the problem with the idea of "free market" capitalism as well. People and corporations really DON'T regulate themselves very well most of the time. Neither do governments. The Constitution provides checks and balances that are SUPPOSED to keep the government in line, but without regulations, there really are no such checks and balances on corporations.

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Thursday, August 18, 2011 1:28 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Anthony! Dang, it seems like it's been a long time. What've you been up to?



Hello,

Nothing interesting, I assure you. Just plodding along and getting along.

But it's nice to see all the old faces.




This place is the internet home to a number of us. As in the old saying, "Home is that place that, when you have to go there, they have to take you in."

Welcome home! :)

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Thursday, August 18, 2011 3:02 AM

FREMDFIRMA



Pish, ain't being heroic, it's just being HUMANE.

Here's the thing, this might wander a bit but I feel there's a useful point in here somewhere even if imma have trouble expressing it.
Whatever it is that makes people like other people, need other people, on an emotional-connection level, I don't have it, or have very little of it, probably due to being the extreme version of a latchkey kid and socially ostracised (once violence and other coercion had obviously failed) and isolated up till I was almost twenty, helped along by the fact that the further "away" I got from the rest of humanity, the less I liked em, and couldn't stand their company anyway - what tiny bit of empathy I have is mostly for animals, or other outcasts, and I really *don't* feel, emotionally, any impulse towards aiding or cooperating with humanity on that level, none whatever.

Which means that for all as often as I point out that humans natural instincts are cooperation and empathy, those are instincts I DO NOT HAVE.
And I haven't always been on the side of the angels, sure - but that also applies to this, cause here's the point I feel some internal need to make.

It is my *CHOICE* to do things, not following the path of least resistance, not cause of any possibility of reward or cause some law tells me to or cause society wants me to - in fact in a lot of cases I break or bend the hell out of the established conventions in my efforts, not even (much) as an act of rebellion but simply because I damn well please, cause it pleases ME to do so, even in the absence of those natural impulses, as an act of will alone.

I *chose* this path, despite greater "reward" being down the other, and in that act, by that act, realized that those who chose the other did in fact *choose* that path, excuses notwithstanding, which is WHY I am so blatantly, viciously nasty to those I feel have done so.

And just as states become traits in early development, behavior can become reflex.
http://www.trauma-pages.com/a/perry96.php

Honestly a lot of the small, decent things I tend to do had over the years begun to pass beneath my notice till Wendy started rather aggressively pointing them out to me - and she just handed me my ass *again* over a wager regarding Fallout3 - whether or not I even *could* do an evil-karma playthrough, which I failed abysmally at even while TRYING to do so because those reflexes betrayed my intent at every turn and corner.

So I think the concept discovered here is the notion that you can, if you mean to strongly enough, reach back through the gates of time and wrest your own humanity from the very claws of those who took it from you.
And I find THAT... extremely gratifying, cause it means no one is ever truly beyond redemption, although having seen some of the stuff I have will probably leave me doubting that regardless.

http://www.vachss.com/mission/behavior.html

-Frem

I do not serve the Blind God.

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Thursday, August 18, 2011 3:56 AM

BYTEMITE


Well, nothing and not interesting isn't bad. Like that Mal-à propos: "I long for a little dullness."

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Thursday, August 18, 2011 12:55 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Frem, I'm right there with ya in many respects. I don't wish people ill; I just wish them to leave me the hell alone, for the most part.

And I'll go out of my way to help those whom the rest of society would just as soon spit on, because *I* choose to do it - what others won't do, or "can't", I will, because I can and I choose to.
I'll share my lunch, hand over my money even when I can't afford to, because they're further down than I am and need it more than I do.

I had one lady scold me for helping those who don't want her sermonizing. She refers to these people as "dragworms", because they hang around downtown on the main drag to panhandle much of the time. She tells me there's no hope for them - even though most of them are no older than 24 or 25, tops! - and scolded me for giving them money, claiming they were just going to buy booze or drugs with it.

I turned when she said that - I'd been trying to ignore her - and I whipped around on her. "I fucking hope to your 'god' that they DO buy booze and drugs with this money! If you were this far down, wouldn't you want to find a way just to get out of your head for a while, forget about all this bullshit and trouble? I would!"

She stormed off, still clucking under her breath at me. One of the kids actually had a tear in his eye as he thanked me and said that I really did get it and understand.


And yeah, Frem - I meant it when I said you're a hero. Sometimes just the act of acting like a human being is the most heroic thing you can do. People need to know that, and remember it.

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Thursday, August 18, 2011 2:54 PM

FREMDFIRMA


Well yeah, s'funny that I used to wind up with a boatload of those little sampler bottles of booze from doing a bit of legally "grey" work for a certain liquor store - I would essentially linger, okay, downright loiter, leaning up against the wall in front of the place and look all threatening and stuff (it helped that I had a leather jacket, spikes and a mohawk at the time), which didn't whatever scare those "in the know", the regular customers, but did cause ACTUAL troublemakers to give the place a miss rather than get all into a brawl over turf-stepping...

And sure, I was struggling with a certain bent towards boozing myself, so I understood that kinda need, and handed out those little bottles to the drunks up on Patapsco pandhandling, told em "let's cut out the middle man, shall we ?", with a nod and a wink.

Seriously, as you say, if that's gonna be what it takes to get them through the day, then that's what it takes, ain't my damn business to run folks lives for em - you can't save people from themselves and ya shouldn't oughta try, that never ends well.

There's also, with me, that even when I know they're selling me a song and dance, a bullshit story, I'll play along, cause if their pride, their sense of personheed needs to believe they've pulled one over, if that is what it takes for them to feel better about themselves and the world around them, let them have their little "victory" in a world that has so defeated them - besides which it's often worth it cause you do get some entertainment out of it, don't you ?

Of course, that pride can be harmful of itself at times, one of my neighbors during the same period was so hell-bent on not accepting "charity" that she and her kids lived on the barest edge of starvation, more so than the rest of the neighborhood, and even though all I had at the time was peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, spread real thin (I used to keep the jar of peanut butter sitting in the middle of the stove over the pilot light so it'd be semi-liquifed and you could get more mileage out of it, and yanno, it tasted better that way too), but I'd sneak those kids a couple sandwiches any time I could spare it - which got me accosted by one of the local cops thinkin I was dealing drugs to em or something, and I tore into him about it, was one of the few times in my life I ever watched a cop feel shame...

That was another thing they were kind of assholes about, I rolled my own smokes cause that was all I could afford and they initially had a bad habit of fucking with me about "paraphanelia", aka rolling papers, and once even downright busted me for possession of a "lookalike substance" which did get me community service, the fuckers - which mind you was catnip, for the freakin cat, I told em yeah, go right the hell ahead and smoke that yourselves ya bastards, I'd love to watch you try.
Eventually they gave up on that when one of em got a talkin-to about it by the judge (who was kind of sick of seeing me and watching me mindfuck the prosecutor while serving as my own attorney instead of letting some dive-taking public defender stick me with a plea) and would pretend not to notice even when I started DELIBERATELY rolling my smokes to look as much like a phattie as possible, cause imma asshole, sure.

The rest of the community, a lot of em, didn't hassle me too much cause of a propensity for extreme violence when provoked and also cause they might someday NEED my ass, repair work is expensive and when you know a mechanical savant who's idea of payment is likely as not to be a square meal generally it's a bad idea to piss them off - which is one thing that lead to hunting predators online when I was laid up after the accident and the whole george burdinsky kidnapping thing blew up, I was the only one around who had a computer (built out of parts salvaged from the local salvation army) and knew how to use one, and when the feddies refused to go after the bastards who did it, the locals ensured my survival by trading food and medicine, and occasionally a place to sleep, in exchange for hammering those fuckers - and they defended that computer no matter where it was cause it was their only way to hit back against the sumbitches responsible for what happened to george.

You really oughta read Venkatesh's book, Mikey - you'd find it fascinating how the people "down there" get by when everyone else has all but abandoned them, or preys on them, I STILL find it useful reference material for my forays into Detroit, cause each little collective hadn't really cottoned on to the idea of alliance with OTHER little collectives till Me, Gus, and some of the other anarchists brought it to em.
http://www.amazon.com/Off-Books-Underground-Economy-Urban/dp/067402355
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-Frem

I do not serve the Blind God.

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