In search of FutureMrsFillion... by deepgirl187

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In search of FutureMrsFillion...

POSTED BY: DEEPGIRL187
UPDATED: Monday, May 15, 2006 23:18
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Friday, May 12, 2006 5:48 PM

DEEPGIRL187

Where, oh where have you gone??? I don't think I've seen you all week. Give us a holler, we miss you here!

At last.
We can retire and give up
this life of crime.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 12:17 AM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.

*sniff sniff* She's left us.
http://www.fireflyfans.net/showprofile.asp?u=20047
Her latest Firefly blog:

Quote:

I must be a horrible person

I mean, things are going along fine until I post in a thread. I am then called Naive, and my intelligence is insulted, so I respond. Things get heated, no blood is spilled.

The next thing I know I am the bad guy, and I am accused of starting or instigating the start of the "Idiot" thread.

So, I guess this isn't the place for me.

Sorry. I didn't realize we weren't allowed to disagree.

I really enjoyed my time here and I thank all the shiny kind people.

I can't deal with this kind of negativity with all the other crap going on in my life.

I don't know who it was that made her feel unwelcome, but I am very upset about it. I always enjoyed seeing her around and obviously so did you. Maybe she'll come back one day.

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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.

Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 12:27 AM

AGATSU

Wtf? What happened?

BROWNCOATS UNITE!

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 1:07 AM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.

Don't know.

Some cruel people stomped on her, apparently. I guess I never saw the clashes she's talking about, so I can't say for sure what was said.
*is frustrated*

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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.

Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 1:40 AM

SIMONWHO

She had a heated discussion with Citizen but nothing too extreme. However then someone else started a thread calling Citizen an idiot for insulting her and she got caught a bit in the crossfire.

So she left which was a shame as I don't think anyone wanted her to.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 2:08 AM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.

You mean that ridiculousness that has been flying around? I'm sorry to say I've ignored most of it; just couldn't wade through all the

to try to figure out what Vaan was talkin' about. I was actually shocked that his thread wasn't sent to Troll Country right off the bat. Since he wasn't making much sense to me, and most people were dealing with him very eloquently, I figured it couldn't be too much of a deal; didn't expect to be so wrong about it...

Damn shame.

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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.

Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 2:29 AM

CHRISMOORHEAD

Wow, she got accused of being a troll just because she had an unpopular opinion and disagreed with someone?

Sounds so familiar...

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 2:36 AM

TAYEATRA

I tried to stop her. She was lots of fun but she got caught in the middle of some very nasty threads. It's a real shame.

Fingers crossed that she'll come back soon.

*****
Taya
*****
Dark Angel, Firefly, Buffy, Angel, Enterprise, Farscape... anything else you'd like to cancel?

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 2:44 AM

DEEPGIRL187

I can't believe she left. And I don't understand why anyone would accuse her of being a troll. She is one of the nicest people I know on this forum. She always seemed to brighten the place up when things were tense. I really hope she'll reconsider coming back. I for one, am really going to miss her.

At last.
We can retire and give up
this life of crime.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 2:53 AM

SIMONWHO

The thing is, nobody did call her a troll; all that was directed at the start of the Citizen is an idiot thread. She just felt it was aimed at her when it wasn't.

And Chris, you weren't called a troll for having an unpopular belief. Thinking that River should get together with Book is an unpopular belief. You were called a troll for stating a reprehensible belief. There's quite a difference. I don't think you are a troll, given that a troll's purpose is just to stir for the sake of it. But you can't state something vile and offensive to both men and women then claim to be surprised when people turn against you.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 3:17 AM

FOLLOWMAL

It is a shame she left... everyone could try PMing her. It does go to her email, perhaps if she got several emails asking her to come back she would do so? Now, mind I don't mean everyone...just a few of the folks here with a message that we miss her and would like it if she would come back.

I for one, am going to try that.

ETA: If you hit the thread called Re Re which is the partay thread... dunno what happened to the title... you can find FutureMrsFillion's name on there and PM her.

"You hold. Hold 'til I get back." Mal

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:20 AM

PURPLEPEBBLE

Wow, i totaly missed all this.
What a shame- for a browncoat to not feel welcome here is a very sad day in deed.

For the record i always found FMF a delight to talk too.

Might just do as FollowMal suggests, she always has the best ideas.

~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~x~
"Why did you leave?".... "Why didn't you ask me not too?"

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 6:26 AM

EMMARIGBY

OMG! I go away for a week and one of the few people I feel as if I've gotten really friendly with on this site disappears into the ether! This is a tragedy of epic proportions. She must be found and dragged kicking and screaming back on board so that we can have more llymeric battles (cos those were so fun!!)

If anyone is writing to her please mention that I miss her. If she doesn't turn up soon I'll personally head up a search party!

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 6:31 AM

FOLLOWMAL

Emma, I sent her a message saying we missed her.. you might do so yourself... I know if I felt pushed away, having friends call me back and wish me back would make all the difference in the world.

Let's hope we send her just enough messages that it outweighs any bad feelings she has and she comes back. This is our home.. and we miss her.

"You hold. Hold 'til I get back." Mal

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 6:52 AM

LAUGHINGMUSE

If you read her most recent blogposts, she's going through some ugly times. The foofaraw here, a place she'd come to think of as welcoming and accepting, was the final straw. She may come back later, when she's had a chance to breathe, and realize that yes, she does indeed have worth; and an insult - real or perceived - coming from someone who doesn't know her...should be given its due. And nothing more. I'm guessing that most of us have had to learn this lesson, in this virtual community or somewhere else.

FollowMal, I call upon your skills as our virtual quartermaster. Can you scare the woman up a set of asbestos underwear? (Maybe that should be part of any new Browncoat's gear..?) I'll make the lemon bars and put the tea on.

She'll be back.

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Mankind makes tools; we use them to augment our hands, arms and legs.
The computer augments the brain and this makes it very unpopular with totalitarians. - Charles J.C. Lyall

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 9:27 AM

SAVEWASH

Now I am learning about scary.

I miss her, too! Think of all the great limericks that would never have seen the light without FMF's guidance and support!

I hope she'll reconsider.

"We need to keep our heads so we can ... keep our heads."

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 9:36 AM

EMMARIGBY

Quote:
Originally posted by SAVEWASH:
I miss her, too! Think of all the great limericks that would never have seen the light without FMF's guidance and support!

I hope she'll reconsider.

"We need to keep our heads so we can ... keep our heads."

We all miss our sweet MrsFillion
If you ask us she's one in a million
Please come back onboard
Where you are adored
'Cos whoever upset you's a silly 'un!

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 9:42 AM

TAYEATRA

Em you need to send that to her by PM.

Go here http://www.fireflyfans.net/showprofile.asp?u=20047

and enter it into the message box. I emailed her this morning and I know FollowMal and others have sent messages but this might just be shiny enough to bring her back.

*****
Taya
*****
Dark Angel, Firefly, Buffy, Angel, Enterprise, Farscape... anything else you'd like to cancel?

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 10:42 AM

RINGOFFIRE

This is all really too sad. Obviously Im too new to have known MrsFillion, but Im dissappointed to find out there's some less-than-nice participants. I think I understand her, tho. I was at one of the "finish the sentence" games and someone really cut me off at the knees. I guess they just had to show off or needed to prove I didnt get the finish exactly right. I wont go there again either. So far you guys are the kindest and nicest and Im hoping to stay.

You could have
made them family

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 1:04 PM

SERVANTOFKUSHIEL

FMF we miss you sooooo much. I've been trying to keep the limrick thread alive in hopes she would come back, but I've been packing and moving and May is birthday month for me. So, not many limericks rolling off the top of my head.

FMF really made me laugh, made me feel welcome, she's like the the Kaylee of this ship, the heart. Whoever made her mad

Come back FMF! We'll hold. We'll hold till you get back.

P.S. I will also pm her. You can find her easy on the limerick thread, which i will bump.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 1:06 PM

ZZETTA13

FUTUREMRSFILLION needs to come back,

The www is full of people that will be mean to you. Sometimes just because they can. She was a lot of fun. Hope she returns soon.

Z

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 2:32 PM

CHRISMOORHEAD

Look, I agree that there are certain things that are not open to discussion about being reprehensible, no matter how open minded someone is trying to be. Pedophilia, genocide, etc. I never once condoned rape, only expressed my OPINION that mode of dress is an effective preventative measure. How is that reprehensible except for the way that others, and I'm now assuming you, misconstrued it into my saying that women invite the act upon themselves?

Face it, if you people didn't flat out put words in my mouth, than you at least presumed to put intentions in my heart. To me, THAT is vile and offensive. How do you think I felt when someone said that they saw the makings of a possible future rapist on that thread? I have bled for this country and the freedom of everyone to not have to fear injustices like rape. I have prevented multiple crimes INCLUDING rape from happening just working as a rent-a-cop. But shit, I didn't expect any of you to know that. What I did expect was some sort of human decency, to not visit what you THINK my intentions are upon me, and to not flat out accuse me of being capable of something like rape.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 2:36 PM

RMMC

HUH?! What load of gos se was this? FMF is one of the nicest folks here.

I'm off to EM her now.

*****
RMMC

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:24 PM

FUTUREMRSFILLION

Haaaaalloooooooouuuuuuuuu Hallooouuuu *FMF comes running into the thread waving her arms and generally looking foolish* I am here! Hallooou Hallloooooou.

Wonderful people! Hello to all. I am alive and well (or as well as I have been this crappy crappy year!) I am so dreadfully sorry to have caused distress. I did get angry the other week, but truthfully, I have just been working a great deal and trying to get through the last week or so. I have not left you all, I have been lurking a bit when I can, and thinking of you all when I can't. I am working 2 jobs to try and keep this kids and I in our home. I thank you all for your kind, kind words. I had meant to delete that stupid posting on my log, I just haven't gotten to it. It was childish and I admit to feeling sorry for myself. But I put in a little of my future Mr and I felt better in a bit!

It is so nice to have a place where one is welcomed! You are all so dear!

Big kisses and hugs to everyone that PM'd and posted on my log! I love you guys!

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:26 PM

DEEPGIRL187

Yippee! Yay! Woo Hoo!!!!

Strawberries and Mudder's Milk for all!!! FMF is back!!!!

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"The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness. For he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know I am the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon you."

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:28 PM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.

*Gives FutureMrsFillion a huge hug!*
Oh my dear, we are so very, very glad to see you!

*************************************************
One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.

Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:42 PM

LAUGHINGMUSE

/me grabs FMF and hugs

Oooops - I got chocolate cookie crumbs on you. We're welcoming in Spicky (yes, the name came from where you think) and breaking out the goodies. I've been lounging and snacking, with predictable results...

Take care - I'm glad to hear that you haven't left, and that you're feeling better.

Best!!

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Mankind makes tools; we use them to augment our hands, arms and legs.
The computer augments the brain and this makes it very unpopular with totalitarians. - Charles J.C. Lyall

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:45 PM

PDCHARLES

What happened? He see your face?

Well shut my mouth and call me Cornpone...

Its FMF... I knew u wouldn't leave for good.

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:09 PM

RMMC

YEA!!!!!

*hugs FMF*
*bounces rapidly up and down*

You're back! I'm so glad you've stayed with us; it just wouldn't be the same.

Don't worry. Everyone's allowed to feel sorry for themselves every now and again. I usually unload on a fellow Browncoat. She listens, gives good advise when needed, hugs when advise isn't possible and administers chocolate.

And for acting childish...I think I can beat you and I'm older. I taught my adoptive niece to shoot straw papers in the restaurant. Last year. So, let's not have any worries about that, either.

My theory on that goes with a quote from an old Doctor Who episode: "What's the point of being grown up if you can't act childish?"

*hands FMF a bag of Dove darks*

I'm glad you're feeling a bit better. Be with us when ya can. One of my co-workers also has kids and does the two-job thing. I'm frankly amazed and in awe at how either of you do it.

The par-tay's still going; most of the llamas and several guests, have passed out from copious alcohol consumption.

Welcome back!

*bounce**bounce**bounce*

****
RMMC

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 6:00 PM

FOLLOWMAL

And all is well in this shiny thread...

I'm glad you're back too, FMF..

Take care and try not to be scarce.

"You hold. Hold 'til I get back." Mal

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 6:33 PM

FLORALBUNNY

hug{{{{{FMF}}}}}hug
So glad you're still here! Pull up a llama and relax.

bun
~6/23~Serenity/Firefly Summer~9/30~
----- why's the rum gone? -----

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Saturday, May 13, 2006 8:11 PM

SERVANTOFKUSHIEL

Sweet! Good to have you back! I hope you have lots of good limericks for us. We gots to keep that thread alive. I am also amazed at how people can have kids and multiple jobs. I can't even get over stressing about a job with no kids. Makes you look at things and go hmmmmmmm.....

I'm a big old baby. LOL. Anyway, so good to have you back. We missed you.

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