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Originally posted by Tristan:
Here's another question for the group regarding the whole sex issue: can you have sex with someone you don't love? I know it's physically possible, but is it something you have done or could do?


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Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
IT DOESN'T MEAN WE WANT A THREESOME.
IT DOESN'T MEAN WE ARE BORED.
IT DOESN'T MEAN WE ARE FICKLE.
IT DOESN'T MEAN WE WILL CHEAT.
AND IT DOESN'T MEAN WE AREN'T SATISFIED.

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
I gotta question for the female BROWNCOATS out there. Do you like the old fashioned approach? I find it difficult to conduct personal buisness unless I present myself in a way that is more akin to a simpler time. Unless people know me very well they do not understand my reason for being honest and straight forward, (especially women folk). In one way I feel a bit emasculated by the female dominated society I feel is developing. In another way I feel very empowered by my ability to be a man and not treat women as mere objects, but as wonderful beings that deserve respct and honor. These things keep women away because they are unfamiliar with a guy that doesn't have to exert their masculine side. I live in a rural/military town where most single guys do this all the time. I guess my question is: Do women really want a sensative guy who actually cares about the feelings of others, or is that an outdated way of thinking?

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Originally posted by nuclearday:
LOL. I apologize if I my post came off the wrong way, PR. :P Really, I have no trouble at all with anyone's sexual orientation regardless of who they are or what they're into. I've never dated a bisexual girl (haven't really dated all that much anyways, come to think of it.) But I've always got a kick out of my friends that were lesbian/gay/bi. In all seriousness, I don't see that I'd have a problem dating someone that was bi. If it's a healthy relatioship, I don't see how it even would factor in that much. (Other than maybe we'd catch each other checking out the same people :)

About sex without love. Well... I'm a bit more old-fashioned. But not terribly so, I suppose. I feel more comfortable at least waiting awhile in a relationship before getting into that. Getting maybe a tad personal: the little mister doesn't always function too well with someone I'm not comfortable with. Performance anxiety or whatever. There was a couple very drunken nights back in college, though...

Not into one-night stands though. For me, the first time I have sex with someone is always a little awkward. You don't know what the other person likes, etc.

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
I gotta question for the female BROWNCOATS out there. Do you like the old fashioned approach? I find it difficult to conduct personal buisness unless I present myself in a way that is more akin to a simpler time. Unless people know me very well they do not understand my reason for being honest and straight forward, (especially women folk). In one way I feel a bit emasculated by the female dominated society I feel is developing. In another way I feel very empowered by my ability to be a man and not treat women as mere objects, but as wonderful beings that deserve respct and honor. These things keep women away because they are unfamiliar with a guy that doesn't have to exert their masculine side. I live in a rural/military town where most single guys do this all the time. I guess my question is: Do women really want a sensative guy who actually cares about the feelings of others, or is that an outdated way of thinking?

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Its not so much a female dominated society the way most people see it, but where I'm from is a very matriarchial society, (our tribes in this area have always had women leaders). Most people on the outside don't see beyond todays modern society. What you said makes sense about the complications being forgotten. The simpler time I mentioned is the time before this one. Where people married and worked their whole lives together. But, I do see that many of those peole were miserable. I mainly dream to find a bit of the determination and a piece of romance with very little mystery. Okay, maybe a little. Done rambling, need coffee.

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Oh god, I've been a wild child. Yes, I've had cyber sex - only it's just like reading bad porn.

And yes I went through a faze of sleeping with everything that moved, be it man, woman (although thankfully not sheep) but like ghostrider, I think that subconsciously it was more a term of self-abuse more than anything else. [Scarily, why I really identified with S6 of Buffy with her realtionship with Spike]. Also I think it was just simple desperation- wanting to be close with people at a time I felt very alone. And I'm only 21 now, gorram I feel old.

Also Taya and Emmarigby (whom I'm sharing a room with for Serenity 3!!!) I'm soooo over that faze of my life! No worries!! I promise.

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Originally posted by Tristan:
Never been there, but I do miss the West!

Sorry, got off topic...

I am currently out of Imponderables...I know there are things I would like to learn, but I can't think of anything right now. I'm good at the answering; not so good at the thinking-up part...

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Originally posted by SameErtia:
Oh, and since we were talking about this topic; As I have told Manitou in the past, "SURE, you can come to bed with my girlfriend and I, and we'll show you exactly how little there is for a guy to do when two women who know what they are doing get together. I recommend you bring a good book and a snack, because you're likely to get bored."

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Originally posted by FutureMrsFIllion:




You've been flashed

I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"

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posted by Leaina:
But at the same time, now, I'm in a strangely celibate phase of my life. I guess I'm all one thing or all the other. No in-between. And I don't think that's especially healthy either.

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