Imponderables: I Need You So by nvghostrider

LOL NV.. thanks:)

and ok now I'm worried that a lurking exec will see those show titles and the next thing we know they'll be starting off the summer season on Fox..

HUGS Rugbug.. it's ok but we have missed you terribly:) I'm sorry work's been so crazy for you and all.I completely understand...

HUGS Jimi... well long as you're happy

go for it

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 9:16 AM

ZEEK

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Originally posted by RugBug:
'Course I also decided that the alphabet needs some rearranging. "Y" deserves a place of respect in the alphabet. Afterall, it is a consonant that can sometimes be a vowel. Don't you think it should come before "X" which, while a very cool letter, is mostly useless and should be paired with it's equally useless partner, "Z"? So from now on, it will not longer be 'xyz' but 'yxz'.

I disagree. "Y" is just a bit more of a bully than "X" and "Z". It's equally as useless and decided to to steal some of "I"'s thunder. If anything "I" needs to be reprimanded for allowing it to happen and "Y" should get a slap on the wrist.

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 9:30 AM

Maybe you should just give Y an after school detention and have done with it...

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 9:32 AM

RUGBUG

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Originally posted by RugBug:
'Course I also decided that the alphabet needs some rearranging. "Y" deserves a place of respect in the alphabet. Afterall, it is a consonant that can sometimes be a vowel. Don't you think it should come before "X" which, while a very cool letter, is mostly useless and should be paired with it's equally useless partner, "Z"? So from now on, it will not longer be 'xyz' but 'yxz'.

I disagree. "Y" is just a bit more of a bully than "X" and "Z". It's equally as useless and decided to to steal some of "I"'s thunder. If anything "I" needs to be reprimanded for allowing it to happen and "Y" should get a slap on the wrist.

"I" yeilding to "y" can't be much of a surprise. "I" is a the doormat of letters. Seriously, pick one already: Before or after "e". Don't look at "c"...take a stand on your own.

"Y" is strong and bold. It says 'Use me. I'm not whimpy like that pesky little "i". I proudly take my place at the end of many cool words instead of hiding in the middle. And there's that TV show that made up it's own syntax by adding me to words. It was written by some pop culture phenom-y type guy. Joss something-or-other.'

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 10:04 AM

(Whoosh)
What the hell was that? Conversation just flew right over me.

Still, regardless of the mundane parts of life (we all got 'em) I think I am pretty happy with myself right now. Seems I thought I was before but allowed myself to totally F it up.

Off to lunch. Maybe a sncak and a nap. Hmmm?

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 10:36 AM

Ahem... allowed yourself to F it up????? I believe that would be someone else who did the F'ing up...( yes I am defending you against your own attacks... it's my job)

Ok now attempting to get myself psyched up for an hour long pep assembly in which 1300 hyper kids are encouraged to scream as loud as possible and yell things in a confined space( auditorium) and then after that the exciting treat of spending an extra 5 hours at school waiting for parents ( who are likely not coming) to come visit with me and be all frustrated that I am not doing enough to help their kid.... YIPPEE!!!!!

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 12:39 PM

Hope you survived the assembly. Can't say i ever enjoyed a single one back in school.

Wow. Quiet it be.

(Runs around in circles singing Bastard Fairies songs in his head)

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 12:45 PM

ZEEK

I agree assemblies never did a whole lot for me in school. They were just an excuse to get out of classes and roll your eyes at the teachers trying to be cool. Present company excluded I'm sure.

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 1:08 PM

The ones in High School were the worst. Wo freakin' hoo, support the football/basketball team. Yay. Our school sucked at both so there was no helping them. They should have been cheering on the Wrestlers, Rodeo, Automotive, and the Cheerleaders. They actually went on to win stuff all through my few years there.

School assemblies=SUCKAGE

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 1:15 PM

RUGBUG

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Hope you survived the assembly. Can't say i ever enjoyed a single one back in school.

Gawd...I LOVED the elementary school assemblies. Anyone remember the People Mover ones? The Warm Fuzzies and the Cold Pricklies (sp?).

And spelling bees? There really aren't enough spelling bees for adults. I love spelling (and yet I can't figure out how to spell the plural of prickly). gnilleps is my FAVORITE Cranium category. :D

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 1:15 PM

This is why I love my advisory class... bless their cynical little hearts. They sat there, silent as the grave while kids around cheered and screamed to win trinkets:) So proud:)

Ok and off to the joy of parent teacher conference...sigh

HUGS Zeek

NV

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 1:36 PM

Isn't that something to do with selling stuff to "benefit" the school? More BS I learned as a kid in Jr High. I already knew the profit margin offered by the company was dick. I'd rather collect aluminum cans or bust my ass for a few hours cleaning yards or splitting wood for money I could call all my own. Damn. Forgot I need to get a move on with more fun side work stuff. Oh well. It'll pay for something fun in the near future.

back MSB. Try not to tear any heads of or s#!* down anyones neck.

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 2:03 PM

Rugbug:

You forget that "X" marks the spot. As any pirate. This forum has plenty of pirates so you should have no trouble finding one. I am suprised one has not brought this up all ready.

It is vital that "X" marks the spot and thus deserves as good a place in the alphabet as "Y".

Just don't ask "Y".

That was a pun.

Traveler

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 5:20 PM

Traveler... how about if it's a renegade pirate? Maybe B marks the spot:)

HUGS NV... everyone made it out alive today( though not entirely sure I am)

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 5:48 PM

Okay. One renegade pirate coming up.

To "B" or not to "B"? That is the question.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 4:54 AM

OK that is so cute!!!! HUGS Traveler

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 6:57 AM

ACK! More cats. Nooooo!!!!

Okay, I really do like cats. It is just to not let them know so they continue to work hard for affection.

Hugs MSB

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 9:02 AM

Is it just me or it's a tad quiet around here today?

Here's a ponder to liven things up...

Is anger good for you?

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 9:08 AM

Mobbex...ooh good ponder. I'd say controlled anger is very good for you. It can motivate you and keep you focused...uncontrolled anger is destructive and useless...

HUGS NV

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 9:25 AM

Sure it is. ANGER! FIRE! BURNBURNBURN!!!

Naw Mob, anger is not good for you. I spent too much time angry that once I was away from it I got really sick from the vacuum created when it left. Imagine the amount of negative energies we feed off of when we are truly angry for a long amount of time. I learned to functionin stressful situations without anger so well that the non stressful things I did were often interfered with by the anger I had supressed from the actual stressors. Talk about twisted and such.

So yeah, it is best to get that anger out at the time of the stress. Anger is a good motivator but if relied upon too long it becomes a problem, almost an addiction.

for MSB. Hope your classes treat you better.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 9:40 AM

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'd say controlled anger is very good for you. It can motivate you and keep you focused...uncontrolled anger is destructive and useless...

Focused anger... I don't know, anger usually prevents me from focusing on anything at all, and I often find that aiming my ire at someone or something in particular is not a very healthy and/or productive thing to do. I guess I tend to think of it as a waste of energy.

Yeah, I've been known to have bouts of hardheaded pragmatism here & there

Oh and I agree that overblown anger is never any good.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 10:13 AM

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Sure it is. ANGER! FIRE! BURNBURNBURN!!!

Naw Mob, anger is not good for you. I spent too much time angry that once I was away from it I got really sick from the vacuum created when it left. Imagine the amount of negative energies we feed off of when we are truly angry for a long amount of time. I learned to functionin stressful situations without anger so well that the non stressful things I did were often interfered with by the anger I had supressed from the actual stressors. Talk about twisted and such.

So yeah, it is best to get that anger out at the time of the stress. Anger is a good motivator but if relied upon too long it becomes a problem, almost an addiction.

I think I know what you mean. I've spent a great deal of time dwelling on anger and mistrust. I managed to snap out of it when I entered College, but then I fell into depression because I didn't "recognize" myself anymore.

*sigh* And they say these are the good years

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 10:14 AM

I see we are defining anger a bit differently... for me anger is that sense of injustice or a lack of balance that makes you want to fix things... rage is the irrational fire where you want to destroy or tear down. So that's why I said controlled anger is good. It's a driving force, but yes I'd agree if it's all that sustains you, not a good thing.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 11:18 AM

Makes sense, the difference between rage and anger. Anger being the side we can rationalize with more and rage being the uncontrollable side.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 2:01 PM

Anger is not good for me. My history is to filled with hate that anger just goes into the black.

Ther have been times I have been so angry that I find myself stopped at a red light and can not remember driving my car for several miles. I don't remember the traffic or what turns or stops I've made. This is in the city so you know I was in traffic and had to have stopped at intersections along the way. It is like realising you have been blind for fifteen minutes without knowing it.

And I should not be around other people. So I curb any thoughts that I know will get me angery.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 2:16 PM

I hate letting other people see me angry. Now it seems I get more mad at circumstance than other people. Sucks. Can't beat the piss out of circumstance.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 2:24 PM

Hello nvghostrider:

Like when your car hits a patch of black ice on the highway and your car spins around and see all the sights without turning your head and finally come to a stop when you hit a snow bank. I love those circumstances. Weeeeeee!

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008 2:40 PM

(Wants to bite off circumstances ear for a necklace)

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 2:57 AM

mornin' Imponderables.

Anger is good, and can be fun. It's much better to get it out than to try and calm down by other means. In my experience, it is going to come out eventually, and the longer you bottle it up, the worse that event will be. Hell, if I hadn't let my anger out on a regular (read: daily) basis for the past few months I'd probably be in jail right now for doing something really bad.

~jimi
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And so it is that we, as men, do not exist until we do; and then it is that we play with our world of existent things, and order and disorder them, and so it shall be that Non-existence shall take us back from Existence, and that nameless Spirituality shall return to Void, like a tired child home from a very wild circus.

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 4:55 AM

Attempting to locate and channel my anger now.... I need it to get through this week:)

HUGS to all

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 6:28 AM

There is an interesting cable channel concept. The Anger Channel with live video feed from The Breakables Room displayed in the upper left corner of the screen when the camera senses movement. Gameshows featuring people in very active obstacle courses and doing frustrating puzzle games until they rage and break stuff. Of course later in the evening it'll feature Gladiator sports and later movies featuring angry sex. Yeah, mind is not up to par this morning. Think I need a spot of coffee.

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 6:47 AM

HUGS NV

Hmmm contemplating a career change is nice.

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 7:08 AM

I'd love a career change, but I have gotten too used to the paycheck I get for what I do now. *sigh* Maybe someday.

*bigassjimibearhuggles MsB again*

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics & Transportation Specialist - 76th IAB

And so it is that we, as men, do not exist until we do; and then it is that we play with our world of existent things, and order and disorder them, and so it shall be that Non-existence shall take us back from Existence, and that nameless Spirituality shall return to Void, like a tired child home from a very wild circus.

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 7:16 AM

When I really have to I usually take it out on the furniture. I start bashing doors & stuff, throwing things around... occasionally there can some screaming involved.

But mostly I find that anger breeds more anger, hence why I prefer to detach myself from it as much as possible.

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 8:07 AM

Yeah paychecks are good...

And I am probably just reacting out of frustration:)

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 8:16 AM

RUGBUG

I think anger is ABSOLUTELY necessary to life. People who don't get angry freak me out.

BUT...the most important part, in my opinion, is how that anger is manifest. Any type of uncontrolled lashing out, be it verbal or physical is Bad. The ability to recognize your anger and channel it into positive outlets is vital. Pissed off? Go running. Hit a punching bag. Spontaneous physical release is bad, too, IMO. You've got to be able to control the anger enough to get to a place where outlet is appropriate. Things like punching a wall may release the aggression/anger...but they are douche-baggy and show a lack of self-control (which I find frightening).

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 8:22 AM

FUTUREMRSFILLION

*FMF sneaks in to wave hi*

Methinks me smells a troll in one of the other threads!

*FMF slinks away*

I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"

FORSAKEN original

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 8:24 AM

HUGS and HUGS FMF...you came!!!!!

I agree Rugbug:)

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 8:54 AM

*glomps MsB for the hell of it*

*glomps FMF and RugBug as well, because he can*

*leaves a secret BCMW handshake thingy for NvG if he is around today*

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics & Transportation Specialist - 76th IAB

And so it is that we, as men, do not exist until we do; and then it is that we play with our world of existent things, and order and disorder them, and so it shall be that Non-existence shall take us back from Existence, and that nameless Spirituality shall return to Void, like a tired child home from a very wild circus.

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 11:26 AM

Hey the world keeps spinning no matter what we do...right??

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 12:32 PM

ZEEK

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Hey the world keeps spinning no matter what we do...right??

Us, yes. People in positions of way too much power who could nuke the world a hundred times over, not so much.

Sorry I've been quiet. Work too busy.

Got more groceries yesterday. No hottie :-( I'm going to go ahead and assume I'll never see her again, but I'll use it as a lesson that I should just approach them because otherwise they might be gone forever.

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Thursday, February 28, 2008 1:21 PM

ooh yes always act on your impulses ( as long as they aren't going to land you in jail)

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Friday, February 29, 2008 4:23 AM

mornin' Imponderables.

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics & Transportation Specialist - 76th IAB

And so it is that we, as men, do not exist until we do; and then it is that we play with our world of existent things, and order and disorder them, and so it shall be that Non-existence shall take us back from Existence, and that nameless Spirituality shall return to Void, like a tired child home from a very wild circus.

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Friday, February 29, 2008 7:47 AM

(BCMW handshakeythingy) Howdy Jimi.

So folks, I woke up angry this morning but for some reason it has changed. Not sure if it was the fact that I will be watching the last episode of Torchwood season one or the crappy friend that just kind of ignored me last night. Oh well, y'all made it better for some strange reason.

Hugs for MSB when she rolls by.

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Friday, February 29, 2008 9:21 AM

HUGS Jimi

NV yes I am finally up and awake ( and I will ctually change out of my jammies and do something productive shortly)...Finished my new Eve Dallas book and all:)

Amazing what actual sleep and a day away from the depressing swamp of despair that my school has become can do:)

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Friday, February 29, 2008 9:39 AM

Yay for your day off hon. Yeah gorrammit, do something productive. Meh, just do something fun, you more than earn and deserve it.

(Returns to daydreaming of shoots and stuffs)

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Friday, February 29, 2008 10:20 AM

HUGS NV..yeah but I had to order contacts, organize the moving company, and check in with Washoe district about my job... now that I have been productive, I'm going to go pick up the contacts and get my nails done...giggle

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Saturday, March 1, 2008 7:38 PM

I'm glad to hear that you had a restful day. I left at 12:30 a little worried about you because I hadn't heard from you all day. I hope this weekend is good too.

*snuggles MsB*

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics & Transportation Specialist - 76th IAB

And so it is that we, as men, do not exist until we do; and then it is that we play with our world of existent things, and order and disorder them, and so it shall be that Non-existence shall take us back from Existence, and that nameless Spirituality shall return to Void, like a tired child home from a very wild circus.

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