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Originally posted by freelancertex:
zeek, i so don't feel sorry for you.

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Originally posted by MsA:
mostly I just hate how the wind makes driving so hard. You have to fight to keep the car on the road

Zeek sweety you need to go to the thrift store and buy a heavy coat to keep in your car for just such weather emergencies... right next to your gallon of water, flashlight, road flares, change of clothes and shoes, granola bars, maps, and first aide kit complete with warming blankets.

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Originally posted by MsA:
a heavy coat to keep in your car for just such weather emergencies... right next to your gallon of water, flashlight, road flares, change of clothes and shoes, granola bars, maps, and first aide kit complete with warming blankets.

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Originally posted by MsA:
Very very lucky

Sorry you're all snowbound, but hopefully they'll cancel classes and such and you can have a snow day... I love snow days:)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

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Originally posted by Zeek:
.....HOLY CRAP.....

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Originally posted by Kelkhil:
Um Zeek.... Your "creepy friend" is well to put it nicely psycho! After seeing those "files" I think would have grabbed them and walked strait to the cops with it. Dood has issues that are going to end him in an episode of Cops and he is going to hurt some poor woman in the process.

This issues only brings up more questions. I can't answer yours cuz mine is WHY IN THE FRAK ARE YOU HANING OUT WITH HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE??!!??!!

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Originally posted by Zeek:


As far as I know he's never actually done anything dangerous. I really don't think he ever would. He's actually a pretty nice guy deep down. Though it's still creepy enough to me that he would try to find this girl even just to meet her.

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They weren't stalker pics from the bushes or anything. It was just like every picture ever taken of any female he knows. Even cousins of his and stuff. Really weird IMO.

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Originally posted by Kelkhil:
Even cousins? And you're ok with hanging with this guy? You feel safe? Oh yeah wait, you are a guy.... he didn't show you any guy files did he?

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Originally posted by MsA:
I'm going to second Kelkhil.
Your friend is likely what is referred to as a "love obsessional" he takes pics of these women because it fuels the fantasy that he has a relationship with them. He is likely very fun and nice, but that doesn't change the fact that his behavior already set off a warning bell in your head and you obviously have some concerns or you wouldn't have felt the need to lie to him. I'd flat out tell any girl you know that he has pictures of... Also I'd bet anything once you tell the girls none of them were aware he took pictures of them... that is CREEPY and then some and you also indicate that he has a strong fantasy life " can't tell real from fantasy" those are the hallmarks of someone starting on the path toward a major break down. Think about it... he blurs the line between fantasy and reality, keeps a creepy set of pictures of women, is overly inquisitive about a girl you are interested in, doesn't have any serious or real relationship in his life.... I just describe a love obsessional stalker and the path he's on ends BADLY. If you think he'd take it well tell him you're worried, if you don't think he'd deal well... you need to tell someone close to him or someone who would have access to him and counseling. And yes I would tell normal friend that you like the guy but have some concerns about his behavior and you don't want your crush to be in any kind of uncomfortable spot. Just tell him to ignore or change the subject when she comes up as a topic, and you do the same. If creepy asks say you know that info's not really your business and it bothers me that you'd ask.

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Originally posted by MsA:
oooh so what did you do with your snow day?

There's a good ponder...if you have a snow day, what do you do??
I curl up at home with books, quilts, and tea. Make stew and homemade bread for dinner and just spend the day warma nd happy:)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

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Originally posted by MsA:
ok but still you are uneasy enough about his dealings with women to lie to him.. and you said you wouldn't leave a woman alone with him.. not a great sign and the fact that he kept the pics is definitely not normal behavior... so I'd just tell him none of his business if he asks about the crush. Tell normal friend to dodge answering questions about crush girl and that you're just trying to keep things from being a hassle for her:)

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...as my mom is a freak

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Originally posted by MsA:
you laugh, but you're not the one who has to deal with her...
She's not evil she's just completely unaware of the way what she says sounds like...Mostly she thinks it's helpful to spend her time focusing on your flaws and reminding you of them constantly so she can" fix" you. ( flaws include not being skinny, super popular, or not being wealthy)

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Originally posted by Zeek: I think I have a tenancy to be friends with stalkers or something. I tell this other friend at work how a bunch of people thought the other dude is a serial killer and then she goes and stalks up the ponderer threads.

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Originally posted by freelancertex:
lolz XD thats awesome *has read entire stalker-friend convo* u just attract weird people zeek ;)

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