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Sci-Fi - Fantasy Women (Split from John Carter of Mars thread)
Monday, May 3, 2010 6:16 AM
BYTEMITE
Monday, May 3, 2010 6:17 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Metal pasties? Metal pasties.
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: Yeah. I prefer straight nudity. But, PG13- what can ya do?
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Nudity might be better because at least then it might be slightly artistic. Metal pasties just makes the women more objectified fantasy/sci-fi erotica, it's like the next step up from a chainmail bikini in tackiness and complete nonfunctionality of wardrobe. Leopard metal pastie princess doesn't strike me as "Amazonian" but rather "ornamental, decorative, and useless" which only furthers anti-female stereotypes in the genre. The damn slave chain hanging from her collar doesn't help matters. I mean, whoever drew that, do you think they were intending to draw attention to the sadness and despair in her face, or the overly-sexualized look of her body? And then, even more troubling, is her crying and slave collar supposed to APPEAL on some level to some abuse fetish?
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: The guys in the comic I read based on it wore as little, measured in inches of fabric. I would like to see sexual objectification equally distributed between the beautiful males AND females. EQUALITY NOW!!!! (cont) Select to view spoiler: She starts out as a slave & potential execution before John Carter frees her by killing the due that hit her in the courtroom; and no one wears much clothes on Mars- it too warm.
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Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Okay then. It's still kinda troublesome, you understand. That picture doesn't scream "feel my pain and abuse" like an emaciated imprisoned slave on death row would suggest. It instead says "lust over me and my unbelievable body that's perfect and desirable despite all I've been through." (cont) --EQUALITY NOW!!!! Sure. Functional clothing for everyone. I'm just offended by how sexualized the woman here seems to be by it, to the detriment of her backstory and emotions.
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: Well, I didn't post it, and I wouldn't have because Deejah is TOO voluptuous & John is TOOOOO muscular IMO. There's a bit of a food shortage on Mars at that point. In the book she was totally naked. in fact, most but the warriors were. There will be coverage in the movie though, PG13, remember?
Quote:Originally posted by pizmobeach: Yeah, looks like plenty of sexual objectification for both sexes - maybe we should just enjoy it?
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: It's not just the clothing, but how it's used. Even in the picture Chris just posted, the guy is armed and striking a heroic pose, and the girl is behind him and seeming to recoil, like a damsel in distress, and you tell me now, as I suspected, that she becomes one of the warriors and that she is supposed to be amazonian. A loincloth may expose a lot of flesh on the guys, but it doesn't have the overt meaning that pasties and a slave collar do.
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: --Like a damsel in distress She IS!!! On Mars, a woman is no match for Green Men; John retains all his Earthly strength being raised on a planet with a higher gravity, therefore he IS a heroic figure on that planet!!! Byte- please read the first novel at least before passing judgement. Sure, lusty pulp fiction, but does it bother you when Tarzan's Jane wears a skin toga or bikini in the movies? It's all in fun, M'lady! (cont) You must absolutely *HATE* Avatar for it's naked *pussycat* vibe...
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Actually... Yeah. And I'm not overly fond of Tarzan and Jane, either. The mentality towards women in some of these older fictional franchises is an unfortunate remnant of other times. If they want women to like these things, then they ought to try to update them. But they don't, so they're turning away 50% of their potential consumer base. Sure, it's their choice, and you guys are free to consume whatever media you want to, but don't expect women to like demeaning portrayals of their gender unless it's parody.
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: WHAT??? Strong, beautiful & smart??? I guess I should be happy that Kirk was weak, ugly & dumb then. And that he didn't get his shirt torn off him in lots of episodes.
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Yes, because relying on a male to fight all their battles is such a sign of strength. Smarts I'll give you, maybe, but that's demeaning to men too, to have it depicted that all these smart women are manipulating the dumb men. But then, if they're NOT manipulating the men, then the women are too stupid to stay out of trouble and again need the men to save them. There's no winning. No equality for EITHER side, no matter which way you slice it. It's very unfair for both. And there are unfortunate implications if the woman is expected to fall in love with the guy and reward him with sex in return for his help.
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: Okay. You win. Fantasy movies are worthless. Stardust, Somewhere In Time, Star Wars, Lord Of The Rings- any movie that show differences between the sexes strengths & weaknesses is garbage. No, make that ALL movies. Sorry Byte, I'm a relic. A brutish fossil, symbolic of a decayed era gratefully forgotten.
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: And strawmanning the opposition is a perfectly reasonable way to dismiss valid complaints. No, fantasy and sci-fi are NOT worthless, but there ARE some stereotypes that could stand subversion. Scantily clad damsels in distress are one of them. It hurts and demeans the medium, because it makes its detractors have a harder time taking it seriously. It comes across as fetish fuel and using sex to sell, and distracts from the deeper themes that the medium is capable of.
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: Sex DOES sell!! Are there less than sexy peeps in most big movies? Princess Leia was covered & modest until Jedi, Megan Fox is WHY those idiot Transformer movies are blockbusters... I'm sorry here, but men & women are just wired differently, it seems. Hotgirls are WOW, whereas Hotguys are merely "cool, look at Hotboy. Yum." Deeper themes are in the undercurrent of well made movies. The reality is that it gots to look good first & foremost to make back the millions, whatever else we get is extra.
Quote:Originally posted by Fremdfirma: Oh yes, and "damsels in distress" - well, there's an amusing dynamic between me and my ex, what with me playing to type (evil overlord) and HER playing to type (damsel in distress) which she *knows* I see right through, and the fact that she's willing to try to play me appeals to my inner trickster and winds up baiting me anyways - she knows all this, which is why she does it, but it is an amusing appeal-to-the-villain kinda trick. -F
Quote:Originally posted by HKCavalier: Do I even dare? Guess so. The male obsession with physical "attractiveness" is really the severe male aversion to the male inner life. It's our subconscious that gets us involved with the opposite sex, not what she looks like. The more distracted we are by her looks, the less we care about our mommy issues and our low self esteem and a whole lot of other factors that are working, behind the scenes, to get us mixed up with this particular woman. The more obsessed we are with her outside, the less we ever learn about our own inside. It's not "the way we're wired," it's how we've learned to cope with the pain and isolation which our mothers routinely subject us to as male children in this culture. Boys aren't born with an aversion to crying, it is learned behavior, pure and simple. And guess who we blame? Of course the suffering slave woman is hyper-sexualized, because if she weren't, the man would be called upon to feel something in response to the image of her suffering, and for the typically repressed man, that feeling is going to be some species of acute pain and then nobody buys anything. Sex sells not because "it's what guys want," it sells because it's man's favorite method of covering up "what guys DON'T want," i.e.: to feel their loneliness, abandonment and powerlessness. Sex as anesthesia. Sex in the media doesn't take away our feelings of loneliness, abandonment and powerlessness, it merely obscures these feelings while keeping them in play and THAT is why we buy whatever the sex is selling: to fill the void. But guess what? The void doesn't get filled, so we buy more. And so it goes. Hyper-sexualized imagery is a cover, a means to an end. Wake up. You're being mind controlled and the reason it works is 'cause you want to be mind controlled, because the alternative is too frightening to contemplate. Sure, a lovely physical body is lovely, but you are being played, my friend. And the species is suffering for it. Ha ha! Sleep on it! You'll feel better in the morning! Deprogramming is fun!
Monday, May 3, 2010 6:50 AM
Monday, May 3, 2010 7:14 AM
AURAPTOR
America loves a winner!
Monday, May 3, 2010 7:18 AM
Monday, May 3, 2010 7:59 AM
PIZMOBEACH
... fully loaded, safety off...
Monday, May 3, 2010 8:14 AM
Monday, May 3, 2010 8:42 AM
FREMDFIRMA
Monday, May 3, 2010 9:03 AM
DMI
Expired, forgotten, spoiled rotten.
Monday, May 3, 2010 9:18 AM
Monday, May 3, 2010 9:34 AM
Monday, May 3, 2010 9:55 AM
ZEEK
Monday, May 3, 2010 9:59 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: The amount of visible flesh proposed is unnecessary no matter who is wearing the clothing. Increasing the amount of visible flesh is less than helpful.
Monday, May 3, 2010 10:19 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Zeek: Meh I don't mind it at all. It's entertainment. It's not meant to be reality. It's not like there are a ton of fat ugly male leads in movies either.
Monday, May 3, 2010 1:33 PM
Monday, May 3, 2010 1:37 PM
Quote:In hollywood comedies it's a common trope lately to have a fat ugly man and a hot woman playing his wife or love interest.
Monday, May 3, 2010 2:55 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: I had to remove Mabinogi, it's 9 gb without any of the expansions... Though I might be able to put it on that one computer that isn't being used, and I am going to have to look for another MMO since my friend's world of warcraft gamecard runs out soon.
Quote:I think you get exactly what I'm saying, but from a male-rejecting the gender role direction instead of the female-rejecting the gender role direction.
Monday, May 3, 2010 2:56 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Pizmo: Flesh has two definitions for me. The first is the miraculous interface by which we experience the world, allowing us to feel the gentle breeze that brushes over the human soul on a calm day, and for a few moments, everything seems calm and good, and affirms that life is truly worthwhile. The second is other people's junk I dun wanna see and they need to cover the hell up.
Monday, May 3, 2010 8:24 PM
HKCAVALIER
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: To HK: That's interesting. Not being a man, it sounds all a little bit too Freudian to me. I have a little bit of trouble believing all men are emotionally stunted and have mommy issues that they project on woman in the form of misogyny. Surely if there is any validity to this then doesn't society at large have a bigger role in influencing gender roles, as it itself influences the parents (and the mother)? I admit that for males, to cement gender role the child must be "detached" from the initial strong mother imprint and identify her as the other, but this is REINFORCED by all the other women AND all the other MEN. It's very similar to the annoying garbage I had to resist all through my childhood where all the adults around me would insist that I "act like a lady." Likewise, I assume all boys are told to "be/act like a man." Neither of those MEAN anything! They're arbitrary and unqualifiable!
Monday, May 3, 2010 11:54 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Indeed. Also, "broad" is a fun-word, especially when I'm feeling less politically correct than when I started this conversation. It was the metal pasties, they took over my MIND. @_@
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 4:43 AM
Quote:I say, "The more obsessed we (men) are with her outside, the less we ever learn about our own inside." It's simply an inverse relationship. There's a continuum implied here. A man who is not obsessed with female appearance--a man with merely a healthy appreciation, shall we say, of feminine charms--surely has plenty of room left in his psyche for self-reflection and appreciation for the origin and nature of his own feelings. I find it very interesting that the boys out at the extreme don't tend to acknowledge the existence of an inner life. They don't even know what I'm talking about. They don't EVEN NOTICE that I am talking about it.
Quote:Male depression is pervasive. F'rinstance, it is accepted that young men living on their own will live in squalor, wear dirty underwear, never make the bed, etc. That kind of living would be a clear indicator for depression in any woman, but somehow men are believed to be constituted differently. Men not taking basic care of themselves is part of "being a guy," being a man. Does that seem right to you?
Quote:So a male is encouraged from the cradle to avoid things, avoid showing things, avoid BEING things, and that's crazy making, and leads to depression. Men don't cry, men don't complain, men don't smile at the wrong things, they don't move their hands the wrong way, they don't wear the wrong things, etc.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 4:54 AM
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 5:33 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Quote:Male depression is pervasive. F'rinstance, it is accepted that young men living on their own will live in squalor, wear dirty underwear, never make the bed, etc. That kind of living would be a clear indicator for depression in any woman, but somehow men are believed to be constituted differently. Men not taking basic care of themselves is part of "being a guy," being a man. Does that seem right to you? Well, it's certainly unfortunate, if true, but is that necessarily a sign of DEPRESSION in all of the people who exhibit such behaviour?
Quote:What if it's just because they don't have the patience or time to care about such things? By assuming this is a sign of depression in females, are you making a statement about things you expect females to do "naturally?"
Quote:Quote:So a male is encouraged from the cradle to avoid things, avoid showing things, avoid BEING things, and that's crazy making, and leads to depression. Men don't cry, men don't complain, men don't smile at the wrong things, they don't move their hands the wrong way, they don't wear the wrong things, etc. There are many such expectations on women too. It's not necessarily a unisex phenomenon.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 5:48 AM
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: Quote:Originally posted by HKCavalier: Sex sells not because "it's what guys want," it sells because it's man's favorite method of covering up "what guys DON'T want," i.e.: to feel their loneliness, abandonment and powerlessness. Sex as anesthesia. While there is much truth in this, a beautiful smile on Jane Seymour's lips just melted me at age 11, before I truly keyed into the idea of what sex was all about.
Quote:Originally posted by HKCavalier: Sex sells not because "it's what guys want," it sells because it's man's favorite method of covering up "what guys DON'T want," i.e.: to feel their loneliness, abandonment and powerlessness. Sex as anesthesia.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 5:51 AM
Quote:What? Sorry, Bytemite, but if you show me a person who is not struggling just to survive, who has a reasonable standard of living and they live in filth and do not take basic care of themselves, I'm gonna suspect them of being, oh, just a little depressed. Is that so bizarre or unreasonable? You seem to be very uncomfortable with the idea that behavior might indicate tangible things about one's state of mind or emotional/mental health. Of course, things are not always as they appear, but a lot of times if you pay close attention, they absolutely are!
Quote:Byte, I'm not in any way trying to imply that men have it worse than women, that women don't have unfair expectations placed on them, or any such fool thing. Can you at least presume, for the sake of argument, that I don't have my head up my ass??? I am, however, talking about particular problems that ARE specific to men. If you want to talk about the troubles of growing up female in this culture, please do. Whether or not one sex has it tough, does not in itself imply that the other sex has it easy. Right?
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 5:55 AM
Quote:It may be disturbing to find that what at first glance is a sexy picture of a pretty girl is really a pretty blatant fantasy of rape and degradation, but it is what it is, right? And sure, it may be disturbing to a solid citizen such as yourself, that you didn't notice the ugly in that picture, but do you deny that it's there now that it's been pointed out? Why are some folk so resistant to even just thinking critically about the uses and meaning of such a picture? Can't we agree that our culture has some pretty deep seated problems with sexuality? That we all, to one degree or another, contribute to the problem? Homophobia, misogyny, sexual abuse, these are real problems and wide spread, yes? Is no one (besides me & Bytemite--oh, and Frem, o' course--the Usual Suspect himself) interested in examining these issues? What gives?
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 6:08 AM
GEEZER
Keep the Shiny side up
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: I was rather troubled by some of the images posted of the female leading lady in this series. She starts out as a slave woman who wears ridiculously scandalous outfits unsuitable for a slave, then I'm told her character becomes an Amazonian warrioress who wears ridiculously scandalous outfits unsuitable for a warrior and who can't fight.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 6:22 AM
Quote:I'm pretty sure the large picture is based on "Tarzan and the Jewels of Opar". The woman is not a slave, she is La, high priestess of the Flaming God of Opar. The collar is not a slave collar, but a badge of office. I expect that this is the point where Tarzan recovers from amnesia and rejects La's advances. She then tries to kill him but cannot bring herself to do so.
Quote:She has been captured by an entire tribe and is to be tortured to death for their amusement when John Carter, using his combat prowess and Earthly muscles, rescues her.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 10:11 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: As such, La is still a worthwhile topic for sci-fi - fantasy women. The fact that she is NOT from John Carter of Mars does not negate the complaints I have against the depiction, and her depiction is even MORE offensive since you have explained the context. So there's absolutely no reason for her to be wearing what obviously and no doubt INTENTIONALLY looks like a slave collar other than handwaving it's her badge of office? Or the very strong implications of abuse and debasement fetish inherent in the picture?
Quote:I mean, maybe La is bad. I wouldn't know. Making a play on a guy with amnesia doesn't strike me as the most noble thing a girl can do. But whatever she did, her depiction here is still offensive. I also have to wonder if the picture implies PUNISHMENT for her being forward, and forcing her back into a submissive gender role.
Quote:How convenient. Why do they even have warriors then?
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 10:47 AM
CHRISISALL
Quote:Originally posted by Geezer: Because "Dejah Thoris sits in the palace protected by warriors. Nothing happens to her." doesn't make a very interesting story?
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 10:48 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Geezer: I suggest that if you see slave collars, abuse, and debasement fetishism in the image, perhaps it's your bias and not the image.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 11:23 AM
Quote:Originally posted by HKCavalier: But, in terms of the discussion at hand, you're kinda movin' the goal posts there, Chachi. If Ms. Seymour were nearly naked, with metal pastied breasts thrust toward the camera, her finger nails sharp as claws, tears streaming down her face, one fist clenched in suppressed rage, you may not have such fond memories of the experience, am I right?
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 11:25 AM
Quote:Because "Dejah Thoris sits in the palace protected by warriors. Nothing happens to her." doesn't make a very interesting story?
Quote:When he escaped he took Dejah Thoris with him, since he ("A Gentleman of Virginia", as Burroughs described him) considered it the right thing to do. Should he have left her behind?
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 4:05 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: No one else besides me, HK and Frem sees something that looks like a chain attached to the necklace? Or that the camera is very specifically focused on her breasts?
Quote:She throws herself on the floor? I really don't find self-abasement of females drawn by male artists that much better.
Quote:Why have warriors if none of them stand a chance against the other baddies out in the environment? The only way that would work is if your people vastly outnumber the green men, so you can get away with a loss here or there, or if you have crazy reproduction rates.
Quote:I see that as a different issue. This isn't about what we would do in the same situation, it's about what the author wrote and why.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 4:52 PM
Quote:Sorry, Byte, but I'm beginning to think that you'd find any picture of a woman dressed in less than a burka offensive.
Quote:You should actually read the book instead of making assumptions. Red Martians live in widely seperated cities, their surrounding areas, and along the canals. There are more of them than Green Martians and they're more technologically advanced. Mars, since it has no oceans, actually has more land than Earth, and Green Martians roam the dead sea bottoms between cities and canals where no Red Maritans live. Dejah Thoris was traveling over the sea bottoms in a small flier, crewed by ten or so warriors of Helium, to visit another city when the flier lost buoyancy and had to land on the sea bottom. They were found by the Thark tribe of Green Martians, several thousand, the Heliumite warriors were overwhelmed and killed, and Dejah Thoris captured
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 5:47 PM
Quote:Originally posted by pizmobeach: Quote:Originally posted by Geezer: I suggest that if you see slave collars, abuse, and debasement fetishism in the image, perhaps it's your bias and not the image. Thx Geezer. I have been thinking the same, (and for HK too). The image works like an ink blot.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 7:03 PM
Wednesday, May 5, 2010 3:11 AM
Quote:Originally posted by HKCavalier: The "ink blot" you mention is part of a psychological test. The psychologist administering the test gains real insights into the subject's psyche.
Wednesday, May 5, 2010 4:04 AM
Wednesday, May 5, 2010 5:31 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Geezer: Quote:Originally posted by HKCavalier: The "ink blot" you mention is part of a psychological test. The psychologist administering the test gains real insights into the subject's psyche. Interesting how you see the picture then. I have read the story it relates to, and know the situation (which you apparently don't, as you mis-stated pretty completely what I've previously said about it). Your suppositions don't relate to the actual story at all. "Keep the Shiny side up"
Thursday, May 6, 2010 3:15 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: HK is right, art is about symbolism, and that picture is laden with some troublesome and disturbing symbolism.
Thursday, May 6, 2010 3:44 AM
Thursday, May 6, 2010 5:56 AM
Thursday, May 6, 2010 6:20 AM
Quote:By being on the ground she is shown as the defeated and with Tarzan standing he is triumphant. But at an emotional price.
Thursday, May 6, 2010 10:19 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: Quote:By being on the ground she is shown as the defeated and with Tarzan standing he is triumphant. But at an emotional price. So we agree here. But you don't agree that she has been overly sexualized by the image, that the image doesn't focus on her emotions? The perspective of the image puts "eye level" so to speak right at her breasts, which draws the eye to them. Nothing compositionally really draws the eye to her crying, which is why I didn't notice it until later. And if the image is NOT focusing on her emotions, but on her appearance, specifically her breasts and lack of clothing, what reaction is the image designed to invoke in the viewer, who, because of the medium and the times that this was drawn, was most likely to be male?
Thursday, May 6, 2010 10:27 AM
Quote:Originally posted by pizmobeach: So what do you see here?
Thursday, May 6, 2010 11:16 AM
Quote:You seem to suggest that a scantily clad women cannot be strong or dominant, that she has to be a victim, that these 2 could not have been equals. I would think that goes against the feminist ideal.
Thursday, May 6, 2010 11:56 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Bytemite: If you saw a woman crying in real life, undressed and seeming emotionally broken and defeated lying on the floor, I GUARANTEE you would be troubled. So why is this picture okay? Why are you not troubled by this picture?
Thursday, May 6, 2010 12:31 PM
Quote:Originally posted by chrisisall: Quote:Originally posted by pizmobeach: So what do you see here? A man demeaned by his pseudo-masturbatory positioning, and his reliance on his "weapon" to define his worth.
Thursday, May 6, 2010 1:02 PM
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