Imponderables - Yo Ho, Yo Ho (A Pirate's Life For Me) by RiverIsMyGoddess

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Originally posted by MisterG:
Good greif MsG everyone's MIA today.

I think the hugs scared us all off.

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Friday, September 21, 2007 6:18 AM

Just for that....extra BIG HUGS

Yes the breaking would be better in actuality not virtually

Sorry just busy MrG

"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

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Friday, September 21, 2007 6:20 AM

RUGBUG

Morning folks.

Hrmm, talk of scents. I like to smell good...it makes me feel girly. I'm very fond of lemon grass and 'clean' smelling scents on me.

On my man, I like there to just be a subtle hint of something. Only enough that if I nuzzle his neck, it's there.

Speakin of men, I did run into photoboy at the infamous horse show. He's still as adorable as ever...and has been out of town for a few months. I get to work with him next weekend. Why, oh why must he be so much younger. *Rugbug works on her self-control*.

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"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it." - George Bernard Shaw

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Friday, September 21, 2007 6:35 AM

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Originally posted by RugBug:
Speakin of men, I did run into photoboy at the infamous horse show. He's still as adorable as ever...and has been out of town for a few months. I get to work with him next weekend. Why, oh why must he be so much younger. *Rugbug works on her self-control*.

Men go for younger women all the time. Why can't the reverse work? I say go for it!

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Friday, September 21, 2007 6:39 AM

Ummm why are you working on your self control. He's over 18, he's hot, and he really likes you...so what exactly would the problem be here??? Some guys are really mature at 25 and some guys hit 35 and are still like little kids...it's a matter of you liking each other nothing else....silly Rugbug:)

Great answer Zeek...just for that I won't hug you:)
"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

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Friday, September 21, 2007 6:40 AM

RIVERISMYGODDESS

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Originally posted by Zeek:
Men go for younger women all the time. Why can't the reverse work? I say go for it!

RAmen to that one. I am a big fan of women who are a few years my senior. Age is just a number anyhow.

Hell, my most recent two are 11 and 14 years older than I

RIMG *heart* MsG ... great minds think alike, doll

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics Specialist - 76th IAB

-Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
-Premenstrual Syndrome: Just before their periods women behave the way men do all the time.
-One man's "magic" is another man's engineering. "Supernatural" is a null word.
-Anyone who considers protocol unimportant has never dealt with a cat.

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Friday, September 21, 2007 6:42 AM

F^(# the self control. It's fall time. If you wait to jump in the pile of leaves after everyone else you end up landing in a hard spot or on the sprinkler or some crap.

Okay, so it is the strangest analogy but hey, I'm dehydrated and a little on the pissy side.

So in y'alls opinion, if you have a couple drinks and call someone and ask what your status is in a non threatening manner and get treated like an asshole but have to put up with the same person when they're drunk as shit and looking to say or do anything to piss you off and fight with you and still make you look like the aahole wouldn't you think there is morte going on than is being divulged? I know something is amiss. I asked about the Saturday night thing and the "date" turned into a party where there will be people present (GND, ex husband) that will more than likely be a reason for drama despite her saying she just wants a good time with no drama. So my weekend is pretty much free.

Which might actually work out for the best because I'm lookin' to have fun with someone who is wanting the same thing. Did an inordinate amount of flirting last night with a cool ass half asian chick who is a regular at Johns shop who likes the idea of free food, cuddling, working on stuff (cars and the like) and having a few beers while chilling out. Yeah, that probably really made me sound like an asshole seein' as I'm supposed to be all loyal and shit, but F it. I'm in a mode lately that is a bit selfish and a little on the cold side.

That and I can see (thanks MSG for helping me point it out) through the bullshit. As much as I love Mindy I really ain't liking her right now and I can finally see that it ain't my fault.

Time for some caffine and grub. Lets see what fun leftovers I can scavange from the kitchen while I watch the fun little home movies (survaillence tapes) my techs have made for me.

HOLY RUN ON SENTANCE BATMAN!

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Friday, September 21, 2007 6:47 AM

RIVERISMYGODDESS

NVG

*secret Browncoat ManWhore handshake thingy*

I know how you feel. I still love Ami, but I am far from even liking her today. I say go have a few drinks with the half-Asian chick. :)

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics Specialist - 76th IAB

-Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
-Premenstrual Syndrome: Just before their periods women behave the way men do all the time.
-One man's "magic" is another man's engineering. "Supernatural" is a null word.
-Anyone who considers protocol unimportant has never dealt with a cat.

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Friday, September 21, 2007 7:08 AM

RUGBUG

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Originally posted by Zeek:

Men go for younger women all the time. Why can't the reverse work? I say go for it!

Oh Zeek...two people have to be in the go for it spirit, not just one.

I'm fine with younger guys, but they're not always fine with me.

Neither of us is the type to just have some fun, so I can't really see anything happening. But you never know.

Oh and BTW Zeek, start thinking of hugs like a vertical football tackle. It's not touchy-feely...it's SPORT.

(Remember, this is being said from a person with just as much aversion to hugging as you...well maybe not. Hugging photoboy is awful nice.

)

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"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it." - George Bernard Shaw

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Friday, September 21, 2007 7:35 AM

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Originally posted by RugBug:
Quote:
Originally posted by Zeek:

Men go for younger women all the time. Why can't the reverse work? I say go for it!

Oh Zeek...two people have to be in the go for it spirit, not just one. I'm fine with younger guys, but they're not always fine with me.

Neither of us is the type to just have some fun, so I can't really see anything happening. But you never know.

Oh and BTW Zeek, start thinking of hugs like a vertical football tackle. It's not touchy-feely...it's SPORT. (Remember, this is being said from a person with just as much aversion to hugging as you...well maybe not. Hugging photoboy is awful nice. )

And are you sure he's not interested? Get your flirt on and find out. I say it's worth finding out if something can happen.

If I play any actual football (been ages) I'd be a wide receiver and getting tackled is bad. So, you want me to think hugs are bad. Done and done.

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Friday, September 21, 2007 7:45 AM

HUGS NV- yes stay away from the cranky lady and have yourself your own little drama free party...ok loyal to what? A person who has made no committment to you, feels free to dump all the bad stuff on you but won't hang around for the good, and who basically thinks you should be at her back and call to rescue her, but won't show you any respect...darlin that wouldn't be loyalty, that would be utter stupidity!!!
She wants something...then she better ask for it straight up, no games, and better properly appreciate it and put time and effort into maintaining it...otherwise... stay away

"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

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Friday, September 21, 2007 7:53 AM

Not to turn it into a pissing contest, but why can't everyone just go out getting and giving hugs. I know I don't do enough of it and should do more.

Thanks a bunch Jimi. Seems stuff like this makes it easier to move about the country freely. No matter what I'll end up the asshole. Either I didn't endure and wait for her or I got pissed because she ends up with some retard after telling me that she can't handle a relationship right now. Of course it won't be anything serious, but that ain't the matter and I ain't putting myself through it.

I'm sure most of y'all have those certain folks and their patterns. Anyone have any they'd like to share?

Personal observation: I sabotage my chances with anyone. I am needy ans a little bitch when it comes to man/woman relationships. John mentioned that i love with my whole heart even when things are bad. I see it as actually letting my guard down for the first time in my life. To be truly open to love, but that also makes me a sucker and easily manipulated.

Man whoring woulda been so much easier had I not grown this heart thingy. Think I might stab it with a pencil.

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Friday, September 21, 2007 8:10 AM

HUGS NV your heart is part of what makes you so special. I hardly think it's needy to expect someone to treat you fairly and be there for you when you need them. I'd say that's really an essential part of a decent relationship. Being able to trust that the person won't jerk you around or play games is important too. I don't see how you are sabotaging anything if all you are doing is being there, being supportive, and loving with your whole heart...
Bappin hand on stand by!!!

"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

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Friday, September 21, 2007 8:12 AM

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Not to turn it into a pissing contest, but why can't everyone just go out getting and giving hugs. I know I don't do enough of it and should do more.

Because no means no. It's hug harassment and I don't have to take it!

Don't give into the hug propaganda NV. You don't need to take part in a certain amount of hugging if you don't want to. Stay strong!

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Friday, September 21, 2007 8:12 AM

KELKHIL

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:

Man whoring woulda been so much easier had I not grown this heart thingy. Think I might stab it with a pencil.

Or better yet......

Sell it to HK! Sure it ain't a soul or anything but she might give ya good money for a perfectly working ticker!

Oh and go out and have the "me" time. You do deserve it NVG! If'n anyone gets pissed about it just say too f'n bad. You had the chance and you blew me off!

Kelkhil

The Shirtless Forsaken

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Friday, September 21, 2007 8:14 AM

MISTERG

Heheh I used to manwhore myself all the time when I was single. Turned into a down right party slut the summer before I met my wonderful darlin' wife.

So do what feels good and is fun, NVG. Enjoy your weekend and avoid the evil, the bull*hit and most certainly the drama!

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Best movie villain name ever: Felix La Poubelle

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Friday, September 21, 2007 8:38 AM

RIVERISMYGODDESS

I've found that my personal secret to being a BC ManWhore is to love them all. Sharing the love multiplies it (most folks assume it is divided) and makes it so that that much more is available. Also, see below.

I am out, I'll talk to y'all later.

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics Specialist - 76th IAB

-Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
-Premenstrual Syndrome: Just before their periods women behave the way men do all the time.
-One man's "magic" is another man's engineering. "Supernatural" is a null word.
-Anyone who considers protocol unimportant has never dealt with a cat.

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Friday, September 21, 2007 8:49 AM

OK I love the cat quote...just saying:)

HUGS Jimi tightly - have fun at the party and try to relax ok??

"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

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Friday, September 21, 2007 8:50 AM

Off subject for a moment MrG: I love Grosse Point Blank. Just read your sig. Yeah I know, I'm slow.

Anyhoo, I like hugs, but I get the unwanted feeling especially when it comes to strangers and most folks outside of the immediate family. It is a cultural thing. So I guess the family will end up thoroughly hugged.

And as for the drama, that is the likely thing that woulda happened. With everything that's gone in in the last month, my bet is on drama. But there is also that side of me that knows we would end up sleeping together. Trying to keep from being drawn into the bullshit. Honestly the sex wasn't good enough to keep me coming back for more in spite of the drama.

I am pulling the "a-hole" card and I'm definately gonna see if Felicia (cool ass half Asian chick) wants to do something. She mentioned having a four day weekend while we were sitting on the awesome loungy couch in the shop.

Heh. I had to put my arms behind my head to stay within the perameters of acceptable space which she was almost on top of me anyways because it is a small couch. I felt a finger poking at my arm and heard "Ooh, buff." Naturally I said, "naw, I'm flabby" while flexing.

It might be a game but there ain't nothing saying I gotta play for keps.

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Friday, September 21, 2007 8:53 AM

ZEPHYR1956

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Originally posted by msg:
HUGS Jimi tightly - have fun at the party and try to relax ok??

I will ORDER him to have fun if neccessary.

Commander, Alpha Company, 76th Independent Battalion

also the designated sasquatch

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Friday, September 21, 2007 9:24 AM

Co worker sent me this and I thought of the buff comment from earlier. Timing is such a wonderful thing.

ADD: I don't think orders ar neccessary Zeph. "Partners in crime" usually works much better.

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Friday, September 21, 2007 9:45 AM

RUGBUG

Heheee...that's funny. :D

NVG, just do your thing. Don't let her make you into a doormat, which means you can't be there at her beck and call. If she's made the decision that she can't be in a relationship now, she needs to abide by that and not string you along because she likes being wanted. Once she figures her crap out, she will hopefully come back willing to give it a go. But she'll only come back if you value yourself enough to not be waiting around for her. If you wait, I can almost guarantee that she'll be lookin' elsewhere. Some other lucky woman deserves some NVG lovin'.

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"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it." - George Bernard Shaw

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Friday, September 21, 2007 10:14 AM

Oh hells to the yes. Actually, line 'em up. No, wait. Must pace myself.

So yeah, I'm defiantely going out with someone even if they gotta pay me.

ADD: YYYAAARRRRR!!! (Forgot the pirate theme did we?)

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Friday, September 21, 2007 11:08 AM

HUGS NV I agree with you and everyone. Let it go. If she wants a real relationship it's her turn to make you feel happy and wanted and loved

OK folks I have to bail as it's Wyatt's birthday tonight and I am on party duty. Plus MrG's awesome brother is coming for a visit so I need to make sure the guest room is clean and ready...I'll try to drop by tomorrow:)

"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

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Friday, September 21, 2007 11:14 AM