FIREFLY EPISODE DISCUSSIONS

Saffron's techniques

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Wednesday, May 31, 2006 9:17 PM

PHOENIXROSE

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I was just rewatching Our Mrs Reynolds and I noticed something about the seduction techniques she used on Mal and Wash, respectively. They were very different. Her "good bible" that she used to entice Mal had no mention of pleasure for the woman, while the "good myth" she told Wash was all about a "she" i.e. massive amounts of pleasure for a woman, while not really mentioning male pleasure.
Do you think that says anything about the characters?

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Wednesday, May 31, 2006 9:55 PM

CALHOUN


I think possibly you're looking too deep.. could be i'm wrong.

Saffrons techniques woulda worked on me, way, way too easily.

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Wednesday, May 31, 2006 11:06 PM

SINGATE


The only "techniques" she needed were located about a foot beneath her chin.

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Wednesday, May 31, 2006 11:11 PM

PHOENIXROSE

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Here I was expecting people to maybe have a discussion. My bad.



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Thursday, June 1, 2006 1:11 AM

SCORPIONREGENT


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Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
I was just rewatching Our Mrs Reynolds and I noticed something about the seduction techniques she used on Mal and Wash, respectively. They were very different. Her "good bible" that she used to entice Mal had no mention of pleasure for the woman, while the "good myth" she told Wash was all about a "she" i.e. massive amounts of pleasure for a woman, while not really mentioning male pleasure.
Do you think that says anything about the characters?

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Interesting concept, I always thought that she used more overt methods on her "husband", while saving the more subtle approach for someone else's. Even if she doesn't mention her pleasure in the "good bible" spiel Yosafbrig does speak to her own wants and interest ie. Mal being the guy she wants as a physical specimen. Granted it was all a lie any ways, but sometimes lies can tell more about a person than the truth. With her doubly so because you just aren't gong to get anything else. That's one of the reasons I though she was one of the best villians in the series. She had so much potential for later discovery. I always wanted to know more about her. It was that irony that Mal put into words about never expecting to see her naked.

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 1:19 AM

PHOENIXROSE

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Originally posted by ScorpionRegent:
Interesting concept, I always thought that she used more overt methods on her "husband", while saving the more subtle approach for someone else's. Even if she doesn't mention her pleasure in the "good bible" spiel Yosafbrig does speak to her own wants and interest ie. Mal being the guy she wants as a physical specimen. Granted it was all a lie any ways, but sometimes lies can tell more about a person than the truth. With her doubly so because you just aren't gong to get anything else. That's one of the reasons I though she was one of the best villians in the series. She had so much potential for later discovery. I always wanted to know more about her. It was that irony that Mal put into words about never expecting to see her naked.

Scorpion Regent


I always thought that, too, the more subtle approach being for the one she wasn't "married" to; but I've thought more and more about Inara's comment about her schooling. Companions are trained to read people and give them what they want most, right? So her initial seduction (good point about her going on to say she personally wanted Mal) of both of them kinda struck me this last time. One of the things I love about watching this show; it's like an onion and I see some new possibility every time I rewatch it and peel away a layer.
And come to think of it, if she did have Companion training, how did she end up where she was? Hmmmmmm...

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 2:45 AM

SCORPIONREGENT


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Interesting concept, I always thought that she used more overt methods on her "husband", while saving the more subtle approach for someone else's. Even if she doesn't mention her pleasure in the "good bible" spiel Yosafbrig does speak to her own wants and interest ie. Mal being the guy she wants as a physical specimen. Granted it was all a lie any ways, but sometimes lies can tell more about a person than the truth. With her doubly so because you just aren't gong to get anything else. That's one of the reasons I though she was one of the best villians in the series. She had so much potential for later discovery. I always wanted to know more about her. It was that irony that Mal put into words about never expecting to see her naked.

Scorpion Regent


I always thought that, too, the more subtle approach being for the one she wasn't "married" to; but I've thought more and more about Inara's comment about her schooling. Companions are trained to read people and give them what they want most, right? So her initial seduction (good point about her going on to say she personally wanted Mal) of both of them kinda struck me this last time. One of the things I love about watching this show; it's like an onion and I see some new possibility every time I rewatch it and peel away a layer.
And come to think of it, if she did have Companion training, how did she end up where she was? Hmmmmmm...

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My guess is that she left the training house before her training was completed, either dropped out or was expelled, or she was a companion and left the profession when she dicovered it interfered with her being a sociopath. Perhaps she faked her own death to make a clean break. That's why I love her character, the possibilities. She 's a bad one no doubt, but that's kind of sexy.

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 3:00 AM

NUCLEARDAY


Yeah, I'm certainly looking forward to seeing a return of Saffron if (WHEN! :) we get some more stories in the 'verse.

Insofar as what her seduction methods tell about the characters: I think you may have hit on something, but I'd be at a loss to figure out just what it might represent between Mal, Inara, and Wash. IIRC, Joss mentions in the commentary for Objects in Space that the methods Early uses to overpower the crew say something about their characters. Think he also says that it wasn't something he had planned out in advanced, but something his wife had noticed about it after the fact?

Anyways, might be the same thing here?

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 3:27 AM

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Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
I was just rewatching Our Mrs Reynolds and I noticed something about the seduction techniques she used on Mal and Wash, respectively. They were very different. Her "good bible" that she used to entice Mal had no mention of pleasure for the woman, while the "good myth" she told Wash was all about a "she" i.e. massive amounts of pleasure for a woman, while not really mentioning male pleasure.
Do you think that says anything about the characters?

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Yes I do - as you say, companions are trained to read people - although, I wouldn't reduce it to them just being selfish/unselfish lovers. I suspect if our saffron had used the wrong routine on each person it may not have worked in either case.

I think YoSaffBridge could've used either routine on me successfully. Do you think this says something about my character?

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 3:40 AM

TRISTAN


PhoenixRose,
I always thought her situation was similar to Nandi's...she had the training, but decided against the rigid "controls" of a Companion. Saffron decided to use her feminine wiles to better herself financially, but in a different way than Nandi. Whereas Nandi used sex alone for a living, Saffron used it to lower defenses and gain access to much more than just the price of a "roll in the hay". I also think that while both of them enjoyed their professions, Saffron enjoyed destroying people as well. Not that she was a killer or anything, just that when she was done with someone, they would have to spend awhile regaining themselves; financially, emotionally, etc.
As far as the techniques used, I will have to watch that episode again (darn!) and look a little closer at that. I did notice that she mentioned bible with Mal, and myth with Wash. Considering Mal's dislike of religion, I thought that was a weird choice.

Alright, I think I am done for now...hope I added something to the discussion.



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Thursday, June 1, 2006 3:56 AM

ZZETTA13


Saffron is an evil temptress queen bee. I love her. Why do I say this? Because what she does is a game to her. Even if folks get harmed in her little games. "You're assuming the money was the payoff."

Mal and Wash,two different men, two different aproaches.Why is little Saffron such a devilwoman? She could have easily left Mal all alone in his bunk unaproached and unharmed and went strait up to the bridge to seduce Wash. What fun would that have been for her?

Nope,sex and the pleasures of sex for either man or woman was not the point of it all. The seduction was the point.The success of the seduction was the payoff and the money just a bonus.

Given enough time Yosafbrige could maybe have seduced the entire crew. Book included. "Special Hell" special rate booking for a group of 5 to 7

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 4:17 AM

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Semi-related information, not as in depth as I would have liked. But then, anyone talking about "ninjas" in factual sense are usually full of shit to begin with.

The Kama-Sutra actually deals a lot more with seduction than it does with sexual positions. Splits men and women into three main categories each based on their body types and temperaments. For each type of man/woman, there is a way to approach each type of the opposite or, yes, same gender. The lotus woman prefers eye contact, but not if it's from a stallion-man. The Chitrini prefers physical contact from anyone of equal size. The Fairy prefers the stallion in most cases, but whatever her preference usually sticks to the one type.

This is a very dumbed down summary of the beginning of one chapter... I was never very comfortable reading the thing. Less so, after seeing how manipulative females can be.

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 4:22 AM

KPO

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I did notice that she mentioned bible with Mal, and myth with Wash. Considering Mal's dislike of religion, I thought that was a weird choice.



Maybe she took her cue from Mal as soon as he introduced the word 'moral' into the equation. This was what I thought was weird - I have a similar religious history to Mal and these days I cringe anytime I hear morality raised on the issue of sex.

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 6:06 AM

DEEPGIRL187


I believe your right, PhoenixRose. Think about Wash's relationship with Zoe. She is obviously the dominant partner. So one of Wash's main concerns (if he doesn't want to be killed), would probably be Zoe's pleasure. Now in the case of Mal, his ideas about women are somewhat antiquated. That being said, the thought of a woman pleasing him would probably be more appealing. Great observation, I didn't notice it before.

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 7:54 AM

PHOENIXROSE

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I never got much past the body type descriptions in the Kama Sutra. A lot of what it talked about was very strange; techniques for properly forming different sorts of marks on you partner's body, the relative sizes (I didn't know the "yoni" came in different sizes; that was interesting to find out) and what they were called. It was very strict.
Anyway. Yes, I think Wash is certainly into pleasing his woman. I think it's not only a matter of him wanting to survive the marriage, I think he really gets off on being able to please Zoe; it's mutually benificial. Otherwise, hey, they wouldn't have gotten married.
And I think that the idea of being pleased would appeal to Mal - not to say he would be a totally selfish lover just because of that - for a few reasons. First, his possible view of women, although it isn't too antiquated because he did say she wasn't property and such, and he does respect Zoe as a warrior. Anyway, there's also the fact that he hadn't really, well, gotten any for awhile. Wash, being married to Zoe, was getting laid on a regualar basis and so probably isn't quite so tense and eager to be pleased. But like I said, I'm fairly sure that pleasing has always been important to him. Some men are like that.
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Thursday, June 1, 2006 2:57 PM

ONTHEDRIFT


PhoenixRose - thought provoking discussion.
I think that Saffron's tactics don't have too much to do with what kind of lover she senses Mal and Wash are. I think her seduction has more to do with her being intuitive as to what it would take for them to succumb to her seduction. Think about it, Mal resists her for moral reasons, he believes it would be unjust to take "advantage" of her. Saffron knows that Mal is concerned with what is morally right because he makes his opinion on the whole arranged marriage thing abundantly clear to her etc. And she can of course "read" people well, she therefore knows that Mal is an honorable man. Quoting the bible was her way of trying to persuade him that by being with her he wasn't doing anything wrong. "Good bible", because it is after all a moral authority that she uses to reassure him that what they are about to do is morally ok. She then reassures him that he isn't taking advantage of her, ("Had I the dare to choose...I would've chosen you." "I swell, etc etc")

As far as Wash goes, Saffron's limited exposure to he and Zoe's relationship showed that the two are quite different, and that Zoe appears to be the dominant one. Thinking something (read someone) different and new might appeal to Wash sexually, Saffron tries to be similar to Wash (the crap she spins about the special stars and the sexualized myth to go along with it). She then also tries to be dissimiliar to Zoe- she is subservient and docile, needy even, ("it seemed she didn't respect you..." "please make this night what it should be, show me the stars...").

So basically I think Saffron is extremely adept at finding a person's soft underbelly. She exposes people's "weaknesses" or needs and desires, as it will make them more susceptible to falling for her seduction\con. Companion training would no doubt come in handy for a con artist...Hmm I wonder about Inara's reasons for leaving Sihnon...hmm.

Sorry if I bored you to death PhoenixRose, but I enjoyed the question you posed and the discussion that eventually followed. If by some chance you did read this far let me know what you think. Thanks!

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 9:25 PM

PHOENIXROSE

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You have a good point, onthedrift. Quoting the "good bible" was a way to respond to the question of what is morally right, it's just the wording used that kinda caught my attention; "The woman shall open to the man as the frow to the plow, and he shall work in her, and again, til she bring him to his fall and rest him then on the sweat of her breast."
No mention of bringing her to her fall. Maybe it could be implied, and she went on to say he pretty much turns her on, but it was never more than implied.
Then with Wash: "She was open, inviting, and the stars would rush into her; through the skin of her, making the oceans boil with sensation. And when she could stand no more ecstasy she puffed up her cheeks and blew out the sky."
In this "good myth" it's the feminine pleasure that's spoken about, and the masculine pleasure that is implied (stars rushing into her...)
I absolutely think you're right that she thought someone different from Zoe might appeal to him, and she did act very different, but it was still in a certain way focused on her more than him ("Show me the stars" rather than, for example, "Let me show you the stars" or even "Let us see the stars") and Wash was very close to being taken in by that, even wishing he was "someone else" at that point. So the idea of her pleasure is what was turning him on, whereas with Mal it was more the idea of his pleasure. Though again hers was mentioned, he was already taken in by that point, and her saying that she wanted him just took it over the top.
In my experience, it's usually the more dominant, "captainy" men who would be more aroused by the idea of their own pleasure, while slightly more submissive men really like the idea of a lady's pleasure, which brings them pleasure in turn. Now, dominant men aren't always selfish lovers, per se, but they are more likely to be. If they don't think about it too much, you know. The type of man who more likes the idea of a woman being pleased really just doesn't know how to be a selfish lover. Of course this is all just in my experience, which is admittedly fairly limited. But I still think it fits the characters pretty well.

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Thursday, June 1, 2006 10:13 PM

22CLAWS

Entirely pointy.


What about Saffron's attempted seduction of Inara? Is this one more or less ambitious than her manipulation of the two men? The occasion allows less (if any) preparation, but, Inara is a far more sophisticated mark.

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Friday, June 2, 2006 2:08 AM

FLATTOP


22:
Inara definitely appears to be a harder target, but in the end is the easiest. She plays to Inara's wanting to be strong and in control, and even tosses in Mal trying to keep her away (man is bad and trying to control me, please save me?). A few more alarm free minutes, and Jayne would have been heading for his bunk.
Her attempts to seduce Mal would likely have worked on me if I were single...(being married like I am, finding a woman in my bed would get all sorts & kinds of help called upon to get her out of there & make it plain I had nothing to do with this).
Her attempt at seducing Wash had no effect on me (nearing the point of me not noticing she was trying to seduce him); but I could see where if she'd tried exactly the same things on Wash when he and Zoey were fighting (about something other than Saf of course) she would have had a better shot at getting him. So definitely her choice of technique was specific to the target.
Seducing the whole crew?
Jayne would be too easy. Hardly worth the effort (no matter how well the tenor clears his throat, you do not applaud), unless she made sure he knew she had already taken out the rest of the crew, and was fully on his guard against her. He'd still cave, but at least she'd have to try.
Kaylee: Perhaps show a 'gift' for working on ships, and a bit of innocent fascination... She wouldn't be the first prarie harpy to be on her back in the engine room.
Book: I need someone to talk to who understands the bible and... once they were alone I'm sure she'd wear him down.
River: I don't see it. Not unless the woman is truly pathological and believes to her core what she is doing. Can't fool a reader.
Simon: toughest nut on the boat other than River. He's got a thing for Kaylee, loves River beyond reason, and is polite/respectable through and through. A naked woman? 'What seems to be the problem miss?' Detached doctor persona is his primary state of being. Kaylee's been working on him for months (with tutoring from Inara), and has managed 1 drunken cuddle, and a few smiles. I don't see Saffron unlocking him in a hurry.

Do you know what your sin is Captain?
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Friday, June 2, 2006 2:55 AM

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I don't think it's fair to say that Inara was the easiest target. It's more likely, going on what she says later about not playing a player, that she realised something was up before the sirens started going and was hoping to get Saffron into a position where she could neutralise the threat when Yo-Saff-Bridge wasn't expecting an attack.

Mal and the Bible; there's another angle to this. Though he now has a very negative reaction to organised Christianity, he was clearly raised a Christian and therefore might have an even more negative reaction to mythology because it'd be the way he was brought up. Just a thought.

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Friday, June 2, 2006 6:11 AM

ONTHEDRIFT


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I don't think it's fair to say that Inara was the easiest target. It's more likely, going on what she says later about not playing a player, that she realised something was up before the sirens started going and was hoping to get Saffron into a position where she could neutralise the threat when Yo-Saff-Bridge wasn't expecting an attack.



Exactly, Inara knew what was really going on from the moment Saffron started with her. She is a companion after all. Plus I think anyone could have seen that the seduction technique she tried with Inara did not fit in with the Saffron that was introduced to the crew. Saffron, a poor, uneducated, backwater gal married off for trade, desperate for Mal's (husband's) approval; is this really a person who is likely to be enlightened enough to realize, little alone desire, the sexual experience another woman could provide her. I'm thinking not. Inara, or anyone, would have seen right through that ploy.

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Friday, June 2, 2006 8:30 AM

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You have a good point, onthedrift. Quoting the "good bible" was a way to respond to the question of what is morally right, it's just the wording used that kinda caught my attention; "The woman shall open to the man as the frow to the plow, and he shall work in her, and again, til she bring him to his fall and rest him then on the sweat of her breast."
No mention of bringing her to her fall. Maybe it could be implied, and she went on to say he pretty much turns her on, but it was never more than implied.
Then with Wash: "She was open, inviting, and the stars would rush into her; through the skin of her, making the oceans boil with sensation. And when she could stand no more ecstasy she puffed up her cheeks and blew out the sky."
In this "good myth" it's the feminine pleasure that's spoken about, and the masculine pleasure that is implied (stars rushing into her...)
I absolutely think you're right that she thought someone different from Zoe might appeal to him, and she did act very different, but it was still in a certain way focused on her more than him ("Show me the stars" rather than, for example, "Let me show you the stars" or even "Let us see the stars") and Wash was very close to being taken in by that, even wishing he was "someone else" at that point. So the idea of her pleasure is what was turning him on, whereas with Mal it was more the idea of his pleasure. Though again hers was mentioned, he was already taken in by that point, and her saying that she wanted him just took it over the top.
In my experience, it's usually the more dominant, "captainy" men who would be more aroused by the idea of their own pleasure, while slightly more submissive men really like the idea of a lady's pleasure, which brings them pleasure in turn. Now, dominant men aren't always selfish lovers, per se, but they are more likely to be. If they don't think about it too much, you know. The type of man who more likes the idea of a woman being pleased really just doesn't know how to be a selfish lover. Of course this is all just in my experience, which is admittedly fairly limited. But I still think it fits the characters pretty well.

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You are right PhoenixRose, there are most definitely different gender issues used against both men. It does raise interesting questions about their characters to look at it solely from that perspective. Question though, to your knowledge does the bible ever even obliquely reference a woman's "fall" or her pleasure at all for that matter? I'm admitting my own limited experience in this arena of knowledge, and not trying to be insulting, just saying that it definitely seems more male-centric; whereas many myths that I have heard appear to have at least equal opportunity gender roles. Running with your theory of Saffron's takes on Wash and Mal, this could explain an earlier post questioning why she used the bible on Mal and a myth on Wash. Bible more focused on men, Myth more focused on Women. Perhaps I'm over-simplifying??
And "captainy" men, huh...

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Friday, June 2, 2006 12:18 PM

KPO

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to your knowledge does the bible ever even obliquely reference a woman's "fall" or her pleasure at all for that matter? I'm admitting my own limited experience in this arena of knowledge, and not trying to be insulting, just saying that it definitely seems more male-centric; whereas many myths that I have heard appear to have at least equal opportunity gender roles. Running with your theory of Saffron's takes on Wash and Mal, this could explain an earlier post questioning why she used the bible on Mal and a myth on Wash. Bible more focused on men, Myth more focused on Women. Perhaps I'm over-simplifying??


There's no verse in the bible (err, of this planet) about bringing a man or a woman to his/her fall (although it does talk about a man and his wife becoming 'one flesh').

Our bible I would say is generally pretty male-centric - in that most of the main characters are male, and wives are supposed to 'submit to their husbands' and things like that. However the only sensual passages I can think of in the bible are in Song of Songs, which is written from a female point of view. Nothing steamy though - the bible's not really that kind of book... and the whole thing is taken as a metaphor for something else.

Also, some people (not christians) interpret the story of the garden of eden, where eve takes the forbidden fruit, as a metaphor for a female giving into sexual temptation, with a consequent loss of innocence.

The people that hold this view of the bible see a reference to female sexual pleasure, but they would also consider it to be a myth...

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Friday, June 2, 2006 5:53 PM

PHOENIXROSE

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A patriarchal religion talking about women being pleased or happy? Puh-leeze!
Ahem. Sorry.
No, but that still doesn't change the original point. The quotation she used was carefully chosen/written. That she chose to say it was a bible is almost beside the point, except that it was a fitting context.

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Friday, June 9, 2006 7:56 PM

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A few more alarm free minutes, and Jayne would have been heading for his bunk.




Interesting - I have wondered whether people interpret that scene the same way - I have always taken it that Inara was playing her all along, and just ran out of time when the alarm went. Inara's expression changes immediately the alarm starts - no dawning realisation.

On an somewhat unrelated not, i saw YoSaffBridg on Las Vegas this week (we are probably a season behind over here!) and I was amazed at the similarity fo the character - docile and 'nice' to begin with, but turns out to be a con artist. Seems to be a bit typecast - anyone seen her in anything else?

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Saturday, June 10, 2006 9:46 AM

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I saw that episode too, and you're not a season behind. It was on about a month and a half ago in the States. I remember not planning on watching that episode, but once I saw YoSaffBridge, I had to stay for the whole thing. I wonder if the writers of Vegas are fans of Firefly, due to the similarity of the characters.

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Saturday, June 10, 2006 4:48 PM

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A patriarchal religion talking about women being pleased or happy? Puh-leeze!
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You've lost me. Is there an emoticon for a blank stare somewhere?. Anyway, I am confounded by your snarky cynicsm. Is it possible you've misunderstood where I'm coming from?

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No, but that still doesn't change the original point. The quotation she used was carefully chosen/written. That she chose to say it was a bible is almost beside the point, except that it was a fitting context.


Err, I wasn't aware we were really disagreeing on anything... I'll tell you my opinion and you can maybe point out where

Let's see - I think you're on to something about the difference in male psyche as the reason for the different seduction techniques. You've been quite shrewd to recognise that female pleasure is a turn on to men, and some more than others - i'm not aware of a female equivalent feeling...? anyway well done.

I'm happy with your conclusion that captainy type men are less aroused by female pleasure than wash type men and therefore are more likely to be selfish lovers. I reckon 'love' can more than compensate for this though - Mal I reckon would have a desire to cherish and take care of a lover - this would be a different type of attention to wash's and although I think it doesn't appeal to you as much, I suspect a lot of women would prefer that. (I've made some judgements about you and your gender here - forgive me if they're wayward)

Ironically it was I think this chivalrous sense towards women that saffron had to overcome in order to seduce him. While mal was probably drawn towards that which was (supposedly) sweet and innocent and pure, he couldn't partake of her without violating his sense of chivalry, which was to look out for what was best for her. Recall - "I'd be a terrible husband."

Hehe. Did I just say "partake of her"? Can I get away with that?

Anyway saffron had to evolve into a creature who was more clued up about the world and knew what she wanted, so that sex wouldn't seem like taking advantage of her. She had to really want that sex, and show it. But she couldn't suddenly turn into a slut when she'd been playing all innocent, so she developed the persona of an earnestly religious girl (which fits with the rest of her story about a backwards world) following her own erotic subservient desires instilled in her by scripture. And why not concoct an explicit passage to recite, to put the right kind of picture in mal's head?

I don't think raising the subject of religion was to push mal's buttons in any way, but i think we're agreed on that, right? Stated above are my theories for why religion entered the conversation.

As for the patriarchal religions, I only really know about christianity, and Judaism where it overlaps.

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A patriarchal religion talking about women being pleased or happy? Puh-leeze!


Perhaps you're thinking specifically on Islam? Are you a liberal with that annoying tendency to equate all three religions? I can understand why over in the states you lot like do that, as a lot of the faces of christianity that you see are quite ugly. But what I said about the bible was accurate, if you know better then disagree as vocally as you like...(NB. this is a bluff, I don't really want to get into a debate on gender relations in the bible. Up to you though.)

So, that's me summed up on the issue. Where do we disagree in all that? I'm sure we'd disagree plenty about christianity but i'd rather talk about firefly




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Saturday, June 10, 2006 4:54 PM

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The only "techniques" she needed were located about a foot beneath her chin.



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Saturday, June 10, 2006 5:24 PM

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No, I am not thinking specifically of Islam. I won't say they're all the same religion, but they are all patriarchal and they do all worship the same God. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I seem to remember something in the bible about women being to blame for "original sin" and deserving to be punished for that. I also seem to remember that the only female biblical figure who ever got any enjoyment out of sex is considered demonic and evil. I haven't read the thing cover to cover, though, so again you can correct me if I'm wrong. I'm not overly interested in a debate about it either, though, so you don't have to.

Anyway, back on topic, I think you put it very well. And yes, a chivalrous (sp?) man would cherish a lover, and that can be good, too. As you said, love has to enter the equation. For me it's always there anyway. Many are selfish lovers if they don't love or at least deeply care about a person, so I agree. I will say that it can be a turn-on to know your lover is turned on, regardless of gender. I very much enjoy knowing I am really pushing someone's hot buttons. But that might be a subject for the Imponderables thread rather than this one. Part of why I think I would prefer attention akin to Wash's is because it would compliment and mirror my own. I might be unusual in this respect; I'm not sure. There are plenty of women who claim they're happy so long as their lover is happy, but I don't always buy it.
I guess you can get away with "partake of her" if you want to.

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Sunday, June 11, 2006 4:13 PM

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Correct me if I'm wrong, but I seem to remember something in the bible about women being to blame for "original sin" and deserving to be punished for that.


That's the story of eve taking the forbidden fruit in the garden of eden (tempted by the serpent), and sharing it with adam.

God's punishment for adam was a life of toil outside of the garden, the punishment for the serpent was that he crawl on his belly in the dust (i suppose he had legs previously) and God's punishment for eve was:

"I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you."

That was God's verdict on 'the fall'. I've never heard it taught in christian preaching or writing that women are especially to blame because eve was first to eat the forbidden fruit. No doubt in america there will be those types of christians though, who i'm sure are quite vocal about it.

The fruit eating incident is held against womankind only once in the bible that i can think of, as an argument for why women shouldn't instruct men on spiritual matters. This i think is to do with her being deceived by the serpent (who is generally associated with the devil) in the first place. It seems to be to some extent suggesting an intellectual deficiency in women.

It's also worth noting that this story of original sin is generally referred to later on in the bible as 'adam's sin' - as I say, the bible is very male-centric in terms of narrative.

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I also seem to remember that the only female biblical figure who ever got any enjoyment out of sex is considered demonic and evil.


I honestly can't think what you could be referring to. The bible doesn't really say anything about sexual pleasure for either sex, as i said earlier.

It is accepted in the bible that men and women have 'passions' (sex drives), and you are never rebuked for it. Sensuality is celebrated in the book 'Song of songs' (from a female point of view), but the emphasis is on romantic feeling rather than sexual pleasure.

That's all I can think of that is relevant to say about the bible as regards women and original sin/sexual pleasure. I think you could well argue that the bible is sexist because it patronises women (by western society's modern standards), but never does it despise or dehumanise them, or paint them as sinful creatures any more than men.

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Sunday, June 11, 2006 7:27 PM

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Ok, then. It is patronizing and a bit insulting. I can pretty easily say the Bible is not really my friend. Yes, there are several people who are vocal about women being responsible for all the suffering in the world and our fall from grace. They are also not my friend.

And I was referring to Lilith. Commonly edited out, she was considered to be Adam's first wife. She was thrown out because she would not obey him, and became the mother of the Succubi; sex demons. At least, that's how I understand it.

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Monday, June 12, 2006 8:51 AM

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It is patronizing and a bit insulting. I can pretty easily say the Bible is not really my friend.


Because of its views on women? Indeed. At least it values them as human beings though - and quite likely more than the society in which it was written.

I like the bible - the christian message and christian philosophy. Except for one or two contentious and offensive bits I think it is an insightful, compassionate and hopeful message for mankind - although a bit harsh on those who reject it... What ruins it for me is that I just don't think it's all true.

I think the type of music that resonates with a person is a good measure of where their soul is at, and interestingly, I'm still a sucker for christian music.

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And I was referring to Lilith. Commonly edited out, she was considered to be Adam's first wife. She was thrown out because she would not obey him, and became the mother of the Succubi; sex demons. At least, that's how I understand it.


Yeah, i hadn't heard of this lady until an episode of stargate (or something) recently. I suspect it's more of an old jewish myth/morality tale. Even the catholics don't have her in their bible - i don't think it was ever seriously included in scripture. I could be wrong though.

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Thursday, June 15, 2006 4:55 AM

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Hey all,

This thread has gone in a slightly different direction since I saw it last, but I was thinking about it yesterday and came up with an idea that I wanted to share.

I think Saffron was playing Mal like a sport fish.

She wasn't trying to get Mal to have sex at first. She had a few days during which she needed Serenity to keep flying the direction it was flying; she was stalling. She needed to keep the crew occupied, and did it in the way that amused her most. She was deliberately getting Mal hot and bothered -- thinking about sex by having boobs (as a previous poster pointed out) and indicating she would be a willing partner, but also making him _not_ want to have sex by being sweet and innocent and helpless. She turned the sexual tension up and down, sometimes just being interested in Mal as a person, sometimes suggesting (again) that she was willing to get physically intimate. The initial behaviour wasn't actually intended to seduce Mal, it was to keep him distracted.

When it was actually time to put Mal out of commission, that's when she really tried to make Mal want to have sex, and she basically succeeded. She showed up naked in his bunk, declared explicitly there were no valid moral objections, and stopped being helpless ("If I am wed, I am a woman, and I'll take your leave to be bold" and "Had I dared to choose, I would choose you" and "I swell to think of you in me" and "I'll make my own way with the strength you've given me, but give me my wedding night!").

That was the turn on for Mal -- an attractive, intelligent female who knows her own mind. And that's when she reeled him in :)

The business with Wash and Inara, I think, showed she had the right instincts, but just not enough time. Those approaches would have worked, I think, or at least come pretty darn close, but she needed at least the same amount of time she used on Mal to make them work with Wash and Inara.

Anyway, just my two cents,

Indigo S.

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Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:19 AM

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I don't think she's trying to seduce Inara. I think she's carefully evaluated each crew member for their weaknesses and every good con artist knows there are some who aren't con-able. So I think at first she's not sure whether Inara has a weapon and she's blwoing smoke to get Inara to hesitate and then she continues blowing smoke to see Inara's reaction and give herself enough time to form a plan to get past Inara:)

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