Imponderables- good time conversation by MsA

Damn. Secondies! (hopefully if nobody ninjas me... >.>)

I want a fox! A red one with those huuuge ears! ^.^

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 11:53 AM

AVERYFINECOMPANION

A husky!!

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 12:28 PM

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Originally posted by Black12Akytca: a friend made me (I got back at her though.. )

ooooooooooh how'd u get her back?? XD

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 12:43 PM

-stares innocently into the distance- Oh, just did a thing or two.. XD (didn't let her borrow any of my new manga, since she's addicted, and made her listen to some of my metal music, since she hates it XD)

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 1:57 PM

lol, all of my friends hate my metal music XD they call it "catherine's angry music"

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 1:58 PM

NAVYSEILS

I'd quite like a Deinonychus... but excluding dinosaurs I think I'm pretty good with the pets I have now. Cats are decent, and tarantulas too.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 2:30 PM

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Originally posted by freelancertex:
lol, all of my friends hate my metal music XD they call it "catherine's angry music"

Heh, yeah. Same here (though Ive at least found a friend that likes bagpipes!

). They don't call it 'lily's angry music' or anything like that, they just give me funny looks whenever it comes up XD

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 3:37 PM

do i detect dropkick murphys...?

well only my girl friends call it my angry music cuz they don't like angry music, the guy friends like some of the same bands XD depending.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 3:52 PM

Ah, nice ^.^. Yeah, I don't share ANY musical tastes with my girl friends (which kinda sucks), but.. -shrug-

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 5:02 PM

LOL Navy... dinosaurs as pets?? You do have cute cats

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 5:21 PM

NAVYSEILS

yea, dinosaurs are awesome, duh!

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 4:18 AM

Well I suppose it's no odder than my wish for a racoon, an otter, a fox, several types of monkey, meerkats, and various large cats:)

You know I can see you with a mini apatosaurus....

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 4:36 AM

Tiger...a friendly tiger.

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 4:47 AM

Well even if you hand raise them, they're still tigers so you have to get training to handle them.. but yes that'd be soooooo cool.

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 8:35 AM

OK how about this ponder. Should there be some break up protocol or rules? I mean there's other dating rules that are out there call 3 days after the first date, 3rd date rule, etc. Do we need some for break ups?

A friend of mine is going through a break up and both of them are just driving me nuts. They're emailing each other multiple times a day. She's going to his place tonight to "talk". This is the 3rd time they've broken up btw. They keep back sliding. Though the frequency of the break ups has picked up. There was like a month between the first and second but only a couple weeks before the third (they tried to claim they weren't back together in between those two).

I just think they need to learn to say stuff like "I care about you but we're not right together and we need to spend time apart right now". At least something along those lines.

I'm thinking maybe a rule like for 3 months after the break up you are only allowed to hang out with your ex in groups. No phone calls unless it's a short "hey I left my at your place can you bring it to ? thanks" variety. How about that?

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 8:51 AM

I think there should definitely be some protocol rules for at least the younger dating population (i.e. voice only, no text breakup, no email breakup, no going through friends @_@) but in a situation like that, yeah, i think they need to spend some time apart apart.

are they happy when they're together? I mean, have their breakups been really ugly? whats the story with these two?

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 9:07 AM

I think there should definitely be rules
1- do not put your friends, pets, kids, parents, etc in the middle of it by asking them to take sides, carry messages, etc
2-If you're going to break up...do it. don't drag it out over a long period of time. Cut off contact. If you want to be friends. Wait a month or so then try. if you fail at it once, stop trying
3-Do not trash your ex in public. Sure tell a few friends or someone you lean on, but don't go all facebook, myspace, ad on a blimp about it. That just makes you look like an ass
4-Do not reveal secrets, personal issues, or other private things you became aware of due to being in the couple. Have some class and don't just spew someones personal stuff everywhere because you're feeling hurt. In the long run it's just mean, hatful and says more about the kind of person you are than about them

These are the rules I would love to see enforced:)

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 10:10 AM

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Originally posted by freelancertex:
are they happy when they're together? I mean, have their breakups been really ugly? whats the story with these two?

It's like their relationship is bipolar. They say both. We're so happy. This relationship is so draining and makes me so unhappy. The break ups have been ridiculous. They act super crushed for a day or two and then boom back together and "going to really try to make it work this time". This break up has lasted since Saturday at least. That's a new record.

I think they're wrong for each other. I don't think you break up three times if you're right for each other. Every time it's been her breaking up with him. I think each time she freaks out and thinks "but it's like wasting a year of dating and what if I never find someone else!?". Then they get back together and she realizes he's not right for her and staying together is wasting the time she should be spending looking for mr. right. Which is exactly how this last one happened. They went to a wedding and she flat out told him during the ceremony she was thinking "I can't ever see myself marrying you". Ouch dude. Yet he still seems to want her back. He's convinced she's just scared and is lying to herself.

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 10:11 AM

MsA, you forgot the 'don't date someone you've broken up with again'- that just drives me nuts!

But yeah, I agree with everything MsA said..

Sorry I can't really offer any advice, Zeek, I'd just be echoing everyone before me..

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 1:07 PM

that is quite a predicament, Zeek O_o dunno how to handle that one.

I agree with MsA's rules though, they seem reasonable.

it's raining..

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Thursday, July 23, 2009 2:39 PM

I'd buy them both a nice 6 month subscription to online dating...

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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Friday, July 24, 2009 4:57 AM

Apparently they didn't rekindle much last night. They talked and apparently snuggled *gag* and that was it. He brought up maybe getting another chance at their relationship sometime in the future and she shot it down saying "I doubt it". Finally something that went right! Hopefully the drama will end soon.

On another happy note, it's Friday!!!

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Friday, July 24, 2009 6:14 AM

Ok seriously I'm afraid your only option is to hire a hit man...

Yay for Friday:) Ok so who's doing what this weekend??

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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Friday, July 24, 2009 8:11 AM

They're just lucky I'm a cheapskate. I'm not going to go wasting money on a hitman.

Already he wants me to come hang out with him 24/7. I'm anti-social dang it! I liked it better when he had a gf to keep him busy.

Edit: brain no work on Friday

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Friday, July 24, 2009 8:43 AM

someone call for a Freelancer? ;)

O_o clingy much? is he afraid of being alone or something?

FRIDAY YAY!! i just hope it doesn't rain on sunday...means no racing...:\

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Friday, July 24, 2009 9:58 AM

You could make him a social skills box... we do that a lot for students....

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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Friday, July 24, 2009 10:23 AM

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Originally posted by MsA:
You could make him a social skills box... we do that a lot for students....

What be this social skills box?

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Friday, July 24, 2009 11:29 AM

Ah .. ok well you get a medium sized carboard box. Into place a series of cards with social dilemas. Add fisher price people to act out dilemas and solutions and then add a few board games or other pen/paper games that require two players.
Level one kids work on acting out ( with teacher monitoring and assistance) solutions to the dilemas
Level 2 they practice these newly learned social skills ( taking turns, active listening, etc ) by engaging peers in games:)

Or if you're really desperate you could just pull and print a few escort ads

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
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Friday, July 24, 2009 11:41 AM

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Or if you're really desperate you could just pull and print a few escort ads

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAA! That was great!

'Who are you and how did you get in here?' 'I'm a locksmith. And, I'm a locksmith.'
Police Squad

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Monday, July 27, 2009 4:17 AM

Dead for a whole weekend? Guess everyone was playing Wii Sports Resort. I'm not blown away by the new sensitivity or anything but the game was OK.

I do have wii shoulder today though. I don't think my arm is used to the bowling, frisbee, basketball motion.

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Monday, July 27, 2009 6:39 AM

GORRAMGROUPIE

I have Halo thumb, from trying to beat my 13 year old. Kid's good, of course, when all you do is play that game.......

'Who are you and how did you get in here?' 'I'm a locksmith. And, I'm a locksmith.'
Police Squad

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Monday, July 27, 2009 7:20 AM

Heh heh.. I don't even have comp hand anymore (from using a mouse all day)...

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Monday, July 27, 2009 10:08 AM

gigglesnort over Wii shoulder ( can't wait to see the doctor's note on that one)

Morning all:)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
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Monday, July 27, 2009 11:10 AM

Now brain fried. 3 hour meeting. Ugh.

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Monday, July 27, 2009 12:15 PM

HUGS Zeek... I got sent home since something has gone wrong in our building , they turned off the A?C again and now the building has all doors and windows open due to fumes ( polystyrene and other)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
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Monday, July 27, 2009 12:41 PM

Yikes definitely get out of there. Don't want peanut getting asphyxiated.

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Monday, July 27, 2009 2:12 PM

i second that one :P

so we've discovered Lake George is incredibly boring. :P and its monday. the rest of the fam was bored yesterday (the bf and i weren't there yet)

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Monday, July 27, 2009 2:21 PM

Went home immediately...doesn't seem to be any ill effect. HUGS Zeek. He's kicking up a storm so he seems fine:)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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Tuesday, July 28, 2009 7:40 AM

Shoulder still a bit sore. Brain still a bit sleepy. Day going slowly.

How are the rest of the ponderers?

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009 9:55 AM

Doing pretty good:)

Still with the Wii shoulder??

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009 10:56 AM

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Originally posted by MsA:
Still with the Wii shoulder??

Yep and I didn't even play any last night.

I should have some time to play tonight though. Yay frisbee golf.

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009 11:21 AM

Well be sure to stretch first and have some Icy Hot on standby... HUGS

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009 2:49 PM

BRIGLAD

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Originally posted by freelancertex:

so we've discovered Lake George is incredibly boring. :P and its monday. the rest of the fam was bored yesterday (the bf and i weren't there yet)

Go down the street a bit to the Great Escape... Spent two days at the waterpark there... coolness (Especially if it's hot out)

The rest of the amusement park is pretty good too.

Brian

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009 4:25 AM

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Originally posted by MsA:
Well be sure to stretch first and have some Icy Hot on standby... HUGS

So, I think bowling is the culprit. They have this game where they put up obstacles in the lane and you have to try to curve the ball around them. When I was playing that I was like "ow ow ow". So, I only played a couple of games of that. At least now I know what to avoid.

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009 7:30 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER

I was watching whatever morning show they have on NBC the other day and one of the hosts visited a butcher in NY. I laughed my ass of watching him try to cut flank steaks. I thought his wrist was going to snap like a twig.

So what are some of the things we don't normally do that make us regret it later?

Mine was an 1/8 mile crawl across a field last year. F situps. Try crawling 1300 feet.

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009 7:41 AM

hmmm something I regretted after... showing up to an elementary today. I was supposed to be training a teacher, but the pre kindergarten teacher had an error in sub arrangements so I spent the morning corralling 12 3 and 4 year olds... which would normally be ok, but at nearly 7 months pregnant... owie owie.

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
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Wednesday, July 29, 2009 4:00 PM

oh dear ><;; sorry to hear it MsA. you deserve a nice time of chilling out after that :\

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009 4:06 PM