Loafer's Nook - 23 skidoo and more fooding. by Jadehand

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Originally posted by seryn:
'Really nice in my head is what people say when they have no other opinion, either through lack of imagination on their part or personality on the other. I'd rather be described with any other word (with in reason!) than nice.

In his speech at his wedding, my brother paid tribute to all members of his family. His tribute to me was saying what a nice guy I was.

I could cope with that if I actually was a nice guy. I mean, I can and often am nice but a nice guy? Not really.

Someone managed to give me the perfect generic compliment that doesn't feel generic. If you have nothing else to go on, compliment their eyes. Works for nearly everyone and really works.

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 12:56 PM

we are all the sum of our scars and flaws...if you didn't have any, seryn, who would you be? we (or at least I) love you just the way you are.

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 12:57 PM

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Originally posted by LightMeDark:
I'm interested in seeing that. Are you selling? And is it region 1?

Yeah, I've got the everything Farscape boxset coming in the mail, so no need for the one's I've got. They're region 2 though.

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Originally posted by seryn:
if LMD decide not to take them, i'd be interested.

You and Elmdee (I always think of squirty cream when I hear that) can fight over them

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not that anyone here is motivated by that, but you know what i mean.

I don't know, if I thought I stood a chance, but I don't so I'll just be my mean self.

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 12:58 PM

so you know what i mean? Its just like they have no idea who you actually are.

Or just haven't bothered to actually pay attention to any of your shared experiences - Like you, i'm capable of niceness, but i'm far from a nice person I moan endlessly, bitch frequently and i have a very evil wit - i'm not a nice girl.

Seriously, your mum would hate me.

plus there that whole vague thing about nice - its bland, shallow, some one calling you nice ignores of devalues every other deeper personality trait you have.

Helen - not a fan of the word 'nice'

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:04 PM

Aw Sean! What makes you think you don't have a chance?

No, sorry, I won't tease.

Sadly, you and everyone here fell victim to the ability to turn the old hormones off and deliberatly not fancy people who i want to value more as friends.

Plus - i've already shared a room with you - the mystery is gone... *sigh*

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:11 PM

Seryn can have the dvd's...much easier for you to do it in-country anyways ;)

How do you just turn off hormones? That would be an immensely useful ability (though i tend to manage just fine)

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:12 PM

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Originally posted by seryn:
Aw Sean! What makes you think you don't have a chance?

The fact that your female and have eyes for a start. But more specifically anyone as outgoing as and makes friends as easilly as you could do far better than me. I ain't stupid like what's me teachers said.

Okay that's not saying much, but you get the sentiment.

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Plus - i've already shared a room with you - the mystery is gone... *sigh*

Heh, well it's better than the ussual (you know, "I've just had a nasty break up, and I'm totally off men": *I'm sure you won't notice me getting off with your mate*, "I'm washing my hair", *Manic laughter*, "I'm sorry I prefer Humans", "If you were the last man on Earth I'd kill myself").

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:19 PM

I honestly don't know - ever since high school, if i decided i wasn't going to fancy someone for what ever reason i just stopped.

It come in handy along side the 'no fooling with workmates or brothers of friends' rule.

Cause some of my friends have really cute brothers.

I do allow myself crushes for entertainment - like on on a guy who works in entymology - 'cept i managed to embarrase myself the other day, had a coughing fit which i'd just got over when he walked past to go for lunch, and he smiled and said hello, and i sort of, gravelly voiced, 'purred' hello back at him.

He didn't notice anything amiss, but if i ever have to talk to him again i'm going to have to talk like that the whole time, just so he doesn't think i'm a total goof.

My workmates are highly amused. They keep making funny faces when ever he goes past.

Ha ha!

LMD - if you want those dvd's you are more than welcom to them - you did call first dibs anyway!

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:27 PM

they're region 2, so i'll just wait till i can spring for some region 1 dvds...thanks, though ;D

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:29 PM

thank you!

ok, so, Sean, how much did you want for them?

Edit - actually, i'm thinking i'm going to turn in, i'll speak to you in the morning.

Love y'all!

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:33 PM

*Gives up ever again trying to build up others' self esteems.*

You all suck!

But, actually, you don't, even if sometimes/often you think you do. I luvs y'all anyway.

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I used to not like myself. It just got to the point where too much energy was required to maintain the self-loathing. The rest is easy.

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:36 PM

*sigh* Sean, stop exaggerating and being so very negative.

I'm sorry, but you've left me no choice. You have to list three POSITIVE things about your physical appearance. And make them GOOD, because if Seryn and I don't think you're trying hard enough, we'll make you do over until we're satisfied. We're very mean. (Right, Seryn?)

I will NOT allow such negative thinking on these threads. I will NOT! *stamps foot* Every one of you is a wonderful and attractive male type person who any woman with any amount of sense would be happy to be with.

Except Seryn, because she's somehow magically turned off her hormones.

And, I'm going on speculation with SR, since I've never actually seen his picture.

Sean, all you really need is just a bit of self-confidence. And, a nice, pretty, evenly spaced list.

Get to it!

Serenity,
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Bride8

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:51 PM

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Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
Every one of you is a wonderful and attractive male type person who any woman with any amount of sense would be happy to be with.

can't complain about my current position, but i must say that somewhere in the neighborhood of 99.937% of women are rather senseless according to what you've said ;p

as an aside - has anyone else been as hugely disappointed this season of Lost as I've been?

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:54 PM

I'm not exaggerating.

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:58 PM

But you don't need that 99.973%. You just need one reasonable woman.

And, stop being negative, or I'll give you homework, too!

And yes, I'm losing interest in Lost. Except: naked Des! HA!

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 2:10 PM

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Originally posted by citizen:
I'm not exaggerating.

Don't care.

Get a-listin'.

look, you can Woe-is-me, or you can buck up and get on with it. We've all been dumped and turned down and had our hearts crushed and stomped on. But that just makes us part of the human race.

If you're going to whine, we're going to try to make you feel better. Cuz we luvs ya.

So there.

Serenity,
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Thursday, October 19, 2006 2:22 PM

The one thing guys have to do that some of us find incredibly hard is to ask girls out and risk falling flat on our faces. But it has to be done and yes, we will fall flat on our faces from time to time.

People get far too concerned about their own looks but it's more about perceived desirability. If you talk to them and are convinced they will go out with you, they almost certainly will. If you act in a manner that suggests you're convinced they won't, they almost certainly won't.

There's loads of guides out there for tricks and suggestions on flirting and how to make a woman interested in you. You've just got to be prepared to have them turn you down. Which would be their loss. It doesn't matter if 9 say "no" if the tenth says "yes".

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 2:27 PM

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Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
And, stop being negative, or I'll give you homework, too!

And yes, I'm losing interest in Lost. Except: naked Des! HA!

can't help it ;p

The female unit thinks Des is good looking, too...I thought he was alright in LTDA2 with the short hair in his flashbacks, but i was rather shocked to see women saying they found him attractive.

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 2:32 PM

Yes everyone's been turned down, but everyone's been turned, erm, up, as well, except me. I'm not stupid I can evaluate evidence when it's placed before me. Everything points one way and one way only, and that's where I'm at.

I've looked at the available data without bias as much as such a thing is humanly possible, I didn't have preconcieved notions that I wanted the data to fit, I didn't and I don't want the data to tell me that no Woman is or could be interested in me, but that is the case no matter how you cut or contrive the reality.

I could take it on faith that "there's someone out there for everyone" but that doesn't fit the available data, there's plenty of people who live alone their entire lives. Where's the someone for them? What makes me so special that I should be any different to those people? And to be frank what the hell is wrong with someone that they would be 'incomplete' without me.

I could take it on faith that "I haven't met the right woman yet" but there's no reason to assume that either. I can't take it on faith when it contradicts what I see.

And as for the list, I can't think of one, let alone three things.

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 2:46 PM

You've got a full head of hair, a body in very good shape and a great smile (which works well with your laugh).

Or, to ignore the superficial, you've got a good job, you're creative and see projects through (as those CGI creations plus the work at Still Flying prove) and you're generous in times, spirit and resources with those around you. And you have a brain.

However, my guess is you're too hung up on how you think others see you (in purely aesthetic terms) so what I would suggest is you do some internet dating. It's a great way to practice flirting, courtship, making forward advances, etc, etc without the pressure of doing it face to face. Plus you might just meet someone special out there.

Just think of us as those annoying guys in Swingers, pushing Jon Favreau to Heather Graham. You are that guy with big claws and she's a helpless rabbit...

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 3:47 PM

haha, i feel inadequate next to citizen

actually, at d*c i felt rather inadequate to be in any of you fine folks' company...i've just gotten to the point where i know i can't change that, so i just trudge on and ignore it as best i can, basically not caring what others think (or at least i can fool myself into thinking that).

a lovecraft quote caught my eye the other day, something along the lines of ignorance being mans' greatest asset...i think there's more truth in that than he might have meant to convey

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Thursday, October 19, 2006 4:13 PM

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Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
I will NOT allow such negative thinking on these threads. I will NOT! *stamps foot* Every one of you is a wonderful and attractive male type person who any woman with any amount of sense would be happy to be with.

This is very true. I'm done with the negative, the self loathing should have died with my father who nurtured it within me. Him leveling a gun at me didn't help. Me looking him in the eye and walking into it did. I'm not much of a man, but I'm already more of one than he was.... forward.
Now..... where do I find these women with any amount of sense?

"But you sleep like a ghost with me
It's as simple as that
So tell me I'm mad
Roll me up and breathe me in
Come to my madness
My opium den
Come to my madness
Make sense of it again."
Goodbye to all that. III-The Opium Den (Brave)-Marillion
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Thursday, October 19, 2006 4:28 PM

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Originally posted by LightMeDark:
haha, i feel inadequate next to citizen

actually, at d*c i felt rather inadequate to be in any of you fine folks' company...i've just gotten to the point where i know i can't change that, so i just trudge on and ignore it as best i can, basically not caring what others think (or at least i can fool myself into thinking that).

a lovecraft quote caught my eye the other day, something along the lines of ignorance being mans' greatest asset...i think there's more truth in that than he might have meant to convey

Ah, so it's not just me that thought all the ladies were more interested in Sean than anyone else. Wow, if half the things he believes about himself were true, and I'm so much worse... wow.
Right, positive.
Sean, I'm a god, and obviously you're more appealing than that. It's sad that so many you've encountered left you feeling low. But in honesty, that's more a commentary on their poor quality. It doesn't bring you down. It shouldn't. Rise up with me, I've been down there for many more years than you, Trust me, I've explored the depths thoughoughly.... there's nothing down there worth your time. No matter how much you want there to be.
*points up*
See those angels up there saying nice things about you, and demanding you do the same? They know what they're talking about. Smart ladies. And they have friends.....

"But you sleep like a ghost with me
It's as simple as that
So tell me I'm mad
Roll me up and breathe me in
Come to my madness
My opium den
Come to my madness
Make sense of it again."
Goodbye to all that. III-The Opium Den (Brave)-Marillion
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Thursday, October 19, 2006 9:14 PM

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Originally posted by LightMeDark:
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Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
And, stop being negative, or I'll give you homework, too!

And yes, I'm losing interest in Lost. Except: naked Des! HA!

can't help it ;p

The female unit thinks Des is good looking, too...I thought he was alright in LTDA2 with the short hair in his flashbacks, but i was rather shocked to see women saying they found him attractive.

Ok, I find wonky noses and really thick crunchy Yorkshire accents inexplicably sexy.
Theres absolutely no rhyme nor reason to what attracts women.
Or me anyway.
Des is attractive, and the prospect of naked Des is intriguing, but when it comes to lost, i'm still all Sawyers - i just don't like the way Des speaks to people, what is it he calls everyone all the time? brother?

Sean, all that stuff about data is rubbish - 'data' bears no relevence to the total chaos that is the real world, if thats even what you are going on about.

Stuart is right - you have all those atributes, plus. Your issue is you are so hung up on the negative its all you think you have.

Honestly, ok, I'm fat, so fat that i see complete strangers sniggering about me everyday But, I also know that i'm pretty, talented, above average intelligent, funny, warm hearted and great to hang around with.
With all that, i'm not sure i give a shit that i don't conform looks wise, i'm fine as i am, and you said yourself not so long ago, that if it were an option, you'd be interested.

So how do you reason that someone who is laughed at in the street like a sideshow freak is can also be attractive enough to find someone, and yet you - like somebody said, able bodied, talented and with an apparently magnetic personality, will not?

It doesn't work like that. There's hundreds out there that will gel with you happily enough for you to bump along through life together (or, if you are that way inclined, fall madly in love with you)for however long, and you'll be perfectly happy.

Theres billions of folks on this planet, and just by being here you're giving yourself access to more of them than most people have.

oh, enough of this piffle.

Sean stop being such an arse. POSITIVE THINKING!

LMD - you don't give yourself enough credit either - you hung around on the fringes slightly because thats where you put yourself - honestly, for the first day or two i wasn't sure if you weren't a mute. You just have to get involved more.

Do what i do! blather incessently at people!

ER, actually don't do that, i'm trying to stop those tendencys.

Its not working is it? Still blathering, oh god some one stop me!

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Friday, October 20, 2006 3:23 AM

And, since we're listing Sean's positive attributes I'm going to add GREAT hair (why did you cut those lovely locks?), sexy lips and a rather nice..um..backside to the list. Not that I was looking or anything.

Stuart's right. You've got a great smile! You need to smile more often, and at more pretty girls.

The power here keeps winking. It needs to either stop, or just cut out all together so I can't do my work and can go home.

Not that I'm actually DOING any work!

Oh, and naked Des was sooooo worth it! He's lovely.

Serenity,
President of The Juggled Gosling Chatroom
Bride8

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Friday, October 20, 2006 3:48 AM

of course there's no working, all time is consumed playing with the new printer.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 3:58 AM

that isn't set up yet.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 4:04 AM

Awww. I know you're looking forward to it. I hope everything else is going well. I'm going to try to nap a bit before the second part of my work day. See you all soon.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 5:28 AM

SCORPIONREGENT

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Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:

And, I'm going on speculation with SR, since I've never actually seen his picture.

No one's seen me yet. Ha Ha! Mine is a evil laugh!

I described myself to Seryn a while back so you can ask her for a third hand description. I would be curious to hear what she made with ingredients I gave her and her imagination.

Scorpion Regent

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Friday, October 20, 2006 5:30 AM

ha ha ha!

Seryn?

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Friday, October 20, 2006 5:44 AM

SCORPIONREGENT

Well day job calls so I'll check back later. Have fun all. Ta.

Scorpion Regent

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Friday, October 20, 2006 5:54 AM

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Originally posted by seryn:
So how do you reason that someone who is laughed at in the street like a sideshow freak is can also be attractive enough to find someone, and yet you - like somebody said, able bodied, talented and with an apparently magnetic personality, will not?

This is what I meant about preconcieved ideas, it's easy:
What we know is that you have had Boyfriends and dates in the past, ergo we know you attract other people.

I have not had a girlfriend nor what in any real sense can be considered a date, everytime I've liked someone they haven't been the remotest bit interested.

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It doesn't work like that. There's hundreds out there that will gel with you happily enough for you to bump along through life together (or, if you are that way inclined, fall madly in love with you)for however long, and you'll be perfectly happy.

I guess I haven't met her yet, or perhaps the Tooth fairy hasn't made her from a spare rib or something.

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Sean stop being such an arse. POSITIVE THINKING!

It's a nice colour brown, slightly warm and doesn't smell too much, but you know what no matter how positive you think it's still shit.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 7:36 AM

I'm not arguing.

Anymore.

So there.

It doesn't matter how often you repeat it, we're still never going to believe that you are a love forsaken social pariah.

Even if you've managed to convince yourself.

And thats the last i'm going to say on the subject.

As for what SR looks like, he did describe himself when we were discussing plots for the tree - its in an email, I will hunt it down.

But it doesn't matter what he says, for some inexplicable reason he's permenatly etched in my mind as a Scruffy Clint Eastwood type, outlined in the door way.

I'd like to state here and now that i don't and have never had, any control over my brain.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 7:42 AM

It doesn't matter what anyone else believes, I know I'm right, and I'll be proven right.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 7:47 AM

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Originally posted by seryn:

I'd like to state here and now that i don't and have never had, any control over my brain.

ROFL! I know the feeling! Last night I broke my right toe... while typing. And no, I wasn't typing with my toes.

On the bright side, I now have a legitimate excuse for loafing. All is well!

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Friday, October 20, 2006 9:09 AM

Wow, that must have been some serious typing!

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Friday, October 20, 2006 9:27 AM

Even though 'twas you -- albeit indirectly -- responsible for the breakage.

Think it would help if C. broke a bone or two because of a woman?

***

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Friday, October 20, 2006 9:27 AM

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Originally posted by citizen:
It doesn't matter what anyone else believes, I know I'm right, and I'll be proven right.

Well, that would be one of them self-fulfilling prophecies. Much like Bush's prediction that they'd find lots of terrorists hostile to Americans if they invaded Iraq. Lo and behold...

But not everyone has to have a girlfriend/boyfriend. If you don't want it, that's your choice.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 9:28 AM

ow!

now i've got a picture of you with a massive plaster cast on your big toe like Wyle E Coyote.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 9:30 AM

Relationships require a lot of work. So, I can understand not wanting to undertake a relationship, given loafage.

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It all makes sense, given the appropriate perspective.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 9:35 AM

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Originally posted by cozen:

Even though 'twas you -- albeit indirectly -- responsible for the breakage.

I sometimes have that effect on men. Just be glad it was only your toe!

Get better sooner, okay?

Serenity,
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Bride8

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Friday, October 20, 2006 9:48 AM

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Originally posted by SimonWho:
But not everyone has to have a girlfriend/boyfriend. If you don't want it, that's your choice.

It's hardly my choice.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 12:52 PM

Damn, I thought I was bad.
Sean, I'm much older and still alone myself. Most of the women I've known that I was attracted to, which hasn't been many, have either laughed or given the friend speach. It wasn't right at the time. My timing is always off. Some of them are worth waiting a bit for to see if things work out, others.... not so much. And sometimes you see their perspective and accept the friend thing. I have learned that everytime something failed to work, that I learned something from it that would help me in the future. Maybe you're just not ready for a relationship right now. Maybe you have more to learn. I hope you learn it quickly. But the fact is, you don't have to be in a relationship, it's not required. However, not being in one, is NOT a negative comentary on you.
My life is too busy for a relationship right now. I'd barely be able to talk to them twice a week, let alone have time to be with them. And no woman would get overly excited about that, even if I looked like Nathan, Which... not so much. Sounds like you have a busy life too, and as much as we may want someone to share our hectic life.... *shrug*

"But you sleep like a ghost with me
It's as simple as that
So tell me I'm mad
Roll me up and breathe me in
Come to my madness
My opium den
Come to my madness
Make sense of it again."
Goodbye to all that. III-The Opium Den (Brave)-Marillion
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Friday, October 20, 2006 1:03 PM

^5 jade

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Originally posted by seryn:
I'm fat

nope ;D

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LMD - you don't give yourself enough credit either - you hung around on the fringes slightly because thats where you put yourself - honestly, for the first day or two i wasn't sure if you weren't a mute. You just have to get involved more.

eh, maybe i don't give myself enough credit, or maybe i'm afraid of giving myself more credit than i desrve...either way, i understand exactly what you're saying. I've always been something of a wallflower when it comes to such things...I need to be invited in before I feel I've the right. I never know how to act when other people are around. I always feel like I'm doing it wrongly. Also, I'm lazy ;D

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Friday, October 20, 2006 1:58 PM

2 more hours at work, then I'll get home and try to make a new nook. I'm sorry I've been a bit off the past couple of months, But I'm starting to see a little straiter now. Hope to see more of all of you soon.

"But you sleep like a ghost with me
It's as simple as that
So tell me I'm mad
Roll me up and breathe me in
Come to my madness
My opium den
Come to my madness
Make sense of it again."
Goodbye to all that. III-The Opium Den (Brave)-Marillion
visit WWW.Marillion.com for a better way of life.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 5:39 PM

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Originally posted by LightMeDark:
^5 jade

eh, maybe i don't give myself enough credit, or maybe i'm afraid of giving myself more credit than i desrve...either way, i understand exactly what you're saying. I've always been something of a wallflower when it comes to such things...I need to be invited in before I feel I've the right. I never know how to act when other people are around. I always feel like I'm doing it wrongly. Also, I'm lazy ;D

hey, I know us. We've known for far too long we were superior. Those beneath us knew it too, and tried to bring us down. There's a lot of them, and their many voices sometimes drowned out our own. and we foolishly listened. Stand up. Look down on them. Crush them beneath you where they belong. Own them.
Oh sorry, bit carried away there.... or not.

"But you sleep like a ghost with me
It's as simple as that
So tell me I'm mad
Roll me up and breathe me in
Come to my madness
My opium den
Come to my madness
Make sense of it again."
Goodbye to all that. III-The Opium Den (Brave)-Marillion
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Friday, October 20, 2006 10:02 PM

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Originally posted by Jadehand:
Damn, I thought I was bad.
Sean, I'm much older and still alone myself. Most of the women I've known that I was attracted to, which hasn't been many, have either laughed or given the friend speach.

So, most, not all right.

Just checking.

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Sounds like you have a busy life too, and as much as we may want someone to share our hectic life.... *shrug*

There is no one who would want to share my pathetic life hectic or otherwise. What I want is irrelivent.

More insane ramblings by the people who brought you beeeer milkshakes!
No one can see their reflection in running water. It is only in still water that we can see.

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Friday, October 20, 2006 10:56 PM

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Originally posted by Jadehand:
Damn, I thought I was bad.

Nope, Citizen got you beat!

I totally apologise for lecturing you a while back.

But see, look - i'm now on at Sean to stop being a Narky Knickers, so alls fair.

As for the 'i'm fat' rebuttal, LMD, don't worry, or whatever - it's not an issue, just a fact, according to all those doctor type tests i'm overwieght.

But who give a squirrals nuts? I don't like doctors (Simon excepted!) and they talk crap most of the time anyway.

And you need to stop being a wall flower! I to have all those feelings that i need to be invited before i join in - Well as of now YOU"RE ALL INVITED!!!

So we'll have no more wall hugging from anybody!

So says me, so you must all obey!

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Saturday, October 21, 2006 12:32 AM