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Wednesday, September 30, 2009 4:33 PM
NVGHOSTRIDER
Wednesday, September 30, 2009 4:34 PM
FREELANCERTEX
Wednesday, September 30, 2009 4:41 PM
DANCINGNEKO
Quote:Originally posted by nvghostrider: Smart creatures are heading south for the winter. Without Browncoat Island what are we to do?
Wednesday, September 30, 2009 4:48 PM
PEACEKEEPER
Keeping order in every verse
Quote:Originally posted by freelancertex: I hate winter. It went from southern weather to very cold over night ><;; damn new england.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009 5:49 PM
TRAVELER
Wednesday, September 30, 2009 6:20 PM
NICODEMUS
Wednesday, September 30, 2009 7:52 PM
JEWELSTAITEFAN
Thursday, October 1, 2009 3:06 AM
Quote:Originally posted by peacekeeper: Quote:Originally posted by freelancertex: I hate winter. It went from southern weather to very cold over night ><;; damn new england. flying to New York next week.I hear there is going to be snow? Peacekeeper---keeping order in every verse!!! -_ you're not funny, Peacekeeper.
Quote:Originally posted by freelancertex: I hate winter. It went from southern weather to very cold over night ><;; damn new england. flying to New York next week.I hear there is going to be snow? Peacekeeper---keeping order in every verse!!!
Thursday, October 1, 2009 4:26 AM
ZEEK
Thursday, October 1, 2009 4:51 AM
Thursday, October 1, 2009 6:27 AM
RUGBUG
Thursday, October 1, 2009 8:48 AM
MSA
Thursday, October 1, 2009 9:12 AM
Thursday, October 1, 2009 9:20 AM
Quote:Originally posted by RugBug: We went from upper 80s to lower 70s almost overnight. It was like 'it's still summer' one day and 'oh crap, it's fall' the next.
Thursday, October 1, 2009 9:46 AM
HELL'S KITTEN
Quote:Originally posted by Zeek: OK here's a ponder I'm discussing with a friend. What's the range of time where "I love you" should start to be said? Is there a "too soon", "too late" and "juuuuuuust right"?
Thursday, October 1, 2009 10:18 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Hell's Kitten: My line of thinking was this: If someone easily, quickly, and frequently falls in love, does their love mean less than someone who may only fall in love once in their life? Guess that's my analytical robot side applying supply / demand scenario to your crazy hooman emotions.
Thursday, October 1, 2009 10:29 AM
Thursday, October 1, 2009 10:31 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Zeek: Anyway, the answer I came up with is somewhere between 1 and 2 years. If you're saying "I love you" before a year of knowing someone then I say it's an illusion. If you still haven't said it after 2 years then you probably aren't in love.
Quote:Originally posted by MsA: I don't think there's a hard and fast say I love you after this period of time, but I do think you should know the person extremely well first. And by extremely well I mean you should know how they feel about who they are, how they became who they are, how they feel about their family, what they need to be content in a relationship, where they seem themselves in the future, how they handle frustration, disappointment, anger, joy, etc, and how they complement and add to you as a person.
Thursday, October 1, 2009 10:32 AM
Thursday, October 1, 2009 10:51 AM
Quote:Originally posted by RugBug: Quote:Originally posted by MsA: I don't think there's a hard and fast say I love you after this period of time, but I do think you should know the person extremely well first. And by extremely well I mean you should know how they feel about who they are, how they became who they are, how they feel about their family, what they need to be content in a relationship, where they seem themselves in the future, how they handle frustration, disappointment, anger, joy, etc, and how they complement and add to you as a person. For me, that list would be if I was going to marry someone. I think you can be in love with someone and still know that taking a crack at forever is a bad idea. Should you say you love someone even if you don't think 'forever' is a good idea? Sure.
Thursday, October 1, 2009 11:05 AM
Thursday, October 1, 2009 12:06 PM
Thursday, October 1, 2009 1:13 PM
Quote:Originally posted by Zeek: Quote:Originally posted by RugBug: Quote:Originally posted by MsA: I don't think there's a hard and fast say I love you after this period of time, but I do think you should know the person extremely well first. And by extremely well I mean you should know how they feel about who they are, how they became who they are, how they feel about their family, what they need to be content in a relationship, where they seem themselves in the future, how they handle frustration, disappointment, anger, joy, etc, and how they complement and add to you as a person. For me, that list would be if I was going to marry someone. I think you can be in love with someone and still know that taking a crack at forever is a bad idea. Should you say you love someone even if you don't think 'forever' is a good idea? Sure. I don't know. I'm with MsA on you need to know those things. Otherwise what is really the basis of that love? If I say I love someone shouldn't I love that person as a whole? Is it ok to be in love with just a sliver of a person cause that's all you know about them? To me if you don't really know the person then the love is an illusion. One thing my friend brought is up is whether it's hurtful to not say it after a certain amount of time? I thought "yes" at first but thinking it over some more then it's almost saying that a person has to say it before they're personally ready. That's not fair either. Quick Edit: originally I lumped a little too much into that "I agree with MsA" part. I don't wanna put words into her mouth.
Thursday, October 1, 2009 4:59 PM
Friday, October 2, 2009 4:36 AM
Friday, October 2, 2009 5:09 AM
RHYIANAN
Friday, October 2, 2009 5:17 AM
SOLARFLARE
Quote:Originally posted by freelancertex: so does anyone know any techniques to not be anxious?
Friday, October 2, 2009 7:44 AM
Quote:Originally posted by freelancertex: so does anyone know any techniques to not be anxious? Especially when you've had bad experiences in the past about specified event?
Friday, October 2, 2009 8:13 AM
Friday, October 2, 2009 8:45 AM
Quote:Originally posted by MsA: Best advice I ever got... Figure out what the worst possible outcome is for what's going on and decide how to deal with that. If you know you have a plan for the worst then nothing else seems as distressing. Plus once you've honestly figured out what the worst that could happen is, most times you realize it's not that bad..
Friday, October 2, 2009 8:52 AM
Quote:Originally posted by RugBug: Somehow death or serious physical injury doesn't comfort me at all. ;)
Friday, October 2, 2009 8:55 AM
Friday, October 2, 2009 11:20 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Rhyianan: but if all else fails, massive amounts of chocolate can't go amiss.
Quote:Originally posted by MsA: Figure out what the worst possible outcome is for what's going on and decide how to deal with that. If you know you have a plan for the worst then nothing else seems as distressing. Plus once you've honestly figured out what the worst that could happen is, most times you realize it's not that bad..
Sunday, October 4, 2009 2:25 AM
Sunday, October 4, 2009 3:49 AM
BRIGLAD
Quote:Originally posted by peacekeeper: Quote:Originally posted by freelancertex: I hate winter. It went from southern weather to very cold over night ><;; damn new england. flying to New York next week.I hear there is going to be snow? Peacekeeper---keeping order in every verse!!! Had snow flurries here the other day... I've seen four inches on the first Weekend of October here in Vermont before...
Sunday, October 4, 2009 12:42 PM
Monday, October 5, 2009 4:11 AM
Monday, October 5, 2009 4:20 AM
Monday, October 5, 2009 6:44 AM
Monday, October 5, 2009 7:40 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Zeek: Sounds like you two have it all worked out now though. So, at least that's good.
Monday, October 5, 2009 8:22 AM
Monday, October 5, 2009 11:12 AM
Monday, October 5, 2009 12:05 PM
Monday, October 5, 2009 1:13 PM
Monday, October 5, 2009 2:04 PM
Tuesday, October 6, 2009 2:38 AM
Tuesday, October 6, 2009 3:41 AM
Quote:Originally posted by MsA: I did an observation in a first grade music class and all the singing banging etc made the baby bee bop about happily for nearly an hour
Tuesday, October 6, 2009 4:19 AM
Tuesday, October 6, 2009 4:26 AM
Tuesday, October 6, 2009 5:07 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Zeek: *Zeek sleepy* Got up all early to go to the doctor's. Power went out 15 minutes before appointment. Flashlight needs new batteries. Combed hair by candle light. Not great. Got to hospital. Machines down from power outage. Got to wait until the power came back on. Heart is "beautiful" apparently. Got to work. Servers down from power outage. Gonna be a long day.
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