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What Are American Values These Days?

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Thursday, July 5, 2012 5:18 AM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...



The Republican strategist and the Democratic pollster reflect on which core beliefs are still central to our lives.

Republican (Mark Penn):
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My hope this July 4th is that we focus as Americans in reviving our sport values – values that have made us great and can rekindle in our optimism for the future as they have done many times before. From Jesse Owens’s victories in the 1936 Berlin Olympics to the “Miracle on Ice” in Lake Placid in 1980, great athletic events have crystalized our faith in the country.

These days, sports are marred by scandals that go far beyond cheating, and it seems that every feel-good sports moment has its nefarious counterpart. Sports have always represented American values of fair competition, community, hard work, and the American Dream. But Americans believe our values are in decline, and while this is most clearly attributed to a lack of faith in political and economic institutions, perhaps our athletic institutions best demonstrate why we as a nation have become pessimistic about our values.


Democrat (Karen Hughes):
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In a fascinating survey of American values conducted for The Atlantic/Aspen Institute, one stands out: Americans’ steadfast belief in the existence of God. Eighty-nine percent—almost nine in ten Americans – answered yes when asked the straightforward question: Do you believe in God? And while that number is down from the 96 percent who responded affirmatively to a Gallup Poll in 1944, it is by far the strongest affirmation of any value in the entire survey.

The question highlighted some partisan and generational differences, with 92 percent of Republicans, 88 percent of Democrats, 84 percent of Independents, and 81 percent of younger voters ages 18-29 answering yes. Yet no matter how you slice or dice the numbers, our shared belief in an Almighty God remains a value that unites most Americans this Fourth of July holiday—even during these pessimistic and anxious times

That core American belief in God acknowledges a higher purpose to the universe, an important recognition that our life is not just all about us. As Scripture counsels, the “fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom (Proverbs 9:10).” And the core beliefs shared by God-fearing people of many different faiths spring from that understanding: we have a moral responsibility to care for ourselves and each other; it is wrong to murder, steal, lie or commit adultery; we should honor our parents and love God and our neighbors.

Yet the survey also contains warning signs about how Americans act on our stated foundational belief. When asked what values are most important in their lives, Americans place “family values” first with 41 percent and vague “moral values” second at 31 percent, with religious values trailing in a distant third at 17 percent. Only 48 percent of Americans today say religion is “very important” in their own life, compared to 75 percent in 1952. This question shows big generational differences, with majorities of those over age 45 saying religion is “very important,” while only a third of Americans age 18-29 say religion is very important to them. And while 37 percent of Americans attend religious services almost every week, almost half—49 percent—say they do so seldom or never.

So to the Republican, sports represent American values; to the Democrat, it's belief in God. Fascinating.

I wonder how many people who believe in a god actually KNOW what their religion espouses, as opposed to choosing the things they think (or twist to believe) which go AGAINST what "god" is about? Damned few, from my observations.

I also wonder what people who supposedly believe in a god think "family values" really ARE--aside from no abortion, man-woman marriage, etc., and focusing on things like that to the exclusion of the REAL teachings of their religion?

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Thursday, July 5, 2012 12:51 PM

RIONAEIRE

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Well my opinion of American values is pretty low, since I don't feel like many people have as much values as they should these days.

I think marriage and so forth fits into moral values more in the general public's opinion, I think most people think of family values as taking care of each other, active parenting, love for one's family etc. And I'm glad that at least those things are currently valued, because family is very important.

I have Kathy Bates on speed dial, mwa ha ha ha (in exaggeratedly evil voice)

"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 5:28 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


"American values" is just another way of saying "there's a 4th of July sale at WalMart! We can load up on tons of cheap-ass shit we can't afford and don't need!"

That's your "American values". America is a nation of used car salesmen in cheap polyester suits, shilling the dream while picking your pocket and telling you how great it's all going to be.



"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero


"I've not watched the video either, or am incapable of intellectually dealing with the substance of this thread, so I'll instead act like a juvenile and claim victory..." - Rappy

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 6:19 AM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


I'm with Kwicko.

American values are like wanting to live your life as if it was a Budweiser commercial.

American values are thinking that you'll be able to afford that hot car, even tho you can't find a job.

American values are about supersizing your house, with a three-story front entrance that screams I have MONEY!!

American values are all about hustling and thievery, from the lowliest drug dealer to the corner offices of Wall Street.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 6:39 AM

ANTHONYT

Freedom is Important because People are Important


Hello,

Speaking of Wall Street, I think the movie encapsulates American values fairly well. Both with the scheming, grasping, consuming majority and the opposing minority represented by the protagonist's father.

--Anthony



Note to Self:
Raptor - woman testifying about birth control is a slut (the term fits.)
Six - Wow, isn't Niki quite the CUNT? And, yes, I spell that in all caps....
Wulf - Niki is a stupid fucking bitch who should hurry up and die.

“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.” -Thomas Szasz

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 7:33 AM

HKCAVALIER


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Originally posted by SIGNYM:
I'm with Kwicko.

American values are like wanting to live your life as if it was a Budweiser commercial.

American values are thinking that you'll be able to afford that hot car, even tho you can't find a job.

American values are about supersizing your house, with a three-story front entrance that screams I have MONEY!!

American values are all about hustling and thievery, from the lowliest drug dealer to the corner offices of Wall Street.

Jeez Signy,

Where might you fit into that continuum from drug dealer to Wall Street officer?

Most of the Americans I know are serious about working themselves to death and getting payed just enough to get by.

Most of the Americans I know would never make it into a Budweiser commercial--damn minorities (not for long...)!

Most of the Americans I know are lucky if they have a house.

Most of the Americans I know are too busy worrying about their children to give a shit about Wall Street.

I hate to say it, Signy, but you've drunk the Koolaid on this one. The media and the 1% do not define the values of America. What part of oligarchy don't you understand?

HKCavalier

Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. We don't have to be mean, because, remember, no matter where you go, there you are.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 7:38 AM

FREMDFIRMA



Sociopathic Narccism.

I prolly misspelled that, but am too tired to care.

-F

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 8:32 AM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


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Jeez Signy,
Where might you fit into that continuum from drug dealer to Wall Street officer?
Most of the Americans I know are serious about working themselves to death and getting payed just enough to get by.
Most of the Americans I know would never make it into a Budweiser commercial--damn minorities (not for long...)!
Most of the Americans I know are lucky if they have a house.
Most of the Americans I know are too busy worrying about their children to give a shit about Wall Street.
I hate to say it, Signy, but you've drunk the Koolaid on this one. The media and the 1% do not define the values of America. What part of oligarchy don't you understand?


HK, I'm fully aware that there is more than one set of values in the USA. But here's the deal: You cannot, as a society, routinely espouse one set of values and routinely REWARD another set. One or another has to give.

It used to be that Americans really could "get ahead" by working hard... or at least, achieve some level of security and comfort. But as hard as hubby and I have worked... and as hard as MOST people work nowadays.... assuming you can FIND a job... you wind up worried about your future, worried about your kids' future, watching your prospects dwindle while some get very rich. And those very rich people do NOT work hard, they swindle and cheat and get OTHER people to work hard for them. How long does that go on before people start to realize that "hard work" is not the ticket to success?

"American values" is the whip that gets the donkey to pull a cart full of PTB. Now, we have a fairly large set of people who really have drunk the koolaid (rappy) or hate themselves for not being able to stomach values they see others getting ahead on.

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America is the wealthiest nation on Earth, but its people are mainly poor, and poor Americans are urged to hate themselves. To quote the American humorist Kin Hubbard, “It ain’t no disgrace to be poor, but it might as well be.” It is in fact a crime for an American to be poor, even though America is a nation of poor. Every other nation has folk traditions of men who were poor but extremely wise and virtuous, and therefore more estimable than anyone with power and gold. No such tales are told by the American poor. They mock themselves and glorify their betters. The meanest eating or drinking establishment, owned by a man who is himself poor, is very likely to have a sign on its wall asking this cruel question: “if you’re so smart, why ain’t you rich?” There will also be an American flag no larger than a child’s hand – glued to a lollipop stick and flying from the cash register.

Americans, like human beings everywhere, believe many things that are obviously untrue. Their most destructive untruth is that it is very easy for any American to make money. They will not acknowledge how in fact hard money is to come by, and, therefore, those who have no money blame and blame and blame themselves. This inward blame has been a treasure for the rich and powerful, who have had to do less for their poor, publicly and privately, than any other ruling class since, say Napoleonic times. Many novelties have come from America. The most startling of these, a thing without precedent, is a mass of undignified poor. They do not love one another because they do not love themselves.

Kurt Vonnegut Slaughterhouse 5

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 8:42 AM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


HK... hey BTW I read your post and my response to my hubby, since I value his opinion. Curiously, he agrees with you. He also agrees with me. He says there's no contradiction.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 9:31 AM

HKCAVALIER


Hey Signy,

Yeah, there is truth in both posts. The main trouble I had was your demonizing of Americans and the implication that you are not one of "them." I really believe that the misanthropy and half-conscious nihilism on the left is our Achilles' heel and I don't know what to do about it but call it out when I see it.

HKCavalier

Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. We don't have to be mean, because, remember, no matter where you go, there you are.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 10:30 AM

AURAPTOR

America loves a winner!



" Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentation of their women "




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Saturday, July 7, 2012 11:39 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)




American values:

Duke Energy CEO To Receive $44 Million Payout Despite Resigning On His First Day

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Hours after new Duke Energy CEO Bill Johnson assumed his new position following the Duke/Progress Energy merger this week, he resigned his post. But Johnson can still qualify for up to $44.4 million for his time and effort:
Despite his short-lived tenure, Mr. Johnson will receive exit payments worth as much as $44.4 million, according to Duke. That includes $7.4 million in severance, a nearly $1.4 million cash bonus, a special lump-sum payment worth up to $1.5 million and accelerated vesting of his stock awards, according to a Duke regulatory filing Tuesday night. Mr. Johnson gets the lump-sum payment as long as he cooperates with Duke and doesn’t disparage his former employer, the filing said.
Under his exit package, Mr. Johnson also will receive approximately $30,000 to reimburse him for relocation expenses.
The Duke board voted for Johnson’s resignation, and since Johnson was eligible for severance if he quit for “good reason,” he is able to collect his $44 million. Grist calculates that Johnson’s pay package comes out to $5.5 million per hour, if he actually put in a full 8-hour day.
Johnson’s golden parachute after his one day of work is emblematic of the disconnect between worker pay and CEO pay that has occurred over the last few decades. Average CEO pay is now 380 times the pay of the average worker, and CEO pay has grown 127 times faster than worker pay over the last 30 years.



http://thinkprogress.org/economy/2012/07/06/512293/duke-energy-ceo-one
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We're supposed to accept that this guy "worked" harder than the rest of us, or is just naturally "better than" - so much so that he's worth $5.5 million per hour!




"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero


"I've not watched the video either, or am incapable of intellectually dealing with the substance of this thread, so I'll instead act like a juvenile and claim victory..." - Rappy

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 11:41 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by AURaptor:

" Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamination of their women "





So much stupid in one single post. How DOES he do it?


And how does one laminate a woman, anyway?


If you must quote Conan, who stole from Temujin, at least try to get it right.




"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero


"I've not watched the video either, or am incapable of intellectually dealing with the substance of this thread, so I'll instead act like a juvenile and claim victory..." - Rappy

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 12:21 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


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" Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamination of their women "
I imagine it sounds a little crackly and squishy at the same time. Yanno, this quote was meant as a companion to another one, which was edited out ... "No, no, no! How many times do I have to tell you.... rape, pillage, and THEN burn!"

We just love making fun of our village idiot, don't we?

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 12:33 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


HK- the problem I think comes in when using words like "American", "people", "we", "they"... very inclusive words which cover a whole lot of contradiction. Are "American" values those practiced by the 1%? Everyone else?

Almost every time people use such words, the apocryphal phrase commonly attributed to Tonto springs to mind: What mean this "we", Kimosabe?". I missed making that distinction this time.

And, as you are an intuitive person whose opinion I respect, what does society do with self-taught sociopaths like rappy?

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 12:45 PM

WISHIMAY


Quote:

Originally posted by SIGNYM:
And, as you are an intuitive person whose opinion I respect, what does society do with self-taught sociopaths like rappy?



They usually get elected

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 4:49 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by Wishimay:
Quote:

Originally posted by SIGNYM:
And, as you are an intuitive person whose opinion I respect, what does society do with self-taught sociopaths like rappy?



They usually get elected




BOOM, baby! Nice shot!

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 4:56 PM

NEWOLDBROWNCOAT


It bothers me more than a little to hear Karen Hughes, the Democrat, talk about belief in God being the same as fear of God. From my POV, that's fundamentalist, Republican talk: gotta be scared of the terrorist guy on the top of the mountain, who'll unleash lightning, earthquakes, flood, fire, and hot weather on you (and Death, War, Disease and Famine, too.) unless you follow orthodox beliefs and support the establishment church with your money and other sacrifices. Obey the church, for your own safety. Don't commit the sins of whatever WE say is bad for YOU. And that Messiah guy, the Prince of Peace, the God who Loves You, never mind about him. And never mind the parts where He talks about poverty and greed and equality and selfishness. It's OK for Mitt Romney and Ken Lay to have millions, but if you have just enough to not starve to death, by running as hard as you can, that's what God meant you to have.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 5:01 PM

HKCAVALIER


Quote:

Originally posted by SIGNYM:
And, as you are an intuitive person whose opinion I respect, what does society do with self-taught sociopaths like rappy?

So interesting that you phrase it that way! Let's pretend that what we do in our little forum lives here (micro) is connected in some way with the larger world out there (macro). Think of every reply you post to someone on this forum as a vote. We're voting for "who is important to this community." So every reply a person gets sends a message.

So, what we gotta do with sociopaths is stop voting for them. Stop legitimizing them. Just think: if we could do that on this forum, we would have soooooo much energy available for tackling the RL sociopaths of the world!

But allow me to be cynical for a moment: you won't do it. You'll continue to "entertain" yourself at the expense of the "village idiot," thus focusing your mind on gratuitous ugliness, making yourself more ugly, and contributing to the general ugliness of the world we (CHOOSE) to inhabit! Sociopaths have power in our societies because WE grant it to them! As they say in the Tea Party: starve the beast!

HKCavalier

Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. We don't have to be mean, because, remember, no matter where you go, there you are.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 5:24 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


"What would they do if they called a war and nobody came?"

IRL the sociopaths determine the conditions of our lives, unless we use the power of the majority and remove ourselves from their influence. But that means an en masse turning your back on the social structures, the expectations, the rewards, the connections around you, and creating an alternative.




SignyM: I swear, if we really knew what was being decided about us in our absence, and how hosed the government is prepared to let us be, we would string them up.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 6:30 PM

HKCAVALIER


But kiki,

Look at the microcosm here. We ARE the majority and we CAN remove ourselves from their influence in this forum. But WE do not. Because somehow y'all can't seem to ween yourselves off this structure, its expectations, its rewards, the connectedness you derive from catering to the problem. We could absolutely neutralize that problem if WE chose to. But WE, the non-sociopath members of the board, can't stop. We, as a community, are addicted to the battle.

I'm just saying that the forces keeping y'all from removing the sociopathic influence from this board are meaningfully similar to the forces that keep society from growing up and ousting the madmen claiming to run our lives. Consider it a thought experiment with some lab work.

HKCavalier

Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. We don't have to be mean, because, remember, no matter where you go, there you are.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 7:28 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


I was thinking about that. I think you're looking to people to act rationally. This will be kind of rambling b/c I'm bringing other thoughts into it and don't get to a firm conclusion ...

As I see it: IRL people are conditioned to meet the expectations of society - I would go so far as to say that the difference between a born sociopath and a normal person is that a normal person finds being excluded from society painful, whereas a sociopath doesn't. It's that lever that makes normal people conform to be included, makes them assume the beliefs of the society around them, and keeps them attached even to their detriment. Also IRL sociopaths control access to resources needed for survival (jobs, loans, housing, food, water etc.) So normal people will continue to play the game as taught them, will continue to participate in a destructive structure even if it collapses around them and takes them with it. Many many societies have collapsed and taken their people with them b/c the societies weren't rational, and the people conformed to them nevertheless. *

In sum I think that normal people don't act rationally, they act socially.

This place isn't a group based on free association. If it were based on free association there would be clusters of people interacting and excluding others. But no one can be excluded here, anyone can show up and spew willy-nilly on the interactions of others, intruding where they are not wanted.

The one thing that normal people will do with this is react socially.

What I think is ironic is that a born sociopath will not be moved either by group scorn or exclusion so neither the scorn tool as practiced by most of us nor the exclusion tool as you recommend works on a born sociopath.

BTW, I think there is that capacity in people in general to erase empathy for select groups of people, to make an 'us' and a 'them'. People will identify with their group and exclude the other groups. That's how people can be trained, or learn, to be sociopathic in certain situations.

* Societies that I've read of that survived an imminent threat to their survival caused by their beliefs seemed to have had their new values imposed by (a) ruler(s). In this society where people in general have a tool called the vote by which to determine their society, it's interesting that people here haven’t yet voted for survival.



SignyM: I swear, if we really knew what was being decided about us in our absence, and how hosed the government is prepared to let us be, we would string them up.

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Saturday, July 7, 2012 7:54 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


HK, in a crude mechanistic way, I figured that there are only two things that right-wing authoritarians like rappy respond to: (1) fear and (2) fear of exclusion from a protective group. About a year ago, I very lightly threatened him to make myself seem more powerful, then I excluded him. And he responded by trying to get into my good graces. It was an interesting and successful experiment. Isolation is a very powerful motivator in general, but especially for those who are afraid and insecure. Ignoring rappy works, in all kinds of ways, but it is not the panacea for sociopaths in general. Rappy is not a true sociopath, he is an extreme RWA who dives into the biggest baddest group he can find to assuage his never-ending fear, and is simply aping his masters in the hope of being accepted and protected by them.

In the REAL real world, true sociopaths gravitate towards supporters like rappy, just as people like rappy gravitate towards sociopaths. True sociopaths will use criminals, soldiers, police and other violent means of control, and those kinds of people can't be ignored away.

But, in the interest of practicing restraint and making the forum a nicer place, I'll go back to ignoring rappy.



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Sunday, July 8, 2012 1:01 AM

AURAPTOR

America loves a winner!


Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
Quote:

Originally posted by AURaptor:

" Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamination of their women "





So much stupid in one single post. How DOES he do it?


And how does one laminate a woman, anyway?


If you must quote Conan, who stole from Temujin, at least try to get it right.




1 tiny error ( fixed, btw ) is " so much stupid " ? Haha, lighten up, Francis. You knew what was meant. You're just miffed you didn't think of it your own self.


" We're all just folk. " - Mal

" AU, that was great, LOL!! " - Chrisisall

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Sunday, July 8, 2012 2:52 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by AURaptor:
Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
Quote:

Originally posted by AURaptor:

" Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamination of their women "





So much stupid in one single post. How DOES he do it?


And how does one laminate a woman, anyway?


If you must quote Conan, who stole from Temujin, at least try to get it right.




1 tiny error ( fixed, btw ) is " so much stupid " ? Haha, lighten up, Francis. You knew what was meant. You're just miffed you didn't think of it your own self.





Miffed? Sorry, but when I think of "America" and "values", my mind doesn't jump straight to raping all the women. Yours apparently does.

Is this your way of telling us the GOP is finally coming out and endorsing rape as a "family value"?


THAT was why your thread was so chock-full-o-stupid. The laminating of the women was just silly, but it cracks me up that you've lived this many years thinking that's what he said. What was the visual like in your mind?



"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero


"I've not watched the video either, or am incapable of intellectually dealing with the substance of this thread, so I'll instead act like a juvenile and claim victory..." - Rappy

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Sunday, July 8, 2012 5:16 AM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


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Miffed? Sorry, but when I think of "America" and "values", my mind doesn't jump straight to raping all the women. Yours apparently does.
And rappy thinks GOP isn't engaging in a war on women? His kind of thinking belongs with the Taliban.

Video: Taliban shoot woman 9 times in public execution as men cheer
www.cnn.com/2012/07/08/world/asia/afghanistan-public-execution/index.h
tml?hpt=hp_t2


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Sunday, July 8, 2012 5:27 AM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


NIKI: I find it disheartening to see that a Republican touts one kind of value (sports) while a Democrat touts an equally misguided and shallow value (belief in god). I doubt that either one of the named politicians actually BELIEVES in their so-called values. But in playing to the crowd, they're grabbing at what they consider to be the most common identities which bind americans together. It's a sad commentary that those identities are so shallow and vapid, and have in large part caused the mess that we're in.

To me, it doesn't matter whether you really "understand" your religion or not... there is nothing to "understand", merely to believe and to follow. The one thing that all religions have in common? DON'T ASK QUESTIONS, JUST FOLLOW.

And as for sports.... well, it's "my team rah rah rah". Another equally passionate exercise in followership.

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Sunday, July 8, 2012 5:51 AM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


Sig, thank you. I stayed out of this thread because nobody seemed to get that, the thread went off on some tangent with nobody catching on to what I was trying to show. At the same time, it was amusing to me that the Republican said "sports" and it was the DEMOCRAT who said "god". I found that very strange, on both sides. Nonetheless, I'm sure you're right as to why they said what they did...tho' I would find that more logical if the Republican had said "family values" or religion, which is what plays to their base the best.

Just struck me as strange that this was how they both defined "values". I'm glad someone caught on in the end.


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Sunday, July 8, 2012 8:35 AM

6IXSTRINGJACK


Quote:

Originally posted by ANTHONYT:
Hello,

Speaking of Wall Street, I think the movie encapsulates American values fairly well. Both with the scheming, grasping, consuming majority and the opposing minority represented by the protagonist's father.

--Anthony



Although a large part of me agrees with Anthony about this, I'd push further and urge you to watch Donnie Darko, if you haven't yet.

If you have, watch it again....

and if it still hasn't struck home, watch it again and again....





I love you all, for real.....

But we all die alone......


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Sunday, July 8, 2012 10:04 AM

FREMDFIRMA


Quote:

Originally posted by HKCavalier:
So, what we gotta do with sociopaths is stop voting for them. Stop legitimizing them. Just think: if we could do that on this forum, we would have soooooo much energy available for tackling the RL sociopaths of the world!


Ain't that easy.

Sure, stop takin their orders, which is all well and good - but don't for a moment forget that they're ALREADY in charge of this world, and most folk are well and truly stuck deep in the web of debt servitude and indoctrination long before they develop suffient will, force of personality and creative thinking to even question it, much less stand against it.
That's one reason I am so desperate to reform public education, cause so much of it is shilling the status quo and thus delaying the childs realization that no, they DON'T have to play along... until they're stuck so deep in it already the only choice they got left is TO play along, the trap sprung, the hooks in deep, before they even realize it's a trap.

Of course, one can break out, but it always costs you something, and as the bastards of this world have gotten better at it, as scumbags who malevolently CHOOSE the path of malice for their own reasons enable them and cheer them on, as those who would not believe throw monkey wrenches into the works, not many are willing to pay the heavy price that is gonna cost, being socially outcast, despised by much of society, unwanted, unwelcome, and watching from the outside of a world they have no place in, and yet due to human empathy no matter how vile that world is, being alone in the dark isn't very pleasant either, and so they blind themselves to what really is, pretend it ain't so, hold their nose and swallow the koolaid, cause what else is there ?

And if there WAS a public alternative, the bastards of the world would attack it with all their power, since it's mere EXISTENCE would be a threat to all they are, to all they say, to their assertion that things simply cannot work any other way - and you'd have to solve that problem too.

Ergo my role is mostly influencing those who still have a chance to slip through the cracks of the empathy destroying meatgrinder of our system, but even that has its issues since people with empathy are more badly damaged by the exclusion that follows, and so a lot of the ones who do manage it are emotionally stunted, very ruthless bastards of a different sort, who really don't have much in the way of life goals save for spitting in the eye of the system, dumping sand in its gears hoping against hope to some day break it enough to give folks an alternative they never really had.
And mind you, a lot of em hate me in a way, for breaking the precious ignorance within which they were happy.
But they hate the other guys more.

-Frem

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Sunday, July 8, 2012 10:27 AM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


"And if there WAS a public alternative, the bastards of the world would attack it with all their power, since it's mere EXISTENCE would be a threat to all they are, to all they say, to their assertion that things simply cannot work any other way - and you'd have to solve that problem too."

And yet, have we really, really tried the vote in the last 4 decades or so? In our haste to be cynical, let's not throw it away.

I think there's reason why republicans are so desperate to disenfranchise so many (and doing a good job at it too, btw). It's b/c they need to maintain the appearance of legitimacy through the vote.

There are many potential tools. But first and foremost, there is the vote. It's a tool already in our hands. We need to use it.




SignyM: I swear, if we really knew what was being decided about us in our absence, and how hosed the government is prepared to let us be, we would string them up.

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Sunday, July 8, 2012 5:26 PM

FREMDFIRMA



A lot of folk are Kiki, despite low confidence in it.

My concern on that front, besides chicanery and disenfranchisement en-masse, is also that by law, they're not bound by the results of those votes (See also: Victor L Berger, Unseated Members of Congress) and I worry they may eventually fall back on that - but at the very least it would expose the fraud for what it is.

Anyhows, doin one thing doesn't preclude the other, and attacking multiple fronts is always a viable tactic.

-F

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Monday, July 9, 2012 1:28 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Who on earth thinks Karen Hughes is a Democrat? She's a Dubya crony, and worked for GOP candidates all the way back to 1984, at least.



"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero


"I've not watched the video either, or am incapable of intellectually dealing with the substance of this thread, so I'll instead act like a juvenile and claim victory..." - Rappy

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Monday, July 9, 2012 2:38 AM

NEWOLDBROWNCOAT


Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
Who on earth thinks Karen Hughes is a Democrat? She's a Dubya crony, and worked for GOP candidates all the way back to 1984, at least.



Damn, Kwik, you're right- I just checked her bio on Wikipedia. I had never heard of her, so I accepted Niki's source; and, I have to admit, Niki.

But I get half-credit: see my post above where I said that her attitude on God sounded like Republican fundamentalism.

Niki, I should have asked-- I went back to your original post, there was no source for the 2 quotes-- where did you get 'em?

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Monday, July 9, 2012 6:47 AM

CAVETROLL


Quote:

Originally posted by SIGNYM:
I imagine it sounds a little crackly and squishy at the same time. Yanno, this quote was meant as a companion to another one, which was edited out ... "No, no, no! How many times do I have to tell you.... rape, pillage, and THEN burn!"




Total rookie mistake. Pillage, burn and THEN rape. 'Cause it's sexier by firelight. /wiseass


Kwindbago, hot air and angry electrons

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Monday, July 9, 2012 7:35 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by NewOldBrownCoat:
Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
Who on earth thinks Karen Hughes is a Democrat? She's a Dubya crony, and worked for GOP candidates all the way back to 1984, at least.



Damn, Kwik, you're right- I just checked her bio on Wikipedia. I had never heard of her, so I accepted Niki's source; and, I have to admit, Niki.

But I get half-credit: see my post above where I said that her attitude on God sounded like Republican fundamentalism.

Niki, I should have asked-- I went back to your original post, there was no source for the 2 quotes-- where did you get 'em?




I have an unfair advantage, in that that twit Hughes lives here in my fair town, and they trot her out on the dog-n-pony show - er, I mean the "news" - every few months for her "in-depth" analysis.



"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero


"I've not watched the video either, or am incapable of intellectually dealing with the substance of this thread, so I'll instead act like a juvenile and claim victory..." - Rappy

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Monday, July 9, 2012 7:37 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:

Originally posted by CaveTroll:
Quote:

Originally posted by SIGNYM:
I imagine it sounds a little crackly and squishy at the same time. Yanno, this quote was meant as a companion to another one, which was edited out ... "No, no, no! How many times do I have to tell you.... rape, pillage, and THEN burn!"




Total rookie mistake. Pillage, burn and THEN rape. 'Cause it's sexier by firelight. /wiseass




Seems more and more teabaglicans are supporting rape as an American value. No wonder they want to redefine it in the law and make it easier to get away with raping women - guess that's the only way these fuckwits can get their rocks off!



"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero


"I've not watched the video either, or am incapable of intellectually dealing with the substance of this thread, so I'll instead act like a juvenile and claim victory..." - Rappy

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Monday, July 9, 2012 7:57 AM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


Apologies, NewOld: It came from http://ideas.time.com/2012/07/04/what-are-american-values-these-days-2/ . Surprised me too that the supposed Democrat talked about God--I think I might have mentioned that, that it seemed more a Republican stance than a Democrat one. So I guess the whole thing is a put-up job that way; I know nothing of Hughes and the article just caught my eye because of the title. My bad for forgetting the link; I'm tending to forget sometimes when it's just an obvious quote or something short, but I should have posted it for that one. Anyway, it came from Time.

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Monday, July 9, 2012 8:04 AM

NEWOLDBROWNCOAT


Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:

I have an unfair advantage, in that that twit Hughes lives here in my fair town, and they trot her out on the dog-n-pony show - er, I mean the "news" - every few months for her "in-depth" analysis.




Aha! Just the thing in a discussion of true American values-- an unfair advantage. Isn't that the greatest American value and tradition of 'em all?

Other than that, I'm sorry about your neighbor. Does she bring down property values much?

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Monday, July 9, 2012 8:07 AM

NEWOLDBROWNCOAT


Quote:

Originally posted by Niki2:
Apologies, NewOld: It came from http://ideas.time.com/2012/07/04/what-are-american-values-these-days-2/ . Surprised me too that the supposed Democrat talked about God--I think I might have mentioned that, that it seemed more a Republican stance than a Democrat one. So I guess the whole thing is a put-up job that way; I know nothing of Hughes and the article just caught my eye because of the title. My bad for forgetting the link; I'm tending to forget sometimes when it's just an obvious quote or something short, but I should have posted it for that one. Anyway, it came from Time.



No problem, hon. Just wanted to check the source, see whether you called her a Demo, or they did. I could tell the whole thing was a quote, that's OK. Just wanted to know where from.

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Monday, July 9, 2012 8:17 AM

NEWOLDBROWNCOAT


Aha, again. I just looked at the piece in Time. Mark Penn is Karen Hughes' boss. They both work for the same ad agency. And they're listed as joint authors of the article. Don't quite see how they can characterize themselves as one Republican and one Democrat, which THEY did in the header of the article. Maybe at least one is a "____" in name only, and they're registered in the opposite parties. Oughtta make 'em "fair and balanced", shouldn't it? In the FauxNews sense of the term, at least.

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Monday, July 9, 2012 11:37 AM

AURAPTOR

America loves a winner!


Quote:

Originally posted by SIGNYM:
Quote:

Miffed? Sorry, but when I think of "America" and "values", my mind doesn't jump straight to raping all the women. Yours apparently does.
And rappy thinks GOP isn't engaging in a war on women? His kind of thinking belongs with the Taliban.

Video: Taliban shoot woman 9 times in public execution as men cheer
www.cnn.com/2012/07/08/world/asia/afghanistan-public-execution/index.h
tml?hpt=hp_t2




Humor and sarcasm haven't made it to your little village, huh?

Look for 'em. You'll laugh.

And Kwickie ? No where did Conan's quote mention anything about 'raping' the women. I was JOKING, of course, but YOU went right to interjecting to that which wasn't there.

Good to know what's on YOUR mind.


You're such a boob
" We're all just folk. " - Mal

" AU, that was great, LOL!! " - Chrisisall

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Monday, July 9, 2012 1:04 PM

NIKI2

Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...


Thanx NewOld; yeah, that's why I thought they represented the two parties, but I didn't read closely enough to see what you did. Essentially, in my opinion, that makes the entire thread null and void. I'll try to be more careful in future.

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Monday, July 9, 2012 2:17 PM

NEWOLDBROWNCOAT


Quote:

Originally posted by Niki2:
Thanx NewOld; yeah, that's why I thought they represented the two parties, but I didn't read closely enough to see what you did. Essentially, in my opinion, that makes the entire thread null and void. I'll try to be more careful in future.



Whatever inspired your post, this topic is a good idea, something worthwhile to discuss.

I haven't actually contributed to the real topic of the thread: I'd like to think that " truth, Justice" ( and the American way ? ) are still real American values held and acted upon by the vast majority of the American people, along with fairness, honesty, decency, and smarts. Equality not quite so much. Equal opportunity an aspiration, not quite delivered even for white folks. Sadly, I think that a classless society was once a goal, but society has declined into a priveleged class, favored because of money and power, versus every body else. I think we were once closer to that goal, but we've turned our backs on it.

Silly me, a 60 year old, naive, mentally and emotionally 18 year old idealist. Kinda sad...

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Monday, July 9, 2012 2:48 PM

HKCAVALIER


Quote:

Originally posted by FREMDFIRMA:
Quote:

Originally posted by HKCavalier:
So, what we gotta do with sociopaths is stop voting for them. Stop legitimizing them. Just think: if we could do that on this forum, we would have soooooo much energy available for tackling the RL sociopaths of the world!


Ain't that easy.

Whoever said it was easy?

I'm talking about integration. I'm talking about not fighting fire with fire. I'm talking about discipline and forbearance. This game of tit for tat of "baiting the village idiot" with its attendant emotional violence and pervasive contempt is a playground for everyone's inner-sociopath. I'm saying find the reason why that is an unacceptable way to live and live differently--here on the internet, in your personal life, in your work life, everywhere. Be who you are, show some self-respect, and respect other people fundamentally and not just when they behave according to your likes.

It should be easy enough not to feed the trolls, but somehow, y'all keep afeedin' 'em. I'm asking y'all to look inside and interrogate your reasons for continuing the insults and the one-upmanship and the demonization and maybe discover that you don't have sufficient reason to keep it going and maybe ya oughta live differently. Easy? If you say so!

I'm saying that if folk change their behavior here, in the safety of cyberspace, it may give 'em insight into how to change the real world.

Yes, to change the larger world, child-rearing practices must change. You and I know this. But before they can change, we need to change ourselves. We need to create and nurture a counter culture of mutual respect and respect for all living things, including children. There are children watching us all the time--that's what they do, that's how they grow into adult humans. If they see us acting like animals on a public forum or see us enjoying the pain of a total stranger on the internet, they learn a lesson I know you, Frem, for one, do not wish to teach. You may sequester yourself when you go surfing here, but there are children, and impressionable adults, reading these words I'm typing right now. The community of human beings is innescapable.

Yes, those of us in the vanguard pay a huge price for it, socially, financially, but that's what all pioneers in a new world do. We have to lead the way and that ain't ever easy.

HKCavalier

Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. We don't have to be mean, because, remember, no matter where you go, there you are.

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Monday, July 9, 2012 4:27 PM

FREMDFIRMA


*blink*
Erm, Cav ?
How much attention you been payin, ehe ?

Cause if ya WERE payin close attention, you mighta noticed you happen to be preaching to the one person you don't need to about this, around here.

-F

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