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Friday, October 26, 2012 8:52 AM
NIKI2
Gettin' old, but still a hippie at heart...
Quote:Which kinda sucks, because I had hoped to engage in some mature, lively and civil discussions over real world matters. But too many here now have openly stated their intent here is nothing but to mock, poke fun and illicit any sort of response, rather than deal in sincere exchange of ideas. As other's have parted ways from this forum, I too think it may be wise to do the same. The repetitive incidents by some of expanding on misleading and false minutia has left its toll. Whether by design or merely a display of colossal ignorance by some, does not matter. You sad little kings who remain enjoy your sad, pathetic little hill.
Quote:I have a simple solution which I've proposed several times, and I'm gonna re-propose it. Where rational discussion doesn't work... IGNORE THE OTHER POSTER. People come to the board for all kinds of reasons, not just to converse. Some peeps, like Whozit, simply come to stir things up. They LOVE to poke the ant-hill and watch the flurry. Some - like rappy - come for their fix. Some people come to proselytize. Nothing stop bad behavior like LACK OF REWARD. If you simply do not provide peeps the response they're looking for they will either learn to interact differently or they will go away. Meanwhile, the discussion hasn't been derailed fruitlessly into ad hominem. Tit for tat got us where we are today. Tit for tat doesn't work if the person you're dealing with can't see the mote in his own eye... he just winds up feeling "picked on" and victimized. {Emphasis Niki's} So... can we all agree that most of us have to be grownups, and hold ourselves to a HIGHER standard than the one we're responding to?
Friday, October 26, 2012 8:57 AM
Quote:What I meant was simply that if AuRaptor is leaving RWED, that we let those initial impulses that apparently originated with him to leave with him also. If he decides to return, then I'd urge him to make a fresh start of things as well, trust me. But that can only be done if people are willing to forgive and forget, and that goes for him as well. I'm not arguing that only AURaptor or Oppyh or myself or only Conservatives should be left alone in regards to anything we may post that has merit. That goes for anyone - Conservative/Republican, Liberal/Democrat, Libertarian, Christian, Atheist, etc. If anyone posts anything of merit, it should be given the thoughtful consideration and the chance for civilized discussion. I'm trying to make generalized statements in order to get some agreement on how we should behave even if it means a vow to make a fresh start of things.
Friday, October 26, 2012 10:07 AM
BIGDAMNNOBODY
Friday, October 26, 2012 10:30 AM
JONGSSTRAW
Friday, October 26, 2012 10:47 AM
SIGNYM
I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.
Friday, October 26, 2012 10:55 AM
Quote:Originally posted by SIGNYM: Oh yeah, that was me. I had temporarily changed my email address and when I tried to create an account under my old name it told me the name was already taken, or some such.
Friday, October 26, 2012 11:46 AM
Quote:You do realize that there are both SignyM and Jkiddo posts in the very thread referenced right?
Quote:I did, but under a different login, so the header name was jkiddo and the answer was "freedom". Not meaning to be confusing but I'm changing my emailer and the system won't let me use "someone else's" (ie my) name.
Friday, October 26, 2012 12:05 PM
BYTEMITE
Friday, October 26, 2012 12:28 PM
FREMDFIRMA
Friday, October 26, 2012 12:45 PM
Quote: the idea of ignoring ridiculous posts only works if nearly everyone participates
Quote: to assert that minds haven't changed, that no ones position ever budges is, I think, a wee bit less than true
Friday, October 26, 2012 2:39 PM
Quote:The funny thing is, one post after saying "maybe I'll go back to it anyway", you lit into Nobody. As Jong said, "there be monsters"...
Monday, October 29, 2012 2:51 PM
RIONAEIRE
Beir bua agus beannacht
Monday, October 29, 2012 3:07 PM
MAGONSDAUGHTER
Quote:Originally posted by SIGNYM: Anyway, the idea of ignoring ridiculous posts only works if nearly everyone participates. Since nobody else felt like trying that strategy, I gave up on it. But maybe I'll go back to it anyway... not waste my time and everyone else's. Good reason to ignore the Is it Racist thread.
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