I said I wouldn't do this...(Not Firefly related) by QuietSerenity

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I said I wouldn't do this...(Not Firefly related)

POSTED BY: QUIETSERENITY
UPDATED: Wednesday, August 23, 2006 15:37
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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:35 AM

But I just found out that my Mom has a tumor, and I'm feeling a little lost. I said I wouldn't think about it, but I just broke a dish and burned my hand pulling dinner out of the oven, so I'm obviously thinking about it.

I didn't want to bring it up to anyone, but I'm upset and you guys are always so supportive, so here I am.

That's all.

Mal: You know, you ain't quite right.
River: It's a popular theory.

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:39 AM

YINYANG

You were busy trying to get yourself lit on fire. It happens.

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:47 AM

SHINY

I'm so sorry QS! Just know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Browncoats got yer back!

{{{ QS }}}

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:47 AM

FUTUREMRSFILLION

Quiet

NOT thinking about it doesn't help - just don't dwell. Find out all the info you can, so you feel informed.

Hug your mom and have hope

There are plenty of hugs here for you!

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:49 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER

It is Browncoat related so don't fret. I just wish there was more we could do for folks in need.
Guess I'll shut up because you may need to vent rather than listen. That our job.

Hugs

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 12:10 PM

WASHSYOUNGERSEXIERBR

Inter Arma Enim Silent Leges

When My grandma got diagnosed i found it really helped just being there with my family.

Dont try to ignore it cos itll just build up. Let it out a little at a time.

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 12:21 PM

BETHERS0921

Aww sweetie, I'm really sorry to hear that. I'm not going to tell you that I know how you feel because I don't. But I might have some sort of an idea. My mom had breast cancer a while back, and it's hard. But just know that all of us are here for ya. And if you ever need anything (like an ear to listen or cookies or something) my AIM is the same as my username on here. Don't hesitate! I make some pretty sweet ass chocolate chip cookies. :-)

-Beth

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 12:22 PM

FOLLOWMAL

Quiet,

You are a member of this family.. we're here for you to share troubles with. That's what families do.

Please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers and that we're here for you anytime you want to talk or you just want a hug.

FMF is right. When my Dad had his stroke it helped me to cope with what was happening when I was fully informed about what he was going thru.
Stay close to your Mom and give her lots of hugs and look for ways to move forward to help her get better.

And rely on us any time you need us. We'll be here. This ship is your home.

{{{{QuietSerenity}}}}

"You hold. Hold 'til I get back." Mal

http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=19&t=22697

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 1:18 PM

LITTLEALBATROSS29

I know we've never crossed paths,but we're both Browncoats,so I just had to lend some support.
My Mom has been sick all my life & I know it's not an easy thing to cope with.Stay strong, fly true,and remember to laugh, it helps alot.

Best of luck to you & yours.
And remember ,if you can't walk you crawl,and if you can't crawl...well you know the rest.

Bryce

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I swallowed a bug.

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 1:42 PM

HIEI

I know how you feel doctors found a tumor in my mom too. Just spend time with family, research, and don't dwell or obecess like most people do. It's been said befor but we're all browncoats here we're all family.

"A man of honor, in a den of theives

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 1:48 PM

CYBERSNARK

*hugs*

What everybody else said. Keep informed, keep involved, stay near to your mom. Sometimes all we can do to help is to hold someone's hand. Sometimes that's enough.

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We applied the cortical electrodes but were unable to get a neural reaction from either patient.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 12:29 AM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 12:36 AM

DESKTOPHIPPIE

You're in my thoughts. Stay stong, warrior woman.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 1:10 AM

CHEWIE

I'm very very sorry dear. Your in my thoughts and I'll light a candle for you.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:13 AM

MAVOURNEEN

Cancer stinks. It really does. My thoughts are with you now.
As far as not being Firefly related, FollowMal said it best. You are part of the family and that's what we're here for!
Get informed, ask the questions that need to be asked.

"Have you ever been with a Warrior Woman?"

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:21 AM

DEEPGIRL187

I'm very sorry to hear about your mother. Hearing a realtive is sick, especially with cancer, can be very hard to deal with. But never be afraid to look for support here. We're your family, and family is always there for each other.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:37 AM

AURAPTOR

America loves a winner!

Quote:
Originally posted by QuietSerenity:
But I just found out that my Mom has a tumor, and I'm feeling a little lost. I said I wouldn't think about it, but I just broke a dish and burned my hand pulling dinner out of the oven, so I'm obviously thinking about it.

I didn't want to bring it up to anyone, but I'm upset and you guys are always so supportive, so here I am.

That's all.

Mal: You know, you ain't quite right.
River: It's a popular theory.

Been there. Know the feelin'.

You hold. YOU HOLD!

People love a happy ending. So every episode, I will explain once again that I don't like people. And then Mal will shoot someone. Someone we like. And their puppy. - Joss

" They don't like it when you shoot at 'em. I worked that out myself. "

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:42 AM

TRISTAN

We are here for you, if nothing else but to talk...I hope that helps!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:12 AM

BROWNCOAT1

May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one.

QuietSerenity,

I know exactly how you feel.

You see, my wife has breast cancer. We have been battling it for years. We have been through the surgeries, the treatments, the waiting, the praying, all of it. We don't let it ruin our lives or control us though.

My wife still leads a very full life and she is a survivor. When she was diagnosed we educated ourselves on her condition, what we could expect, the treatments, options, and what we could do to help alleviate the condition. We decided to take control, not let it control us.

This is what you and your mother need to do. Control the situation, don't let it control you. Educate yourself and meet it head on. Trying to not think about it will only wind up causing more problems down the road.

We're all here for you. You have the prayers and well wishes of us all.

Keep flyin'!

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"May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one."

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:18 AM

FUTUREMRSFILLION

Bumping

Sending more hugs to the you!

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I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:30 AM

DARKFLY

I’m sorry to hear it,your be in my thoughs.Don’t ever say that this isn’t related to Firefly cause we’re Browncoats & Browncoats are family so that means your family is our family.

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Things are about to get interesting...Define interesting...Oh GOD oh GOD we're all going to die.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:14 AM

QUIETSERENITY

Thank you so much for all of your kind words and support. They helped more than I can say.

I took your advice and did some research, and Mom wants me to go with her to her next doctor's appointment. I was too upset to say yesterday, but I'm really very upset about how she found out..

She had called the Doctor's office for some follow-up, and the nurse said:

"Oh, you just had a baby!"
"No..."
"Oh, you're pregnant!"
"No...did you even look at my chart? Go get it and read it to me."
"Okay, everything here looks good, oh, your tumor is 6-7 centimeters, so you'll just have to call back and see what the doctor wants you to do."

At which point, my mom is sitting there at work going "Tumor? What tumor?" All the nurse said was "Sorry," and then hung up.

Thankfully my mom, sister and I all live here in the same town, so we see each other often. I'll keep you updated, and thank you again, so much.

Mal: You know, you ain't quite right.
River: It's a popular theory.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:24 AM

CHRISISALL

Be positive. A positive approach to any sickness enhances the immune system, and increases the liklyhood of a desired outcome.
Try to keep laughter in you family, especially now.

For what it's worth, my thoughts are with ya.

Chrisisall

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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:28 AM

MAGDALENA

"No power in the 'verse can stop me!"

Hi Quiet Serenity

I have had a very difficult day and wasn't even going to make it on to the computer at all... (it's 1.20am here) but despite my common sense telling me to get to bed I knew I had to touch base with my Browncoat family - I always feel better after spending a bit of time here - and here you are needing us as much as we need you!

Everything that's been said goes doubly for me - be strong! Take time to adjust! Inform yourself!
And as was said...sometimes - You just HOLD! I am so glad your Mum and sister live close by.

I am sending my love and hugs {{QS}} from Australia & keeping you all in my prayers!

I hope you know to come here, on the boat, anytime you need your Shiney Family! We love you for who you are and what you bring here too!

Love and strength - Magdalena x x x

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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:39 AM

LOSTDOG

That's terrible news. So very sorry. We are here if you need to talk about whatever. I know it has got to be hard for you to think straight right now. Hang in there.

"Love. Can know all the math in the 'verse but take a boat in the air that you don't love? She'll shake you off just as sure as a turn in the worlds. Love keeps her in the air when she oughtta fall down.....tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home."

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Friday, August 18, 2006 8:20 AM

CYBERSNARK

Quote:
Originally posted by QuietSerenity:
She had called the Doctor's office for some follow-up, and the nurse said:

"Oh, you just had a baby!"
"No..."
"Oh, you're pregnant!"
"No...did you even look at my chart? Go get it and read it to me."
"Okay, everything here looks good, oh, your tumor is 6-7 centimeters, so you'll just have to call back and see what the doctor wants you to do."

At which point, my mom is sitting there at work going "Tumor? What tumor?" All the nurse said was "Sorry," and then hung up.

Oh, wo de tien ah.

Does this remind anyone of the doctor Simon "helped" in Ariel? Just unbelievable.

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We applied the cortical electrodes but were unable to get a neural reaction from either patient.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 8:48 AM

ARCADIA

I know we don't really talk much on the boards, but (((hugs))).

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Friday, August 18, 2006 8:52 AM

WHIMSICALNBRAINPAN

Well I'm glad you did do it QuietSerenity. I know from personal experience that the Browncoats on this site are supportive and love to reach out with words of encouragement. You have our love and support. I will say a prayer for you and your Mom.

Hugs and

es

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Friday, August 18, 2006 9:44 AM

KURYA

Hi there.
Dont know you at all, but just want to send some postive thoughts yours and your moms way. Big hugs too! Browncoats are family, and we are all here to support you, if not in person, at least in spirit!
All the love.
Prakash

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Friday, August 18, 2006 10:19 AM

KELKHIL

I have not as of yet crossed paths with you but I wanted to give you my support as well.

Everyone has said pretty much what I have to say...

Get informed, Laughter does help. The human body can do supernatural things when it has too but not if you give up.

Hoping for the best for you and yours.

(((QS)))

Kelkhil

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Friday, August 18, 2006 10:35 AM

STILLSHINY

Thoughts & prayers.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 10:38 AM

EMBERS

I hope you, and your Mom, are doing okay.
My thoughts and prayers are with you....
I hope you can keep a positive attitude because that will help to support your Mom.
*hugs*

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:49 PM

TRAVELER

It's good to talk. Follow FutureMrsFillion's advice. What ever your interests are keep busy. Bake a thousand brownies or repair that closet door that squeaks. Busy hands help. And type. You have a thread here. Talk about anything you want.

With Love;

From a fellow browncoat.

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