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Are You A Sociopath?
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 5:42 AM
ANTHONYT
Freedom is Important because People are Important
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 5:59 AM
BYTEMITE
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 6:09 AM
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 6:14 AM
Quote:...That's chaotic stupid, not chaotic evil. You guys have a phenomenally underdeveloped idea of sociopathy. I mean, damn, that's almost offensively stereotypical. Hey, I'm a sociopath so I'll just randomly murder people I know. Really? Come on. Anyway, I'm going to move this over to your thread because it serves my purposes better.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 6:28 AM
Quote:I don't understand your objection. You can receive material benefit with zero chance of consequence or reprisal. Why is that stupid?
Quote:All you have to do is kill someone you can't form substantive emotional connections to anyway.
Quote:Why shun material benefit?
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 6:40 AM
Quote:Because it's not realistic. You couldn't even a propose a situation where that would even be applicable. This is like that "what would you do if you were invisible" argument.
Quote:Maybe I just have other interests besides murdering people and more useful things to do with my time. Seriously, I strike that question. It's gone from the record now. This isn't a valid determination of sociopathy.
Quote:When have I ever particularly expressed any interest in the material? Don't care about money, fashion, or clothes, and I'm pathologically stingy with money - which is a concept I don't even really understand. It's just not a temptation for me.
Quote:Look, how I try to make myself feel normal by faking emotional connections through an elaborate series of obligations I place upon myself is none of anyone's business.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 6:53 AM
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 7:13 AM
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: ...This stopped being fun. You want to have a go at me? You want to question my commitment to being an asshole? My recognition that I'm different from people? Tell me what I think and feel like you know so much better? Whatever. Who the hell are you, even? What are you to me? You're just a bunch of text on an internet discussion board.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 7:24 AM
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 7:31 AM
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Like you know what it's like to be a sociopath. You just know what pop culture tells you it's like. You didn't even look at my carefully prepared list and notice all positive hits there. Basically all you just did was piss me off and tell me I'm wasting my time talking to you because you don't get it. You're focusing on one TINY unimportant sliver in the scheme of the whole pie. Being a sociopath does NOT mean just murdering someone the moment you think it might be convenient or beneficial, and that hesitation has NOTHING to do with an emotional connection. You don't think I haven't thought about it? How easy it could be? But I don't, because THAT'S what's stupid, just acting on any old whim of my own nature. That's WEAK. And I'm stronger than that. If you want to try again, I've settled down again a little, but if you persist in this inaccurate and frankly idiotic pop culture depiction of sociopathy, I'm out of here.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 7:41 AM
Quote:What's the benefit of holding yourself back?
Quote: Also... sociopathy/psychopathy isn't checking off things on a list.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 7:56 AM
STORYMARK
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:05 AM
Quote:because I sometimes regret what I do, what I am
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:08 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Storymark: Oddest conversation Ive seen in a while... Byte, do you think you are the sole arbiter of what the term "sociopath" means?? Excuse me while I soak in all these sweet, sweet conservative tears. "We will never have the elite, smart people on our side." -- Rick "Frothy" Santorum "Goram it kid, let's frak this thing and go home! Engage!"
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:13 AM
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Quote:Originally posted by Storymark: Oddest conversation Ive seen in a while... Byte, do you think you are the sole arbiter of what the term "sociopath" means?? Excuse me while I soak in all these sweet, sweet conservative tears. "We will never have the elite, smart people on our side." -- Rick "Frothy" Santorum "Goram it kid, let's frak this thing and go home! Engage!" Since I'm a sociopath, I think I'm more qualified to talk on what it means to be a sociopath than someone who isn't.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:19 AM
Quote:Who gets to feel your wrath, and why?
Quote:But they do not necessarily indicate a sociopath or psychopath. There are many parts of society and personal behavior worthy of disdain. There are reasons to be antisocial and to have trouble connecting emotionally to others. These things can be the result of any number of stimuli or experiences.
Quote:They focus on convincing the individual that obeying the rules of society is a more efficient route to their desires.
Quote:In what scenarios do you hurt people? What or whom do you sacrifice to get what you value, and why do you choose them?
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:22 AM
Quote:If I told you I was a sociopath, would you find that odd and inconsistent with observed behavior? Would you conclude that I must be right, because I think so and I am the best one to know?
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:24 AM
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:31 AM
Quote:So, if I claim to be something, no matter how well my behavior suits established guidelines for such a label - I can then re-define the condition, becuase, well, Im just that certain?
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:33 AM
Quote:Society itself, of course. That's what I really hate, individual people are harmless and they have no real relevance to me or to my personal war anyway. I'm just biding my time for the right moment to do something that'll impact it.
Quote:Ugh. You're trying to be all "you're not really a sociopath!" and trying to be all nice to me about it. I don't get why people can't just be honest with me. It's PLAINLY apparent.
Quote:What do you get out of this, huh? Trying to make me think I'm not?
Quote:Gee, what've I been saying already?
Quote:Well, I like fighting, I get a good rush out of it, and that usually involves putting the hurt on. And that includes verbal arguments, and trying to provoke people into the same kinda rages I can fly into, but I never seem to be able to pull that off.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:37 AM
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Like I said, in regards to psychology, and on the internet, yes, because you can be acting.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:40 AM
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Quote:If I told you I was a sociopath, would you find that odd and inconsistent with observed behavior? Would you conclude that I must be right, because I think so and I am the best one to know? Well yeah. How would I know? It's the internet, any one of us could be putting everyone else on, trolling the hell out of everyone.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:46 AM
Quote: What have you actually done, specifically, that qualifies you as a sociopath?
Quote: I'm just not convinced on the sociopathy. You haven't told me anything to provide evidence for it yet, either.
Quote:Sociopathy isn't chosen. It's who you are. Forever. Anything better you ever do, say, or show is just pretends to get what you want.
Quote:a desire to change.
Quote: And since you fight, I guess it's not just 'society' that feels your wrath. Who do you fight, and why?
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 8:51 AM
Quote:I have students who call themselves sociopaths, mainly becuase they think it makes them look edgy/dangerous
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:09 AM
Quote:I've already talked about the stuff I CAN talk about here. This is a public forum, I'm not going to incriminate myself just to make some dumb point.
Quote:Then you're not really paying attention, man.
Quote:...Yeah, and?
Quote:Said I feel regret. Didn't say I want to change.
Quote:It'll be easier if you all know what I am, because then you won't make a fuss about it when I disappear.
Quote:Depends on how fast they can get away from me.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:18 AM
Quote:But I understand if you prefer not to discuss events that would discredit your proposal.
Quote:You want to feel normal. Not act normal. Not fool people. Feel normal. That's a desire to feel different than you are. A desire to change.
Quote:And pushing people away isn't specifically sociopathic, although claiming sociopathy is a fair method of pushing people away. So are insulting outbursts and rages.
Quote: So do you only fight fast people, or slow people? And is that your only criteria? Foot speed?
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Quote:I have students who call themselves sociopaths, mainly becuase they think it makes them look edgy/dangerous You think I'm doing this just to look edgy? I'm hurt.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:23 AM
Quote:You seem intent on deliberately missing the point.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:26 AM
Quote:You misunderstood.
Quote:It would be nice if it actually worked. :/
Quote:No. Fine. Lately it's been the jerks who proposition me on the streets thinking I'm a prostitute, or guys who are mean to the help at restaurants. But sometimes when my blood gets up, they get scared and run off first.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:30 AM
Quote:So, tell me how you try to make yourself feel normal, but simultaneously have no desire to change. Help me to understand.
Quote:You want to fight an unjust society, jerks, and mean people. Forgive me if I do not recoil in alarm at your sociopathy.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:40 AM
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:43 AM
FREMDFIRMA
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Since I'm a sociopath, I think I'm more qualified to talk on what it means to be a sociopath than someone who isn't.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:50 AM
Quote:If I am to accept your self-identification as a sociopath based on the information provided, then my life is dripping with sociopaths.
Quote:But so far, if I accept what you say at face value... Then we are both sociopathic, and simply pretend differently to the world.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 9:54 AM
Quote:Originally posted by FREMDFIRMA: Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Since I'm a sociopath, I think I'm more qualified to talk on what it means to be a sociopath than someone who isn't. *snicker* http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NWordPrivileges Couldn't resist. Myself, I have a different definition, set of them, really.... Of course, trying to explain what the differences between a Spark, Dark Spark, Psychopath and Sociopath are always seems to get lost in translation somehow, apparently cause some folk simply lack some of the essential mental concepts TO get their head around it, or cause I am just awful at explaining it - that happens when I try to explain my theological or moral beliefs as well, so I guess I am kinda used to it. While my use of the term "Spark" pre-dated the comic in question, they really do a MUCH better job of explaining some of how it works than I do. (That and I REALLY think the page image oughta be Bytes forum avatar!) http://girlgenius.wikia.com/wiki/Spark For mine own I think the balance falls over to Dark Spark, on the notion of longterm planning, Sociopaths tend to slip easier into quicker gratification at the expense of the long game cause of poor impulse control, but I care not for defining people, stuffing them into little categorical boxes and dismissing all the wonderful and awful facets of the person within - I simply accept or reject them as they are. One other useful note, robbed from a concept expressed in Order of The Stick (regarding Belkar Bitterleaf) - for someone badly emotionally stunted, learning to fake character development *IS* character development, in a kinda-sorta-meta way, really. One *can* "care" on a cognitive level without necessarily having anything on an emotional level to back it up - I personally prefer to do so cause when I dare involve emotion/compassion... things turn nasty in a hurry. -Frem
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:05 AM
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Because I'm not normal, so it's pretty meaningless. I don't really know why I play at friendship. I just do. It's a quirk. In real life I pretty much have no friends, and I'm the same as I always am. I'm not sad. That's just what happened. People got tired of my shit and moved on.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:17 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Storymark: Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: Because I'm not normal, so it's pretty meaningless. I don't really know why I play at friendship. I just do. It's a quirk. In real life I pretty much have no friends, and I'm the same as I always am. I'm not sad. That's just what happened. People got tired of my shit and moved on. Not trying to be mean here - but it sounds like you just have terrible social skills, and telling yourself you're a sociopath releives you of making any effort to improve them. Excuse me while I soak in all these sweet, sweet conservative tears. "We will never have the elite, smart people on our side." -- Rick "Frothy" Santorum "Goram it kid, let's frak this thing and go home! Engage!"
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:44 AM
Quote:but it sounds like you just have terrible social skills, and telling yourself you're a sociopath releives you of making any effort to improve them.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:48 AM
Quote:Originally posted by ANTHONYT: Concern for others does not, however, top my list of sociopathic indicators. --Anthony
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:49 AM
Quote:Originally posted by BYTEMITE: But I'm still a sociopath.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:52 AM
Quote:Ok. And Im a Jedi.
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