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Haken is not around because...

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UPDATED: Saturday, September 17, 2011 09:39
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Friday, September 2, 2011 11:35 AM

Likes to mess with stuffs.

Hi, all:

Just wanted to drop a quick note about why I haven't been around much for the past couple of months.

My father-in-law was suffering from terminal colon cancer and eventually passed away about a couple of weeks ago. My wife, being an only child, was left with the responsibilities of having to take care of all the things that goes along with having a parent die, including the care of my distraught mother-in-law. Since my wife can't do it alone, I've been helping her out as much as I can.

To make matters worst, my mother-in-law has now been diagnosed with lymphoma herself. We're still waiting for test results to see what type of lymphoma it is.

Suffice to say, this has been a huge emotional and physical roller coaster for our family and pretty much our own lives have been put on hold so that we can deal with these unfortunate events.

I do occasionally check the site to make sure everything is still running smoothly, but is unable to do much more at the moment since I'm not home as we are over at my mother-in-law's.

Hopefully things will get better in the coming weeks and I'll be able to devote more time on the site.

Anyway, just wanted to let you all know because some of you have been dropping me emails, messages, etc. wondering how things are going and where I'm at.

Will keep you all posted.

Best,
Haken

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Friday, September 2, 2011 12:08 PM

ECGORDON

There's no place I can be since I found Serenity.

Condolences on the loss, Haken. Not to worry, we'll hold until you get back.

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Friday, September 2, 2011 12:18 PM

DAVESHAYNE

My condolences re: FiL and best wishes Re: MiL for a more treatable result on the Lymphoma.

David

'Begone, sugar-free candy antichrist!' - Nathan Rabin.

'Geeks can't admit that anything worthwhile was invented before 1981. Soon, "making cocoa" will be called "milk hacking."' - Lore Sjoberg

http://xkcd.com/386/

"Don't worry. Captain Hammer will save us." - Penny.

I has myspace - http://www.myspace.com/daveshayneforpresident

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Friday, September 2, 2011 12:24 PM

WHOZIT

My sympathys.

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Friday, September 2, 2011 12:43 PM

ARTCAT81

hugs hun, sending positive vibes your way

Browncoats are the shiniest folks in the 'verse
www.texasartcat.com/bluesun.html <--my bluesunshop

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Friday, September 2, 2011 12:47 PM

PIRATENEWS

John Lee, conspiracy therapist at Hollywood award-winner History Channel-mocked SNL-spoofed PirateNew.org wooHOO!!!!!!

Thanks for stepping up. Been there done that.

Google Gershen and Macrobiotic Diet. Baking soda is useful. Vitamin K.

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Friday, September 2, 2011 1:58 PM

BYTEMITE

I'm sorry to hear about that. :( I know how difficult the whole estate settling business is, my mother is still working on sorting out and spliting up her mother's estate about six months later.

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Friday, September 2, 2011 2:11 PM

MOOSE

Quote:
Originally posted by ecgordon:
Condolences on the loss, Haken. Not to worry, we'll hold until you get back.

This.

Exactly.

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Friday, September 2, 2011 2:29 PM

CHRISISALL

So sorry Haken, been there with my Mom's terminal cancer. It really sucks.
All my best.

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Friday, September 2, 2011 2:30 PM

CYBERSNARK

Yeah. Take all the time you need, Haken, you owe us nothing.

Condolences and sympathies.

-----
We applied the cortical electrodes but were unable to get a neural reaction from either patient.

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Friday, September 2, 2011 4:55 PM

FREMDFIRMA

Quote:
Originally posted by ecgordon:
Condolences on the loss, Haken. Not to worry, we'll hold until you get back.

Absolutely, we're browncoats, it's what we do.

If you need anythin though, let us know, will you ?

-Frem

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Friday, September 2, 2011 5:23 PM

DREAMTROVE

Sorry to hear :'(

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Friday, September 2, 2011 7:42 PM

WISHIMAY

Egad! Well, I hope y'all catch a break. My sympathy to yer wife, and everyone involved. It's a painful altering of reality for sure.

We've all got our fingers crossed, and we'll hold together just fine. You do what needs to be done.

And when ya get back, maybe we oughta start up a cancer research charity...

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Saturday, September 3, 2011 3:39 AM

JAKE7

So sorry to hear, Haken! My sympathies on your loss and I hope things go well for your Mother-in-law.

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Saturday, September 3, 2011 4:20 AM

THESOMNAMBULIST

Hey Haken. Very sorry for your troubles. I'm currently dealing with something very similar with my girlfriends father at the moment. It's a tough and brutal experience. I wish you and your wife well in helping your mother-in-law find the strength to deal with her illness.

When you're ready, we'll all still be here.

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Saturday, September 3, 2011 8:48 AM

MALSDOXY

I know what did this...

Stay strong for them Haken, we'll hold until you return

"Haven't you killed me enough for one day ?"
- Mal, War Stories

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Saturday, September 3, 2011 9:04 AM

BUP

No more running. I aim to misbehave.

What a mess. I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. Take care of yourselves. Be there for each other, love and understanding are things you'll surely need to both give and receive at this time. I wish I had something deeper and more profound to offer. I hope I helped just a little bit.

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Saturday, September 3, 2011 9:05 AM

FLORALBUNNY

Hugs, Haken. Know you're not alone in such a situation.

bun

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Saturday, September 3, 2011 12:36 PM

PIZMOBEACH

... fully loaded, safety off...

Hang in there Haken - you know we're here if you need anything.

Scifi movie music + Firefly dialogue clips, 24 hours a day - http://www.scifiradio.com

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Sunday, September 4, 2011 6:05 AM

SISTER

So sorry for your loss, and the added concern of another ill family member, Haken. We're still flying and will hold until you get back.

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Sunday, September 4, 2011 6:14 AM

DMI

Expired, forgotten, spoiled rotten.

Quote:
Originally posted by Moose:
Quote:
Originally posted by ecgordon:
Condolences on the loss, Haken. Not to worry, we'll hold until you get back.

This.

Exactly.

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I pray for one last landing,
on the globe that gave me birth.
Let me rest my eyes on the fleecy skies
and the cool, green hills of Earth.

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Sunday, September 4, 2011 12:40 PM

DANCINGNEKO

Deepest condolences to your family on your FiL's passing, and MiL's diagnosis.

Let us know if you need a hand (or five, or a platoon even). Until then, we'll hold.

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Sunday, September 4, 2011 4:47 PM

the movie is not the Series. Only the facts have been changed, to irritate the innocent; the names of the actors and characters remain the same

Quote:
Originally posted by ecgordon, seconded by Moose, thirded by DMI:
Condolences on the loss, Haken. Not to worry, we'll hold until you get back.

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Sunday, September 4, 2011 10:20 PM

VERASAMUELS

::Hugs:: to both of you.

Lost my mother to cancer in 2001. Again, am an only child. Dealing with all the practical stuff takes time. There will be plenty of 'Coats watching the shop while you're away.

Devout Keeper of Jayne's Lunchbox

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Monday, September 5, 2011 5:09 AM

SAVEWASH

Now I am learning about scary.

Best wishes to you and your family, Haken.

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Monday, September 5, 2011 8:56 AM

MAL4PREZ

No worries about the site, Haken, do whatever you need to do! If positive energy helps, you certainly have a whole lot of it coming from a whole lot of places around the world. We'll all be thinking of you and your family!

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hmm-burble-blah, blah-blah-blah, take a left

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Monday, September 5, 2011 5:48 PM

SLUMMING

Been gone from this site a long time myself, sadly for very similar reasons. Just felt compelled to check in tonight for some reason, and saw your post. Please know that though time and chance should alter your world, you are not alone, my Firefly friend. And when the 'verse tilts back into place for you, all the lovely Browncoats will be right here.

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Monday, September 5, 2011 6:49 PM

PEULSAR5

We sniff the air, we don't kiss the dirt.

My heartfelt sympathies, Sir. You know your fellow Browncoats are here if you need us.

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Tuesday, September 6, 2011 6:42 AM

MSA

HUGS Haken

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

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Wednesday, September 7, 2011 7:41 PM

RIONAEIRE

Beir bua agus beannacht

I'm sorry for your family's loss and I'm glad that you're there to support your wife through all of this. Handling an estate is hard but losing a parent is way harder. And I hope that her mom has the strength to keep fighting.

"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya

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Thursday, September 8, 2011 3:46 PM

INVADERCHAT

Condolences.
It must be a very difficult time but I hope the collective vibes being sent to you and your family lessen the load at least somewhat.

Keep flying.

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Saturday, September 10, 2011 4:09 AM

WISHIMAY

Let us know when you know something -so's we can uncross our fingers!!

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Saturday, September 10, 2011 6:15 AM

OPPYH

Haken,
Life gets complicated every now, and then. Hang in there buddy. Wishing you, and your wife a little good luck.

----------------------------------------------------------------

70's TV FOREVER

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Sunday, September 11, 2011 6:15 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.

Haken

I'm sorry to hear all that. Do what you need to do. We'll cruise OK till you're back.

Remember when teachers, public employees, Planned Parenthood, NPR and PBS crashed the stock market, wiped out half of our 401Ks, took trillions in taxpayer funded bailouts, spilled oil in the Gulf of Mexico, gave themselves billions in bonuses, and paid no taxes?

Yeah, me neither....

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Thursday, September 15, 2011 4:30 PM

HAKEN

Likes to mess with stuffs.

Thank you everyone for your concerns and support.

Here's a bit of an update on the situation. Unfortunately, the test results for my mother-in-law came back and the lymphoma is in her bone marrow, which means it's stage 4. Her chemo will begin on Tuesday and we've decided to move her into our house so that we can better help her through her chemotherapy. Everyone I've spoken to who has gone through this have told me the first treatment is the hardest and will pretty much wipe her out physically. Anyway, that's the latest. Will post more as things come up. Again, thank you all for your support.

http://about.me/haken

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Thursday, September 15, 2011 6:21 PM

WISHIMAY

Damn.

Just...damn.

Universe just ain't fair.
I hope your wife and family find the strength to get through this again.(and I hope you have a very thorough doctor for your wife, too!) This kinda stress can wreak havoc with a person's immune system....

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Friday, September 16, 2011 2:12 PM

MALSDOXY

I know what did this...

wishimay is right, Haken, this can take a huge toll on the caregivers. You and your wife will need to take some 'me' time over the next few months and let others look after mom-in-law.
We're with you in spirit

"Haven't you killed me enough for one day ?"
- Mal, War Stories

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Saturday, September 17, 2011 9:39 AM

FOLLOWMAL

Take care of you and yours Haken.
Thank you for letting us know.

Prayers sent your way.

http://www.kidsneedtoread.org/

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